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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have just had the most embarrassing morning if my life, a conversation between my self and a female colleague has left me being accused of being racist, I would see the funny side of it if it wasn't so embarrassing to have to explain myself to her, my boss and other members of staff

We were talking about who we fancy at our work place she threw one name at me and I said "nah don't like vanilla girls" as a joke she took it that I meant I don't like white girls, and told my supervisor about my racist behaviour so I have had to explain exactly what I ment by it and explain to all concerned my actions, right now I feel like handing my notice in, ill be glad when this week is over.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I feel for ya buddy. I don't understand why so many people are so quick to take offence at the most innocent remark.

Surely you can just easily explain what vanilla means in this context ?

Hope it resolves itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ever discuss sex or religion at work, it never adds anything to your life.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

why wouldn't you be allowed to not fancy white girls? It's not what you meant, but it not racist to have a preference for attraction. You might have said, no I don't like blondes, or gingers, or big chested woman, would she have reported that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the term 'Vanilla'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I feel for ya buddy. I don't understand why so many people are so quick to take offence at the most innocent remark.

Surely you can just easily explain what vanilla means in this context ?

Hope it resolves itself "

I have and no further action has been taken but I hate the fact that I have had to explain to so many people what I ment, even if she had just said to me "what do you mean by that" I could have sorted it there and then

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could say you meant the word 'vanilla' to be plain and ordinary, which the girl you were speaking to wasn't. Get union support.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could say you meant the word 'vanilla' to be plain and ordinary, which the girl you were speaking to wasn't. Get union support. "

It's done now, the person in question is a nice person and I was joking but I feel bad now that I said it me and my big mouth

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Never ever discuss sex or religion at work, it never adds anything to your life."

Unless you're a member of the clergy.

Mind you, even then ..........

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

PS. Is vanilla white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS. Is vanilla white?"

Vanilla is atually black by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol white people

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

It's a bit like people saying you can't say blackboard anymore (which are rarely used in schools anyway now) as the 'pc brigade' won't allow it. Which is a common myth.

There's little you can do about ignorance sometimes.

Don't be embarrassed. You've done nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she apologise? Some people.... Daft bint.

Don't feel bad. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Vanilla pod is actually black. Sorry you had to go through that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were you and I were the slightest bit paranoid, I'd think they set me up. Considering you're not white and you didn't even start the conversation (or did you?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I just don't talk to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I just don't talk to people. "

Fuckin-A!!!

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