FabSwingers.com forum: safe sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am astounded to red so many profiles are requesting bareback. Do we need crusade of shocking adverts on TV to help people remember life is precious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes might be a good idea, costs lot of money though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What shocks me is the younger generations lack of knowledge about sex and safety, when u see these documentaries and they get questioned the answers shock me to the core!!

And apparently they give lots of education in school these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What shocks me is the amount of people on sex sites who moan about other peoples preferences for having sex. Maybe if people just stuck to their own preferences and didn't try to belittle others, then the site would be a far better place!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I grew up with this...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WT-RH_2gfog

Scared the shit out of me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum"

So? That's a rather different act to bareback sex with a much lower risk associated.

How about you do what you're happy with and leave everyone else to decide what level of risk they are willing to accept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are adults who I am sure can make informed choices, I am sure they know the risks, if its not your cup of tea why let it bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ikr same thing I said. Some say to stop pregnancy but what about sti

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh dear, oh dear.

I thought I made a sensible post, but it seems by being proactive about safe sex is a bad thing and that I should leave people alone.

Sometimes I bite my tongue, people can have opinions, but if you support swinging bareback then you are a fucking idiot.

I seldom swear, there are supposedly better ways to demonstrate feelings but sometimes idiots really get my goat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

I thought I made a sensible post, but it seems by being proactive about safe sex is a bad thing and that I should leave people alone.

Sometimes I bite my tongue, people can have opinions, but if you support swinging bareback then you are a fucking idiot.

I seldom swear, there are supposedly better ways to demonstrate feelings but sometimes idiots really get my goat.

Why would it bother you what other people do though? Yeah, sme folks may see your post as sensible, others will see it as condescending! Have you tried putting it in a shed with a sturdy lock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

I thought I made a sensible post, but it seems by being proactive about safe sex is a bad thing and that I should leave people alone.

Sometimes I bite my tongue, people can have opinions, but if you support swinging bareback then you are a fucking idiot.

I seldom swear, there are supposedly better ways to demonstrate feelings but sometimes idiots really get my goat.

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It was a sensible post, but the thread isn't going how you wanted it to, which happens here a lot, no need to be petulant,whilst I don't agree with people having bareback sex, I cannot inflict my opinions and morals on others, I just avoid, avoid, avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

I thought I made a sensible post, but it seems by being proactive about safe sex is a bad thing and that I should leave people alone.

Sometimes I bite my tongue, people can have opinions, but if you support swinging bareback then you are a fucking idiot.

I seldom swear, there are supposedly better ways to demonstrate feelings but sometimes idiots really get my goat.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"oh dear, oh dear.

I thought I made a sensible post, but it seems by being proactive about safe sex is a bad thing and that I should leave people alone.Sometimes I bite my tongue, people can have opinions, but if you support swinging bareback then you are a fucking idiot.I seldom swear, there are supposedly better ways to demonstrate feelings but sometimes idiots really get my goat."

There must be an anti-bareback post for every day of the week on fab, so it's always worth looking at past form on here.

Probably the majority of the population would be anti-swinging, and we'd all be viewed as filth, even if many would be somewhat jealous of our pleasures.

As adults, we know that if we try to force something onto others, they normally back off, and stop listening. It's all about getting the right message, communicated in the right way, via the right medium.

There comes a point where we are better just keeping quiet, only aiming to influence those that we really have influence over. Anything else is wasted energy and fab server and bandwidth space used up, where it's upon fab. I usually keep quiet. I'm an adult and free to choose to swing, as others are free to make their own choices in life: many would like some of our freedoms taken away, and I'd fight to the death to allow people to have freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am astounded to red so many profiles are requesting bareback. Do we need crusade of shocking adverts on TV to help people remember life is precious."

Ah yes safe sex - ya gotta do it! No more climbing on the wardrobe for me at my advancing age screaming 'brace yaself Doris, I'm about to launch ' ! THOSE were the days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum"

Your veri states that you 'have a great tongue'. So i'm guessing you went down on her. Tell me, did you use a femdom or did you swallow her juices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are not into bareback sex , but in a perfect world without STI,s we would be. We are not in a position to preach to others and it is their choice we respect that.. All we would ask for from others is honesty , tell us the facts of your lifestyle and let us make our judgement from that if we decide to sleep with you.

How many on here would admit to using hard drugs. It's not all about bareback!!!

Then on the other hand just because we swing a bit doesn't mean that we sleep with numerous partners. There are many responsible and many irresponsible people on here and people will lie and say many things just to get laid. Being a good judge of character is very important we feel and by being patient with meets usually rules out the wrong types for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery. "

You did not take the last line in context of the whole post

I was taking "the piss"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh right

must say i wish i never made the bloody post. I wasnt having a go at people, i just think its madness to go bareback.

like one poster said, in a perfect world we could all go bareback but sadly we cant.

Please consider the people around you, and Im not on about your sexual partners, but your children, family, friends and colleagues.

You can seriously change their lives if anything happened to you.

I seldom post in here and wasn't aware a post like mine was common occurance, if I was aware perhaps I would hve not made it.

However, please think about the wider consequences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery.

You did not take the last line in context of the whole post

I was taking "the piss""

you are right i missed your point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh right

must say i wish i never made the bloody post. I wasnt having a go at people, i just think its madness to go bareback.

like one poster said, in a perfect world we could all go bareback but sadly we cant.

Please consider the people around you, and Im not on about your sexual partners, but your children, family, friends and colleagues.

You can seriously change their lives if anything happened to you.

I seldom post in here and wasn't aware a post like mine was common occurance, if I was aware perhaps I would hve not made it.

However, please think about the wider consequences.

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debate is good

A "mass debate " even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I can't control what others do, I'll be responsible for my own conduct and leave it at that.

The reality is I could pick up something from anyone. Even those who preach safe sex till the cows come home.

I have my army hat on now. Fire at will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery.

You did not take the last line in context of the whole post

I was taking "the piss""

And I was retorting with my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since I can't control what others do, I'll be responsible for my own conduct and leave it at that.

The reality is I could pick up something from anyone. Even those who preach safe sex till the cows come home.

I have my army hat on now. Fire at will!

I hear theres a shortage of Williams in the army now! Per bastards cop it all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery.

You did not take the last line in context of the whole post

I was taking "the piss"

And I was retorting with my opinion. "

"Whoosh"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh dear, oh dear.

Hey I'll start a thread then when people give an opinion that differs to mine I'll call them names .

Next you'll be saying they all read the Daily Mail !

They're the retorts I like the best. If you don't agree with my opinion you must read the Mail, sun or watch BBC or sky news. It's like a news based snobbery.

You did not take the last line in context of the whole post

I was taking "the piss"

And I was retorting with my opinion.

"Whoosh""

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since I can't control what others do, I'll be responsible for my own conduct and leave it at that.

The reality is I could pick up something from anyone. Even those who preach safe sex till the cows come home.

I have my army hat on now. Fire at will!

I hear theres a shortage of Williams in the army now! Per bastards cop it all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am astounded to red so many profiles are requesting bareback. Do we need crusade of shocking adverts on TV to help people remember life is precious."

They all think it wont happen to them but to some it does makes you think about abstinence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since I can't control what others do, I'll be responsible for my own conduct and leave it at that.

The reality is I could pick up something from anyone. Even those who preach safe sex till the cows come home.

I have my army hat on now. Fire at will!

Im the same on that I look after my own health. People lie dont take their word for it is always the best way to be.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum

Your veri states that you 'have a great tongue'. So i'm guessing you went down on her. Tell me, did you use a femdom or did you swallow her juices?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are in charge of your own health and take what others tell you about there's with a pinch of salt as people wouldn't be likely to tell you if they had one and may nit even know if they don't get tested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum"

What shocks me is pple on here Giving and receive oral with cold sores around their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i see many people of all ages insisting on condoms but willing to swallow cum

What shocks me is pple on here Giving and receive oral with cold sores around their mouths

You must have good eyesight, i havnt seen any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least those asking are being honest about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair there is no such thing as safe sex, there is however safer sex just as there is safer driving as the inherent risk is always there!

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