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Rant. friends invites......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't people understand profiles? Most of us I imagine like a message before a friend invite? Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybidy send redscorpio a friends invite just to make her day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everybidy send redscorpio a friends invite just to make her day "

everybidy and everybody aswell, what the hell lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let them all pile up, if you don't respond to them & ignore them, they can't send another.

It's really not worth getting wound up about & you can use it as an extra filter. If someone sends me a friend intive without asking 1st or a cock pic I tend to give them a thanks but no thanks as they clearly haven't read of chosen to ignore a simple request, so would not want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let it get to me. Unless I have been asked or ask for an invite I don't look at the friends invite list or the winks list. I don't delete just leave them there.

I don't get how as I have heard people get upset of being added as a friend without being asked as as far as I'm aware unless you actually click accept invite you can't add anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly there are loads of chancers out there who are only interested in seeing someone's friends only pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just let them all pile up, if you don't respond to them & ignore them, they can't send another.

It's really not worth getting wound up about & you can use it as an extra filter. If someone sends me a friend intive without asking 1st or a cock pic I tend to give them a thanks but no thanks as they clearly haven't read of chosen to ignore a simple request, so would not want to meet them.

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thank you. A sensible response it hasn't wound me up I just thought I'd post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly there are loads of chancers out there who are only interested in seeing someone's friends only pics."

In which case wait till they go off line look add as friend research pics then delete. Not that I've done it mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?"

no wonder guys have a bad rep in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really?

no wonder guys have a bad rep in here "
not all I've found some good ones on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really?

no wonder guys have a bad rep in here not all I've found some good ones on here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought it was a male thing but had a few just lately off women without a single message.... Wonder if they are men lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Just let them all pile up, if you don't respond to them & ignore them, they can't send another.

It's really not worth getting wound up about & you can use it as an extra filter. If someone sends me a friend intive without asking 1st or a cock pic I tend to give them a thanks but no thanks as they clearly haven't read of chosen to ignore a simple request, so would not want to meet them.

thank you. A sensible response it hasn't wound me up I just thought I'd post "

I have over 200 friend invites. Once they send you one, if you don't delete it, they can't send another. I just leave them there. Even though I give the warning on my profile I still get them. So it shows they haven't read it which means I wouldn't find them interesting enough to meet. Therefore it works as a kind of filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red Scorpio, could we please have a little more ranting and a few less reasonable solutions.

If I receive unsolicited friends invites,( currently running at 27.75 a day, from M, F, cpls and a goldfish called Andrew) I hunt them down like dogs and stick my tongue out at them.

Oh I feel much better now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just let them all pile up, if you don't respond to them & ignore them, they can't send another.

It's really not worth getting wound up about & you can use it as an extra filter. If someone sends me a friend intive without asking 1st or a cock pic I tend to give them a thanks but no thanks as they clearly haven't read of chosen to ignore a simple request, so would not want to meet them.

thank you. A sensible response it hasn't wound me up I just thought I'd post

I have over 200 friend invites. Once they send you one, if you don't delete it, they can't send another. I just leave them there. Even though I give the warning on my profile I still get them. So it shows they haven't read it which means I wouldn't find them interesting enough to meet. Therefore it works as a kind of filter. "
I have started doing this

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have a quick peek and if they're fitties with private pics I wait till they're offline, accept, have a perv and then delete from my friends list.

If they are drop dead gorgeous fitties I then pursue till they give in and shag them senseless.

The fuglies I just leave stacking up on the friends requests cos then they can't send another. I think that expires after a month but meh.

I do the same with winks.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

And yes, I am that shallow.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If anybody is that desperate to see my cock picture (well thats what my ex calls me,, ) ask away

only picture I have in my friends gallery is my facial picture ,, so no good stuff,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My filters are now set and I either leave the ones that.haven't read profile or block and delete I only have about ten on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My filters are now set and I either leave the ones that.haven't read profile or block and delete I only have about ten on my friends list "

I will send you a friend invite lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really don't understand why people rant about something that can't be changed and yet can easily be solved.

We don't add random friend requests, we just have a nice pile of requests sitting there!

They won't be deleted do then they can't send another one, and they don't bother us one little bit!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Really don't understand why people rant about something that can't be changed and yet can easily be solved.

We don't add random friend requests, we just have a nice pile of requests sitting there!

They won't be deleted do then they can't send another one, and they don't bother us one little bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me how many I get if I put a new public photo up! Ffs the photo is public why u want to be friends???

I just leave them stack up and ignore them, they come of all members not just men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thread closed lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My friends list is a 'people I have fucked' list, hence why it's private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread closed lol"

Why is it closed?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Just let them all pile up, if you don't respond to them & ignore them, they can't send another.

It's really not worth getting wound up about & you can use it as an extra filter. If someone sends me a friend intive without asking 1st or a cock pic I tend to give them a thanks but no thanks as they clearly haven't read of chosen to ignore a simple request, so would not want to meet them.

thank you. A sensible response it hasn't wound me up I just thought I'd post

I have over 200 friend invites. Once they send you one, if you don't delete it, they can't send another. I just leave them there. Even though I give the warning on my profile I still get them. So it shows they haven't read it which means I wouldn't find them interesting enough to meet. Therefore it works as a kind of filter. "

Exactly this for me too.

If they message after sending one does it tell them you didn't accept yet or dies that not work that way?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Just click on friends invites and go straight back out. I do.

It takes off the notification that you have new ones, and they cant try and re-ad you whilst you haven't declined/accepted them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread closed lol

Why is it closed? "

It isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well is not a friends request a message?

Lack of manners, never get why they think it owuld work. I always ask if I can send a friends request before I send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very first line of my profile makes my thoughts on winks and friends invites very clear, yet I still get plenty of them - and dish out plenty of blocks as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why people let things like this bother them, I have no idea, I used to, but its a futile exercise at best to get so worked up about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thread closed lol

Why is it closed?

It isn't "
it was a hopeful hint to ffn do do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread closed lol

Why is it closed?

It isn't it was a hopeful hint to ffn do do"

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres no excuse with your profile, however sometimes we like to send them before messaging if people only have friends only photos. No point messaging saying, hey we'd like to get to know you, getting on and then when they accept you click on their gallery and you find them unattractive, it's awkward then as you have to pretty much take back everything you've said! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres no excuse with your profile, however sometimes we like to send them before messaging if people only have friends only photos. No point messaging saying, hey we'd like to get to know you, getting on and then when they accept you click on their gallery and you find them unattractive, it's awkward then as you have to pretty much take back everything you've said! X "
a message and a face pic is all I ask for after they have read my profile. It makes sense to read first then decide. I can't display face pic as I'm married but do send them

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don't people understand profiles? Most of us I imagine like a message before a friend invite? Rant over"

A message with more than one sentence and a dripping cock pic attached would be nicer...but I'm giving up hope on that one!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Really don't understand why people rant about something that can't be changed and yet can easily be solved.

We don't add random friend requests, we just have a nice pile of requests sitting there!

They won't be deleted do then they can't send another one, and they don't bother us one little bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really don't understand why people rant about something that can't be changed and yet can easily be solved.

We don't add random friend requests, we just have a nice pile of requests sitting there!

They won't be deleted do then they can't send another one, and they don't bother us one little bit!

"

Agreed, just leave it and enjoy the quiet life

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