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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As humans, do you think we subconsciously let get ourselves into complicated/difficult situations because it is more exciting than when things are straightforward?

I am tempted to log off and go back to being boring for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love complicated situations!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will admit to enjoying a little drama on occasion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love complicated situations!!! "

I had noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah I dont do drama, id rather a peaceful carefree life without any complications

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

At the moment I am a complicated situation!

No drama, but definitely complicated. Fortunately very few people are put off by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is simple, we all over complicate things so we feel special and needed x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

I think it's my manoeuvring and machinations, in an attempt for an easy uncomplicated life, cause events, effects and things to happen to screw things up. Sods Law.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I can't deal with complications so try and lead an uncomplicated life...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think we are drawn to complicated situations

I think life just naturally throws things at us and we have to live with what it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back to my marbles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wish life would stop throwing things at me to test me

I do like excitement but do sometimes wish things were easy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like a bit of drama as long as I'm in the audience can't be doing with it in my own life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I studied with the shoalin monks for a year in china they taught me how to channel positivity and deflect negativity,

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

In my 'fab' life I keep everything very uncomplicated. I choose what I want to do and when with who. Don't let compliments go to my head and always keep everything NSA.

Real life can be a bit complicated occasionally but I try to deal as best I can and not let it get to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish my complications would chill the fuck out as they are leaving me exhausted and drained! I just want things to work out the way we want and for people to back off and leave us the hell alone! I for one have had enough complications, used to be fun now it's just plain hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm complicated

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not complicated. I'm simple. I have this in writing on a report from school

No, I think some people are drama queens, at Uni I knew a girl who had to have a new drama every week, whether it be a feud with someone, or a new romance, she had to have some topic of the week to make her feel interesting. On the other hand, my Granddad went through life with no drama at all and apart from a bit of unpleasantness in the early 1940s never did anything aggressive.

Some people like complicated lives, others don't

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm complex but uncomplicated. I prefer my Fab life uncomplicated and where possible my day to day life too.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my life got complicated at one point then I realised I was the one making it complicated so I changed it and have never looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with the exception of our relationship, we both try to avoid drama as much as possible, in exchange for an easy life.

some seem to search these kind of things out, and V's sister is always creating a vortex of madness around herself, and seems to enjoy it, but hell, we dont even stay in a pub too long as when people get d*unk, things tend to get silly.

out by 10 is our mantra lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life just gets complicated at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excitement and complications are two seperate things. Especially if its concerning feelings and other people. There is always someone who will end up being hurt.

...i try and lead a simple life. But even that at times is complicated. However, i dont look to get myself in to complicated situations. I have more than enough shit to deal with.

Like Floro said, you just have to deal with what life throws at you. Sometimes the fun and excitement is in the solution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My everyday life is complicated, sometimes too complicated, some of the complications arise from other people bringing drama into my life, some of them because of my distant past, but the only complications that I embrace are those brought about by the constant evolution of me as a person as even at the age of 41 I'm still growing into myself and becoming comfortable with who I am, those are the complications that serve a perpouse and are to be embraced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boring is no fun you have to keep the old gray matter working and if nothing ells it helps pass the time.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I thrive on complication - there is a certain thrill about being astride two galloping horses (metaphorically) and reacting to response.

To me it stops the inward looking thought process - but hey, equally each to there own - well if no ones playing

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I dream of the day my every day life is uncomplicated. I've not sought drama but I've had one curve ball after another for a few years now. I cope but the idea of an a bit more peace and calm is very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dream of the day my every day life is uncomplicated. I've not sought drama but I've had one curve ball after another for a few years now. I cope but the idea of an a bit more peace and calm is very appealing. "

know how you feel x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My life is very complicated cause I make it that way, I'll never learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish life would stop throwing things at me to test me

I do like excitement but do sometimes wish things were easy. "

It certainly feels like I'm being tested at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is too complicated to allow much at all to be straightforward. Either someone wants to corner you for your money or someone doesn't want you to have what you work hard for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evening all - my work life is complicated, my family are always deep in drama - I'd like to think that I am the calming influence

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