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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get random posts off ipeople who you really don't expect, like we have odd messages from young gorgeous nubile ladies in their early 20s. The messages usually say something like "your gorgeous" or some other shite. Likewise occasional couples.

I see them as inbox cloggers. No intention of meeting us at all. Or has anyone else got a different experience?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its been a long time since I got a message from a buff young sexpot unfortunately, but when I do I treat them the same as any other message.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Do you get random posts off ipeople who you really don't expect, like we have odd messages from young gorgeous nubile ladies in their early 20s. The messages usually say something like "your gorgeous" or some other shite. Likewise occasional couples.

I see them as inbox cloggers. No intention of meeting us at all. Or has anyone else got a different experience? "

Yeah, I get em all the time. I refuse to apologise for being this pretty.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Do you get random posts off ipeople who you really don't expect, like we have odd messages from young gorgeous nubile ladies in their early 20s. The messages usually say something like "your gorgeous" or some other shite. Likewise occasional couples.

I see them as inbox cloggers. No intention of meeting us at all. Or has anyone else got a different experience? "

i get nowt can you send some my way pretty please

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I reply thanku usually that's last mail lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Inbox doggers - now that is one for the imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as I have filters set so no-one can do that though of course it doesn't stop the idiots of any age doing it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If it is sincerely meant, then it's a compliment. I've complimented people myself that I know I shan't meet, mostly because of distance and so on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've taken the cynical line. Perhaps these young beauties have spent hours trawling thru fab and finally they see our profile and think "yes, yes it's a match"!!

Erm nah lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it is sincerely meant, then it's a compliment. I've complimented people myself that I know I shan't meet, mostly because of distance and so on. "

They're piss taking bastards that's what they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes have had messages from very attractive couples and men, have met some very attractive men which was nice, but looks arent everything.

i think when you have met lots of people you realise that, though it was nice to have met different types of people.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"If it is sincerely meant, then it's a compliment. I've complimented people myself that I know I shan't meet, mostly because of distance and so on.

They're piss taking bastards that's what they are "

The chap who wanted me to go to a football match with him most certainly was!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay I'm not talking about guys here because they're a law unto themselves.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Okay I'm not talking about guys here because they're a law unto themselves.

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But some of my best random compliments have come from guys....

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I say thank u, if I like them then I chat more but if I don't and they keep bugging me then I block!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's easy to view any post that somehow falls outside of your expectations or desires as an issue, and maybe the law of averages means that some of it is. I generally take each message as something unique, either for me to consider or quickly to thank the sender, or move on. Experience often guides my thoughts, and it is wise to trust your gut instinct. Maybe the op is just somehow being more targeted or attractive to a peculiar sort of user, I dont know. As others say, filters can be your friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have heard some men i meet mention getting messages from these gorgeous young nubiles you mention, they have said they didnt really want to meet them. one man said there was a girl who looked like a page 3 model and all she did was ask for pictures, so he ended up meeting me we did have a good time though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i have heard some men i meet mention getting messages from these gorgeous young nubiles you mention, they have said they didnt really want to meet them. one man said there was a girl who looked like a page 3 model and all she did was ask for pictures, so he ended up meeting me we did have a good time though. "

Yes I think the feeling you get with them is their fake to be honest and I can't be bothered wasting god knows how much time messaging someone I don't believe is true. So to all those hot young ladies who keep pestering us after our wrinkly knackered bodies - if you're real sorry. If you Sid aged 93 from Grimsby - tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be a rare breed then because I don't send randoms and it's rare I get a random message, there are on the other hand people I would like to chat with but due to filters sometimes this is not possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I have seen a lady who is really attractive on here I have sometimes sent a message, nothing cheesy or corny, just saying how nice they look, always got a message back saying thanks, never pestered them after that,

sometimes it nice to give someone a compliment, it can make ppl smile

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

I reply with a thanks. I don't see it as anything more.

No harm, no foul. Lighten up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reply with a thanks. I don't see it as anything more.

No harm, no foul. Lighten up "

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