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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not let the lil man have two full xmas days? one day with you, the other day with him?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Really tough one when you are trying to balance everybody's needs around xmas - and sometimes you forget what you would really like in the process.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"why not let the lil man have two full xmas days? one day with you, the other day with him?"

Because there's no way he will not want to have him at all Xmas day. And I need a few hours Boxing Day afternoon to see my nan. We usually go to my mums with my sister etc on Xmas day but obviously won't spend the whole day there if he's off with his dad for a bit x

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Too much fuss over Xmas nowadays.

With it bring a 6 week affair doesn't matter what day it is.

Just commercial crap

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

He has him this year, you have him next year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

times like this i guess being a single parent has its plus points.. sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O the joys of the Festive Season

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X"

Your " x " & u get bac 2gether?

problem solved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

"

What a strange system of time you have, half a day each? Really.

Ever asked your kids if they'd like to spend some time with all of you together, civilly, at Christmas?

It could make a huge difference to their future well-being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"times like this i guess being a single parent has its plus points.. sadly "

Said from a child's viewpoint, well being?

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X

Your " x " & u get bac 2gether?

problem solved? "

Would solve the problem for 2 days but I'd rather have that than a lifetime of misery getting back together with that bellend!!

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X"

Not knowing how things work with you

If your son is old enough ask him what he prefer

If on speaking terms with ex have a word to sort things out so it is fair on all concerned but most especially your son.

Hope you solve it so everyone is happy especially your son

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"times like this i guess being a single parent has its plus points.. sadly

Said from a child's viewpoint, well being?

"

plus point being from my point of view that i don't have to make choices and decisions..

the 'sadly' point being that my daughter only has one parent (me) and he chose a life without her.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

What a strange system of time you have, half a day each? Really.

Ever asked your kids if they'd like to spend some time with all of you together, civilly, at Christmas?

It could make a huge difference to their future well-being. "

To be honest after he tried to beat me up when I was 7 months pregnant i prefer not to be in the same room as him at all. He has his new girlfriend and her daughter this year and they have his family to visit. I prefer to spend time with my family and they wouldn't allow him in the house.

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By *issHottieBottie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X

Not knowing how things work with you

If your son is old enough ask him what he prefer

If on speaking terms with ex have a word to sort things out so it is fair on all concerned but most especially your son.

Hope you solve it so everyone is happy especially your son"

He's only 2.5 so will just enjoy the fuss, toys and chocolate wherever he is. That's why I thought that as we don't live too far away so transport isn't a problem that splitting the days down the middle will be better. As we both will want to spend time with him Xmas day.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"times like this i guess being a single parent has its plus points.. sadly

Said from a child's viewpoint, well being?

plus point being from my point of view that i don't have to make choices and decisions..

the 'sadly' point being that my daughter only has one parent (me) and he chose a life without her. "

Better one loving parent than two fighting ones, when he's old and lonely he might think different

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Those of you with young kids that are seperated from your partners what are your arrangements for Xmas day??

My ex has Xmas day has Xmas day and Boxing Day as his 2 days off (from what I can figure out I've not asked him yet) he normally has our son from 9-5 on his 2nd day off which would be Boxing Day. But obviously he's going to want to have him Xmas day for a while too.

Would it be fair of me to suggest he picks him up in the morning both days and brings him back around lunchtime so we get half the day each??

Not helped by the fact that my mother has signed me up to go to my Nan's Boxing Day afternoon with the rest of the family without asking me so now I'm trying to keep her happy as well!! It's a nightmare!!!

This is the only part of Xmas I hate!!! X

Not knowing how things work with you

If your son is old enough ask him what he prefer

If on speaking terms with ex have a word to sort things out so it is fair on all concerned but most especially your son.

Hope you solve it so everyone is happy especially your son

He's only 2.5 so will just enjoy the fuss, toys and chocolate wherever he is. That's why I thought that as we don't live too far away so transport isn't a problem that splitting the days down the middle will be better. As we both will want to spend time with him Xmas day. "

I would have thought talking calmly to your ex is the way to start things and if that is not possible maybe you have a friend or family that can help bridge the gap. The main thing is that everyone wants to make it a special day for your son

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