FabSwingers.com forum: Men’s ages on fab!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Is amazing the number of perennial 39 and 49 year olds

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By *poolgalCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

think its just a man thing as dont think woman really do it much!!

but in saying that........lol not too sure..xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have seen a profile gain 20 years over night! Something is just not right with birthdays like that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?"
in what way we dont change much

ps i don't lie about my age

don't even feel 40

feel 21

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I have seen a profile gain 20 years over night! Something is just not right with birthdays like that lol."

Quite a lot of people born on the 29th of February it would seem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?in what way we dont change much

ps i don't lie about my age

don't even feel 40

feel 21

Men put up profiles and you look one day and they are XX age then later its a different age! Do men have memory loss on age on fab?

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

always been proud of my vintage - 1954 was a great year for creating wines (and men) that mature well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Age has never bothered me...lol.....am just growing old disgracefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men put up profiles and you look one day and they are XX age then later its a different age! Do men have memory loss on age on fab?"

Huh i have the opposite problem lol

I keeps thinkin im 46 this year not 45 lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Or perhaps they forget to add VAT

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

It is very true!!!

THey will message on the profile it will say 47 but in the message they say they are 54!!!!

Fabs updates it automatically when its ya bday so thats not the reason.

Moind you in saying that - think i am aabout 80 at the mo as did it for a joke and dont think i have changed it back!!!!

Doesnt stop me getting messages from 21-57 year olds tho!!!

LOL

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By *unstermanMan
over a year ago

Brum..ish

Oh, and women never ever fib about their ages do they? LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a verified man once .. his profile said he was 39. So when I turned up I was quite shocked to see a man who clearly was not 39 and wondered how he managed to get verified genuine - he admitted he was 47

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try being 29 and looking 19 lol then people asking how old you really are!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only MENS ages ?????

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Only MENS ages ?????"

Apparently only men lie about their ages

Met a lady once who after admitting she'd been 39 for as long as she could remember (so basically, add5 years ish) she had the gaul to ask me why men mess her about and can't simply be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only MENS ages ?????"

Some women do but from what i have been told the men seem to be far worse. I was tempted to reduce mine but think while i am still mid 30's i am still appealing to women

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Things in photos which are a giveaway …

Portrait shots:

Kipper tie

A Kevin Keegan perm.

A Gary Glitter fan club badge.

Eye liner and a Flock of Seagulls hair cut.

Things in the background:

Big bulky telly in a wooden cabinet with only 3 channel select buttons.

A Ford Granada/Capri

Anderson shelters.

A horse pulling the milk float.

A street without satellite dishes, cars and electric lighting (excluding Wales)

Women scrubbing steps wearing hairnets.

Kids in short trousers…. in that they are not long enough to cover their knees rather than not high enough to cover their pants!

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

Well I'm a genuine 51 but I believe I feel as young as the woman I'm feeling

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

"Things in photos which are a giveaway …

Portrait shots:

Kipper tie

A Kevin Keegan perm.

A Gary Glitter fan club badge.

Eye liner and a Flock of Seagulls hair cut.

Things in the background:

Big bulky telly in a wooden cabinet with only 3 channel select buttons.

A Ford Granada/Capri

Anderson shelters.

A horse pulling the milk float.

A street without satellite dishes, cars and electric lighting (excluding Wales)

Women scrubbing steps wearing hairnets.

Kids in short trousers…. in that they are not long enough to cover their knees rather than not high enough to cover their pants!

Very good PMSL love the bit excluding Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things in photos which are a giveaway …

Portrait shots:

Kipper tie

A Kevin Keegan perm.

A Gary Glitter fan club badge.

Eye liner and a Flock of Seagulls hair cut.

What about men in shorts?

Things in the background:

Big bulky telly in a wooden cabinet with only 3 channel select buttons.

A Ford Granada/Capri

Anderson shelters.

A horse pulling the milk float.

A street without satellite dishes, cars and electric lighting (excluding Wales)

Women scrubbing steps wearing hairnets.

Kids in short trousers…. in that they are not long enough to cover their knees rather than not high enough to cover their pants!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the flock of seagulls doo and the eyeliner made me look younger

PS, I know its spelt "do" but I got confused and asked the hairdresser for a flock of pigeons (doo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things in photos which are a giveaway …

Portrait shots:

Kipper tie

A Kevin Keegan perm.

A Gary Glitter fan club badge.

Eye liner and a Flock of Seagulls hair cut.

Things in the background:

Big bulky telly in a wooden cabinet with only 3 channel select buttons.

A Ford Granada/Capri

Anderson shelters.

A horse pulling the milk float.

A street without satellite dishes, cars and electric lighting (excluding Wales)

Women scrubbing steps wearing hairnets.

Kids in short trousers…. in that they are not long enough to cover their knees rather than not high enough to cover their pants!

Sounds like a good day out in my home town in Essex...PMSL

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?"
i know what ya mean big jump from early twenties to 46 overnight!!!! some men eh????? lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?i know what ya mean big jump from early twenties to 46 overnight!!!! some men eh????? lmao

46 me - 1963, 47 in october, but lok great for it lol good genes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?i know what ya mean big jump from early twenties to 46 overnight!!!! some men eh????? lmao

46 me - 1963, 47 in october, but lok great for it lol good genes"

When i posted under you yesterday you was early 20's and you aged over night! Lol she got you in one!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I've just noticed a guy I met last year has just dropped 5 years off of his age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

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now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

"
make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not see why lying would help as you still look the same if you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 55 on the 28th February and happy to be my age and honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 55 on the 28th February and happy to be my age and honest about it"

Good for you jed and happy belated bday :D !! xx

MissA & MrC

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

I hit the big 50 in a few weeks so does that mean i can bring it down by 5years

think i'll leave it....like i put on my birthday invites

Too old to get laid

Too young to retire

and proud to be A 1960's Original

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread !! we know of one couple who celebrated her 50th birthday but has gone back to being 47 ! lol... and another couple who we met nearly 5 years ago (when he admitted to being 51 ) and now he`s 49 lmaooo

Dunno why people do it....for the record Halo nearly 49 and Horn 50 in 2 weeks ...honest to God , cross our hearts

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My profile says 43 thats only cause i havent updated it. Think i will do that now

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

[Removed by poster at 02/03/10 16:17:59]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

make me

go on snoggy make her go on please lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

make me

go on snoggy make her go on please lol

"
dont you start ya bugger!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol..had me laughing my little socks off this did thanks guys xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

amazing the number of younger guys who ADD ON a few years when they realize you have lower as well as upper age limits

xxxx

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By *heekysusteCouple
over a year ago

Strawberry Hill

"I have seen a profile gain 20 years over night! Something is just not right with birthdays like that lol.

Quite a lot of people born on the 29th of February it would seem.

Like me

xx..im 10 1/2 now !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only MENS ages ?????

Some women do but from what i have been told the men seem to be far worse. I was tempted to reduce mine but think while i am still mid 30's i am still appealing to women

And that's why men lie. I've met men who are 45 but have 39 on their profile. One of my playmates is 55 but his profile says 47. I thought he was fibbing about 55, how he hopes to convince anyone he's younger amazes me.

Sadly I'll be 50 this year, I can't believe it, don't like it, but pointless lying about it!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You know something, i dont know why anyone lies about there age. I would sooner someone think im wearing well for my age than knock a few years off and them thinking im old for my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both 40 somethings and happy with that ... no need to lie. Oh and polo hunni there's no need to exclude wales from the advances in modern living, we've even had indoor toilets for a couple of years now .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 52 just about 2 weeks ago, and had a huge social with 150 fab friends to celebrate.

I don't care how old I get, as long as my legs still reach round a guys neck and the zimmerbrain hasn't got so bad I forget what to do when that happens, then I'm gonna keep on having fun!

I only discovered swinging at 50 so reckon there's loads more for me to discover yet! And I'm never short of meet requests, so live it up as long as you wish people and fuck old age away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was 52 just about 2 weeks ago, and had a huge social with 150 fab friends to celebrate.

I don't care how old I get, as long as my legs still reach round a guys neck and the zimmerbrain hasn't got so bad I forget what to do when that happens, then I'm gonna keep on having fun!

I only discovered swinging at 50 so reckon there's loads more for me to discover yet! And I'm never short of meet requests, so live it up as long as you wish people and fuck old age away!

Good on ya hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 47 and happy with it and don’t see the point in saying different. You might not get chatting to someone who your out of their rage but better to be honest in the first place as you will get caught out later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?"

We don't think its just men,after all your never supposed to ask a lady her age.

Women of 50 plus will still be inundated with requests to meet,as long as they've looked after themselves and look good.

However there seems to be this magic barrier of 50 for men, as far as some women are concerned,no matter how well the guy has aged.

They seem to view it as the "past it" age.

Unfortunately,my "past it" age was 20.

XXXX

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Abusive posts have been removed.

For those people who do it more than once, you may find one day that you can't post at all.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Abusive posts have been removed.

For those people who do it more than once, you may find one day that you can't post at all."
thats most of them then...........ooooh

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Most posts or most posters?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Most posts or most posters?

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im keeping quiet on that one.......lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?"

I'm 70 but I found that when I was truthful about my age, only 85 year-old women (who were all claiming to be 65) showed any interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it all comes down to it,as long as we're attracted to a couple,age isn't really an issue.

XXXX

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I've never been anything but honest about my age, I hate the fact I'm almost 50 but don't see the point in lying about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Jackster's will be 53, just 5 days after the Fab Barnsley Social. so if you want to make me a cake, feel free, lol.

We know plenty of people, guys and gals who fib about their ages. Can't see the point of it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people actually change their age on here? i dont understand why you'd do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people actually change their age on here? i don't understand why you'd do that."

Well you tell a 45 yr old 35 is your limit and 3 weeks later the same profile mails me as a 35 yr old! Some men are just pathological lyres.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why do they lie about their height too??? I met one guy who's profile says 5ft 10 but i think he should have put 4ft 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why do they lie about their height too??? I met one guy who's profile says 5ft 10 but i think he should have put 4ft 10

lol..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I stand on a 12 inch box would it be OK for me to write 6ft 9 o my profile????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 38, and 6ft tall. and thats the truth.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree with OP and feel there is not enough honesty on this site...I could be wrong though...Dr Snog Aged 25 Buckingham Palace...

now that made me laugh!!! ahem!

Oh Sharrup you...

make me

go on snoggy make her go on please lol

dont you start ya bugger!!!! lol

go snoggy go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Jackster's will be 53, just 5 days after the Fab Barnsley Social. so if you want to make me a cake, feel free, lol.

We know plenty of people, guys and gals who fib about their ages. Can't see the point of it myself. "

and ill be 52 on the 6th cant see the sense in lying about age when its a fact your only as old as the woman you feel kev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And why do they lie about their height too??? I met one guy who's profile says 5ft 10 but i think he should have put 4ft 10

lying about your height is even more ridiculous. its obviously going to come out when you meet!

i actually think id have more joy on here if i put my age up a bit

im quite happy with my height though. most women ive come accross seem to prefer taller men, so im good there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the age thing I find the opposite often happens too, we get mails every day where I am 15-20 years over what thier maximum is on thier age criteria, as soon as we mail back pointing that out and that because of that we won't consider meeting we get a mail back saying they are happy to play with old gits

(maybe not in those words)

But it is too late for us, it makes me feel like "last man picked for the football team cos they had no choice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we first joined the site, I had a different age to my real one, I had myself down as 34 where as I am 37. Reason being, when we first joined we was more cautious than we are now, so we tweaked a little until we felt comfortable here, now our profile states facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're both 40 somethings and happy with that ... no need to lie. Oh and polo hunni there's no need to exclude wales from the advances in modern living, we've even had indoor toilets for a couple of years now .....

i may have said this before, but your pics are lovely! very sexy attire and an even sexier lady!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

ffs weve been on here for over a year. now we find out people lie on there profiles.next thing youll be telling us,the earth is round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well steve now 50 and can still go like a good un he just sometimes forget why hes got a hard on lol joking really like he said he just polds alone now xx Alison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"always been proud of my vintage - 1954 was a great year for creating wines (and men) that mature well

1965 wasn't such a bad year either!

Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they change them so much? And why do men lie about how old they are on here?"

I have to say that I am tempted sometimes to lie about my age, partly because I usually get told I look a few years younger anyway, but also because many women will judge me by my age. In all honesty I have been a very late starter when comes to sex and relationships, spending a lot of time observing and learning from other people before I finally got a chance to put any of it into practice. In many respects I feel more like a guy in his 20s than one almost ending his 30s, and i certainly find myself drawn towards younger women when it comes to relationships (as opposed to just sex) because I don't yet have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told i look a lot younger which wasn't good in my early 20's. no point in lying as it doesn't get you laid. Well unless someone knows something i don't lol.

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