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By *haz and Bob OP   Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

What is the use of verifications if they are then hidden so nobody can read them

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

We show ours to prove we are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just to prove that the person/couple in the pics are genuine and not stolen pictures or fake profiles. i don't think it should be viewed as yelp reviews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are useful to a point ....

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

If its someone you're interested in meeting (and vice versa) ask them if they wouldn't mind showing some for a while whilst you're online so you can have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to have the choice and I must admit as a lot of people on here a lot verifications put me off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the use of verifications if they are then hidden so nobody can read them"

I myself have mine hidden for a reason..guys are mailing other guys to find out what I am like! why the hell don't they find out for themselves.. odd!

anyways always ask the ones who hide them im sure they be more than happy to display for you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've hidden some of mine because women I had met were getting 'if you had sex with him why not me?' type questions from men and this stops that. I've shown some though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the use of verifications if they are then hidden so nobody can read them

I myself have mine hidden for a reason..guys are mailing other guys to find out what I am like! why the hell don't they find out for themselves.. odd!

anyways always ask the ones who hide them im sure they be more than happy to display for you "

and Guys keep looking at mine to check out Ladies they are looking at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to have the choice and I must admit as a lot of people on here a lot verifications put me off ."

How many is a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to have the choice and I must admit as a lot of people on here a lot verifications put me off .

How many is a lot?"

20 when the dates are consecutive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus mine are hidden because last time i had them displayed turns out an ex contacted them trying to cause trouble so now i only show to folk as and when i feel realistic chance of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are visable, not heard of anyone mailing any of the men to cause trouble or ask about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

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they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam "

Sorry don't understand Phoenix?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I show social verifications because I choose not to show who I have had sex with as the pissing up the lamp post messages get boring...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are hidden as who and when I meet is no one else's business but mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam

Sorry don't understand Phoenix?"

You can get verified if seen on webcam, that proves you're pics are really you but not that you actually turn up for meets.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I've hidden some of mine because women I had met were getting 'if you had sex with him why not me?' type questions from men and this stops that. I've shown some though. "

Why don't you hide them all then? How do you decide which ones to show?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam

Sorry don't understand Phoenix?

You can get verified if seen on webcam, that proves you're pics are really you but not that you actually turn up for meets."

See wouldn't know that as I don't think of chatting on cam as meeting anyone, pictures aren't always accurate never mind a dodgy webcam!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam

Sorry don't understand Phoenix?

You can get verified if seen on webcam, that proves you're pics are really you but not that you actually turn up for meets.

See wouldn't know that as I don't think of chatting on cam as meeting anyone, pictures aren't always accurate never mind a dodgy webcam!"

2 of mine are cam veris but only way to really prove myself is to meet so don't rely on them but gives people a fair idea as even after being on cam I get told my photos don't do my justice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are visable, not heard of anyone mailing any of the men to cause trouble or ask about me "

Thats because you are all sweetness and light

The ex is ex because she was loopy could not hsndle rejection bunny boiler springs to mind but thats another story altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are visable, not heard of anyone mailing any of the men to cause trouble or ask about me

Thats because you are all sweetness and light

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I don't know where you got that idea

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've hidden some of mine because women I had met were getting 'if you had sex with him why not me?' type questions from men and this stops that. I've shown some though.

Why don't you hide them all then? How do you decide which ones to show?"

The ones i showed said how nice I was. The ones I hid said what a boring unimaginative git I am and the sex wasn't as much fun with me than the last time they queued at the butchers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to have the choice and I must admit as a lot of people on here a lot verifications put me off .

How many is a lot?

20 when the dates are consecutive "
yes I agree 5 or 6 same daymeets in a also put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only reason I wouldn't show one is if it was too graphic!

As for the 'too many' argument - I've always thought it a pointless one. The number of visible veri's bears no relation to the number of meets and will contain socials in many cases. I'll freely admit to having had many more meets than the number of veri's I show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are useful to a point ....

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I agree to a point. I left a verification for a lady that told the truth about the messing about and constant cancellations (x3) I doubt if it will ever see the light of day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are useful to a point ....

I agree to a point. I left a verification for a lady that told the truth about the messing about and constant cancellations (x3) I doubt if it will ever see the light of day!"

Did you actually meet her?

If not - that's not what verifications are for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nice to have the choice and I must admit as a lot of people on here a lot verifications put me off .

How many is a lot?

20 when the dates are consecutive yes I agree 5 or 6 same daymeets in a also put me off "
thats easily done at a club or group meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are useful to a point ....

I agree to a point. I left a verification for a lady that told the truth about the messing about and constant cancellations (x3) I doubt if it will ever see the light of day!

Did you actually meet her?

If not - that's not what verifications are for!"

AND it will have earned her a verification tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden as who and when I meet is no one else's business but mine. "

Same here. You don't write on your profile about all your vanilla sex partners, so who's business is it which swingers you've slept with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I'll freely admit to having had many more meets than the number of veri's I show! "

Me too.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"...

I'll freely admit to having had many more meets than the number of veri's I show!

Me too. "

me 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the use of verifications if they are then hidden so nobody can read them"

As others have said, I always used to publish verifications but of late (the last year or so) problems have arisen with people who I (and my meets) have declined sending really nasty messages i.e. why would you them and not me/us.

Now it is unusual for either myself or my play mates to issue verifications as once you are proved to be genuine any activity between fabbers is their private business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

I'll freely admit to having had many more meets than the number of veri's I show!

Me too.

me 3 "

me 4... Thank god.. id look a right slapper if every one I had met had verified me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are useful to a point ....

I agree to a point. I left a verification for a lady that told the truth about the messing about and constant cancellations (x3) I doubt if it will ever see the light of day!

Did you actually meet her?

If not - that's not what verifications are for!

AND it will have earned her a verification tick "
She already has verifications........I know its not what veris are about I was making a point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In my opinion they have their benefits however you are unlikely to see someone display a negative veri so why is it so important to show them! Again down to individuals choices.

they will show if you actually meet others rather than play on cam

Sorry don't understand Phoenix?"

If they are hidden, they might only be for viewing on Cam verification's, not actual meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are useful to a point ....

I agree to a point. I left a verification for a lady that told the truth about the messing about and constant cancellations (x3) I doubt if it will ever see the light of day!

Did you actually meet her?

If not - that's not what verifications are for!

AND it will have earned her a verification tick She already has verifications........I know its not what veris are about I was making a point!!"

You know verifying people you've not actually met is against the site rules?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Mine are hidden as who and when I meet is no one else's business but mine. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine are hidden as who and when I meet is no one else's business but mine. "

I do get put off by lots of veri's, and certain comments will make me more cautious x

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