FabSwingers.com forum: Exchanging face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Obviously this is for most a crucial and important part of the messaging process, goes a long way to deciding whether or not you want to meet, and can understandably be a rather nerve wracking experience.

I was wondering, how often do you find that the persons face looks how you imagined it to? Are you disappointed if this isn't the case, or do you sometimes like the surprise, especially if you DO still fancy them despite not being what you expected?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

often i find the face pic looks nothing like the mental image id perceived them to be.

it tends not to mean anything anyway as if im looking to meet a face picture if one of the first things i ask for if its not already available.. call me shallow but no physical attraction then nouts gonna happen.

with regards to forum users im not fussed if im not attracted to folk or they arent what i thought they'd look like. its only conversation and sharing opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unless they are plain ugly ( to me ), if i dont fancy them or they dont look how ide imagined i try to look past the initial impression i get as it dosnt mean i wont have a great meet and lots of sexy fun with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unless they are plain ugly ( to me ), if i dont fancy them or they dont look how ide imagined i try to look past the initial impression i get as it dosnt mean i wont have a great meet and lots of sexy fun with them ."

I can see you're a bit of a charmer there fella

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By *ecretquestCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Our first meet with anyone is only usually a social for us, we never judge anyone on face pics as its always nice to meet pleasant people anytime and there doesn`t have to be a sexual attraction.

Only time we play on first meet is in clubs where obviously there is no need to see face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ugly face is a deal breaker for me and a pic is not usually enough, I always ask to see face on cam before I agree to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get sent jigsaw pics eg body and cocks but it a face that important to me,because if I dont fancy them wot point endless chat, if I dont want to kiss the face and look into there eyes and see there smile im not gonna want to meet them,i can be dissapointed sometimes and so can they be when they see my mugshot

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My face is on my profile, why?

Because this way they are not going to message me and say "God, you're ugly", I will never know who hates the look of me.

But when you send someone your face pic, you (well i) feeling they don't want me because I've been beaten with the ugly stick.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I like a face pic if I'm going clubbing and pubbing with them, because I shall be seen out with them, just as they'll be seen out with me on their arm. If I'm spending all night clubbing then I want to be attracted to them. If it is just a dogging meet, then I'm not bothered.

The worst one was the guy with the big droopy moustache that made him look like a Mexican bandit. For all the world he looked like someone had nicked his sombrero...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"if I dont want to kiss the face and look into there eyes and see there smile im not gonna want to meet them"

Something I always say is that typically during sex, you're going to be looking at a persons face a lot, and likely kissing it too - there MUST be an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my up to date face pic in my public gallery to spare people the 'oh dear! ' if they hadn't already seen me. It presumably saves alot of people valuable time messaging me to find later my face don't appeal

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By *HELONDONCOUPLECouple
over a year ago

london

we are not into collecting face pics, we prefer to meet real people if going to an event or club it does not matter as you are going to see the people anyway, other wise we like to meet for a drink and see them, we have met people in the past that look worse than face pics and better than cams so its hard to go by pics.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm rubbish at guessing what people look like. I got sent one not so long ago and nearly fell off my stool. Looked very similar to the news reader Julie Etchingham. I'm still saying corrrrr now.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

We are happy to swop pics early on in a chat, or at least make sure they have seen us. I have insecurities about how I look, so even for a social would rather people have the chance to politely decline before we meet!

Everyone has different tastes, I don't particularly go for pretty boys, prefer some character and personality.

Rubbish at guessing what people look like!

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been very pleasantly surprised but also disappointed...I love those 'wow' moments when my jaw drops!

For me kissing and eye contact is a vital part of an encounter, so I have to be attracted to a guy, even if this seems shallow.

Always a bit apprehensive when I send a face pic...I don't look like people expect!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I have been very pleasantly surprised but also disappointed...I love those 'wow' moments when my jaw drops!

For me kissing and eye contact is a vital part of an encounter, so I have to be attracted to a guy, even if this seems shallow.

Always a bit apprehensive when I send a face pic...I don't look like people expect!

You have a lovely wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks! And I just Googled Julie Etchingham lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"My face is on my profile, why?

Because this way they are not going to message me and say "God, you're ugly", I will never know who hates the look of me.

But when you send someone your face pic, you (well i) feeling they don't want me because I've been beaten with the ugly stick.

I console myself with......... ' I m too damned good looking and I m out of their league,, !" ,,,

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I was wondering, how often do you find that the persons face looks how you imagined it to? Are you disappointed if this isn't the case, or do you sometimes like the surprise, especially if you DO still fancy them despite not being what you expected?"

When the dare you show your face threads were running, most people looked more or less as I had expected. But there were a few who shocked me and were totally different to what I had imagined.

When exchanging face pics for a potential meet then it is important that we like what we see. May sound shallow but we have to be attracted to those we might get naked with.

Which is why we like to exchange face pics within the first couple of messages to make sure that everyone is happy with what they see.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Thanks! And I just Googled Julie Etchingham lol

Haha wrong colour hair for you

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