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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was getting in my car to go to hairdressers and my neighbors are out talking to an old lady. They call me over and say she's lost and confused and tell me to deal with her as im a nurse. Fine no probs. Take in my house call the police make her a warm drink snd wrap her up. She hasca box of medication with her so ring the pharmacy to get her address. Police turn up after half hour. Eventually they locate her son and bring him to mine. He doesnt even say thankyou. Judt says wheres her bag, I tell him she only had her purse when I took her in. Anyway they leave and just as im getting in my car he comes round the drivers side snd says wheres her credit card. I dont know ssys me. He loojs in her purse again and says its ok its here. Thought you might hage raken it. Cheeky bastard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Abd sorry for the spelling mistakes. Im fuming

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Nothing like thinking the worst of people.

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

That is incredible. Take comfort in you did nothing wrong and everything right. Keep smiling, forget that one. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people have know manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Youd think he'd be more concerned that his mum was safe and well

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a jerk he was x everyone knows how lovely you are xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block and move on !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you. "

He was pissed off cos he was calked out of work bless him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think he would be grateful you looked after his Mum and thanked you

Well done you for putting yourself out to help her xxx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you. "
This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small minded arse. I don't care how stressed he is but not one sign of appreciation for your human kindness and a potential accusation.... Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time punch her in the tits and walk on by. Damned if you do and damned if you dont!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you.

He was pissed off cos he was calked out of work bless him"

He may have been worrying about his job, especially if this has happened before. It's no excuse for his rudeness though.

Your help made a great deal of difference to the lady and she would no doubt be very grateful if she were in a position to realise, even if he wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG cheeky fucker !!!!!

I'm sure Karma will pay you back

Thing is Did you miss your hair appointment ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow your neighbours are real jerks too telling you to deal with it.

And as for the guy yeah she must do this all the time but a little bit of courtesy. He was probably worried about the credit card as he is maxing it out for her. What a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a totally obnoxious person, so what if he's been called out to collect his mother, there's no need to be so rude to some person who has taken the time to ensure the safety of his elderly mother. He showed a complete lack of manners to someone that has shown compassion and decency to his elderly mother. I would have told him what a prick he was...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's an old confused woman doing with a credit card?

Next time, just say no.

Since when did people use the word "jerks"? Did I miss something?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It is fraught when they go missing but no excuse for taking it on the person taking care of your parent.

He needs to get a medi bracelet for her with contact details.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"He needs to get a medi bracelet for her with contact details.

"

And some manners for himself.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"He needs to get a medi bracelet for her with contact details.

And some manners for himself. "

That's harder to put in a medi bracelet.

At least this was a proper, justified Thursday rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was getting in my car to go to hairdressers and my neighbors are out talking to an old lady. They call me over and say she's lost and confused and tell me to deal with her as im a nurse. Fine no probs. Take in my house call the police make her a warm drink snd wrap her up. She hasca box of medication with her so ring the pharmacy to get her address. Police turn up after half hour. Eventually they locate her son and bring him to mine. He doesnt even say thankyou. Judt says wheres her bag, I tell him she only had her purse when I took her in. Anyway they leave and just as im getting in my car he comes round the drivers side snd says wheres her credit card. I dont know ssys me. He loojs in her purse again and says its ok its here. Thought you might hage raken it. Cheeky bastard. "

This doesn't surprise me in the least, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He prob wanted bank card to take out her pension or allowances..

Also bet he claims care allowance for her....

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

He's an arse with no manners or common sense. She should be wearing a medi care bracelet.

Hope you managed to get your hair done. We all need people like you. Thank you.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you. "

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By *amie0151Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"Was getting in my car to go to hairdressers and my neighbors are out talking to an old lady. They call me over and say she's lost and confused and tell me to deal with her as im a nurse. Fine no probs. Take in my house call the police make her a warm drink snd wrap her up. She hasca box of medication with her so ring the pharmacy to get her address. Police turn up after half hour. Eventually they locate her son and bring him to mine. He doesnt even say thankyou. Judt says wheres her bag, I tell him she only had her purse when I took her in. Anyway they leave and just as im getting in my car he comes round the drivers side snd says wheres her credit card. I dont know ssys me. He loojs in her purse again and says its ok its here. Thought you might hage raken it. Cheeky bastard. "

Some people are cheeky, ungrateful, bastards!

The most important thing is that you helped out the old lady.

I'm sure she'd say thanks if she could

Nurse or not, what you did was very kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OMG cheeky fucker !!!!!

I'm sure Karma will pay you back

Thing is Did you miss your hair appointment ? "

Thankfully she was very understanding especially as I walked in fing un blinding about the son.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow your neighbours are real jerks too telling you to deal with it.

And as for the guy yeah she must do this all the time but a little bit of courtesy. He was probably worried about the credit card as he is maxing it out for her. What a dick. "

Due to me being a staff nurse and they know I am I had a duty of care.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is fraught when they go missing but no excuse for taking it on the person taking care of your parent.

He needs to get a medi bracelet for her with contact details.

"

He didnt know until the cops located him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OMG cheeky fucker !!!!!

I'm sure Karma will pay you back

Thing is Did you miss your hair appointment ? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would I do it agsin yes I would.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"He is probably at the end of his tether if this is a regular event, but that is no excuse for such a lack of common courtesy and he should be grateful to you. "

Better halfs mother has now started wandering, taken to locking doors, garden gated secured but every so often father in law forgets. But as you said he should have been grateful not obnoxious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im a fucking hero gonna start wearing a cape snd me knickers outside my jeans.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I also think that the neighbours were a bit out of order passing her on to you. Anybody could have taken her in and done what you did. Just goes to show that not everyone will.

Well done you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow your neighbours are real jerks too telling you to deal with it.

And as for the guy yeah she must do this all the time but a little bit of courtesy. He was probably worried about the credit card as he is maxing it out for her. What a dick. "

this

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Was getting in my car to go to hairdressers and my neighbors are out talking to an old lady. They call me over and say she's lost and confused and tell me to deal with her as im a nurse. Fine no probs. Take in my house call the police make her a warm drink snd wrap her up. She hasca box of medication with her so ring the pharmacy to get her address. Police turn up after half hour. Eventually they locate her son and bring him to mine. He doesnt even say thankyou. Judt says wheres her bag, I tell him she only had her purse when I took her in. Anyway they leave and just as im getting in my car he comes round the drivers side snd says wheres her credit card. I dont know ssys me. He loojs in her purse again and says its ok its here. Thought you might hage raken it. Cheeky bastard. "

Firstly well done you for having such a big careing heart, not sure why your neighbours dumped the situ on you.

Second given what is seen in society nowerdays i am not surprised at his reaction. Whatever happened to taking care of your elderly in their days of need

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

I (Mr) for 1 would like to say thank you for what you did. 1 day it may be a member of my family or even myself in this situation and hope that if it ever is they come across a person like you (don’t be rude!!!). xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody cheek. You should have shut the door on his hands.

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

Well done you for helping, even if the son was a total tosser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I always say "no good deed goes unpunished".

Good on you for doing the decent thing...

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