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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure of rules of what we can say , im not naming and shaming but everyday we are getting stalked by someone,IT creates a new profile everyday to send an abusive message,then deletes profile and comes back the day after with a new one and it starts all over again, we have told admin about it but havnt heard anything back, its getting very annoying now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not me I am here ....... in my usual persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you able to block newbies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not me I am here ....... in my usual persona "
you sure were onto ya minx

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Use the filters to block all newbies from messaging you. You could even go as far as blocking people without pics or non site supporters for a while, hopefully they'd then get bored and leave you alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you able to block newbies? "
probably but we didn't really want to as we have met some lovely people who just join and don't want to shut off that avenue for the sake of some tosspot.and as I replied the profile has user no longer onsite so profile has gone again getting pissed off now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me too. Changed filters and happy Chatting with who is left over and a much happier me with no abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you able to block newbies? probably but we didn't really want to as we have met some lovely people who just join and don't want to shut off that avenue for the sake of some tosspot.and as I replied the profile has user no longer onsite so profile has gone again getting pissed off now "

You can also block unverified and those without public pics. If it was me I would make use of all the filters just until they get bored. I wouldn't ever answer a message from them and just block. It must be awful but I would think if they get no response they will give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a stalker. I long for the day I log in and I have a little message in my inbox (that isn't admin giving me a timeout lol).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like someone said block the newbies for 5 days, im.sure they wouldn't have been that corrupted by the time you get around to messaging them haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one for months...he'd send a vile message and as soon as I blocked him he'd set up a new profile, get photo verified and wait for his newbie status to run off before messaging again. I just kept ignoring and blocking til after several reruns of this scenario he gave up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

btw I have a stalker every morning when I wake up

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"btw I have a stalker every morning when I wake up "
Woody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"btw I have a stalker every morning when I wake up Woody?"

yeehaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can filter out newbies to stop them messaging you, but you can still message them, then they can message you back.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Sounds unpleasant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin should be able to do something, a non sexual site that has a forum I use, the owner of the site is a regular poster. He is able to look at the IP address of posters, I would imagine that the IP address of all of us are logged at some stage when setting up a profile. Not that it can prevent them doing it from other places but if it is the same IP address all the time it is likely that it is their home Internet connection.

Someone who is more IT savvy may be able to give a more accurate explanation. No one is really anonymous on the Internet.

Delete any mail from 'user no longer on site' before you open it. It's more than likely from some saddo that you've knocked back.

I've been on sites that have a minimum of say 200 words in your profile text before allowing people to register, things like this may seem a pain but it helps to reduce idiots setting up throw away profiles to harrass people. Whilst we all enjoy the benefits of fab being a free site there are disadvantages to it being freely available too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone seems to have a stalkers these days. I don't and I feel left out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have a stalkers these days. I don't and I feel left out "

I'm watching you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have a stalkers these days. I don't and I feel left out

I'm watching you "

and im watching you watch him

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