FabSwingers.com forum: Worst experience?

By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

What is the worst experience you've had?

For example been to a club and been the only ones there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a person lie to me and getting emails on msn from others saying he was dead .... And it was all lies and a person I was thinking was my friend .It hurt me and made me see people can be who ever thy wish to be over the net and live in a dream world. Made it hard for me to trust people on here and yes I know not every ones like that . I felt I mug .. you live and lean I did from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my worst experiences were when i have met men who werent as nice as i thought they were and were much too rough and hurt me, thats why i am more careful now about who i meet and i let them know what i like and dont like from the begining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the worst experience you've had?

For example been to a club and been the only ones there lol."
well I bet others have some stories . Be nice to here from others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Childhood

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

"Having a person lie to me and getting emails on msn from others saying he was dead .... And it was all lies and a person I was thinking was my friend .It hurt me and made me see people can be who ever thy wish to be over the net and live in a dream world. Made it hard for me to trust people on here and yes I know not every ones like that . I felt I mug .. you live and lean I did from that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime ago met a couple from another site. Went for a drink, all seemed ok. So we went back to their place for a play.Then it became obvious hubby was pushing the wife into swinging. Left, but wasn't good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got shouted at aggressively on way to a club,and didnt want to. Play with him because of it,he left me there,thankfully a man lived my area took me home,at my risk

I vowed from that day never to go to a club with a man,go by myself and meet people there,never having any man treat me like that again,

It actually taught me a big lesson,and taught me to be independant,gave me confidence,i have no problem travelling and walking into clubs and partys

I saw him at a club while ago and we had a chat,its water under the bridge now,we dont play anymore obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned by another member, those MFM meets where the guy is the dominant partner of the relationship and he's literally forcing his wife into unwanted (by her) 3some sex. Its happened several times to me recently, its an extremely unpleasant scenario, and as soon as I realise what the situation is, I leave immediately. I hope all single men in the same situation do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime ago met a couple from another site. Went for a drink, all seemed ok. So we went back to their place for a play.Then it became obvious hubby was pushing the wife into swinging. Left, but wasn't good."

That actually sounds horrible.

Poor woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy once for a drink, the plan was to meet for a drink and if we got on find a hotel, only he pre booked the hotel and after meeting I didn't want to play, he wouldn't let me leave till I gave him the money back for the hotel

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

met a single guy on another site..had been chatting a while, met him seemed a nice guy, but then things got a bit dark and out of hand and the blackmailing started...not good a all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy who was polite, intelligent and witty when chatting, but turned into a vicious bully as soon as we entered the bedroom...I spent longer waiting for the lift out of the hotel than I did in his company

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Had a meet arranged at a guys house. A guy I had met a few times. I arrive seeing his bedroom light on. All excited I knock on the door, he answers in his boxer shorts stating he had a surprise for me. My heart begins to sink. I look in the bedroom and another woman is in his bed. I politely decline the invite to join them. I am only bi curious and have never met this woman before. He carries on playing with her and I leave, although I was supposed to be staying the night.

Learnt that even "nice" guys can be shits as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy once for a drink, the plan was to meet for a drink and if we got on find a hotel, only he pre booked the hotel and after meeting I didn't want to play, he wouldn't let me leave till I gave him the money back for the hotel "

Omg how rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a meet arranged at a guys house. A guy I had met a few times. I arrive seeing his bedroom light on. All excited I knock on the door, he answers in his boxer shorts stating he had a surprise for me. My heart begins to sink. I look in the bedroom and another woman is in his bed. I politely decline the invite to join them. I am only bi curious and have never met this woman before. He carries on playing with her and I leave, although I was supposed to be staying the night.

Learnt that even "nice" guys can be shits as well. "
yes they can and like there own way and not giving a shit about how you would feel about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes even nice guys can get a bit nasty too sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting an MF couple for a threesome where it later transpired the guy was far more interested in playing with me and the lady seemed quite indifferent..but when I went to leave he got majorly stroppy. I'm not saying I had to force my way out, but he wasn't pleased. By the time I got home I had an apologetic mail waiting for me, and an invite to do it all again another time....

I declined with thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what an awful man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around"

You can't let these people get to you. It's them with the problems not there victims!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around

You can't let these people get to you. It's them with the problems not there victims!! "

the more bad experiences you have the more weary you get, I've been doing this a great many years and have enough, funny, bad meet stories to write a book

I do find over the years I meet less and less due to this, I also found the way men treat me has changed a hell of a lot since I because single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also had similar one to this also from another site - went to dinner and then back to their hotel to play . Without going into too much detail she was very uncomfortable all way through it and I said let's leave it and got dressed . I found out later she didn't even look at my profile before the meet . Complete waste of my time !

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Was at a club with my fb and got some interest from a couple in the cinema. The male half was very keen, if anything too keen and I had my hands full.

Anyway I looked up to catch my fbs eye so I could make it clear that I wasn't enjoying it and he and her were just talking and he had a very odd look on his face.

After I extricated myself from Mr keen and we got a chance to talk it transpired that they weren't a couple after all, they were supposedly on a first date and she was appalled and shocked and didn't know what to do!

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around

You can't let these people get to you. It's them with the problems not there victims!!

the more bad experiences you have the more weary you get, I've been doing this a great many years and have enough, funny, bad meet stories to write a book

I do find over the years I meet less and less due to this, I also found the way men treat me has changed a hell of a lot since I because single"

My worst experience was a Thailand woman I drove 3 hours to meet her and got a load of abuse off her was very obvious from the texts that she wanted a get out as there was another man already in the house so had to get rid of me quick, the date lasted 5 mins and I got called "Bastard Pig" which was a joke for ages between me and my friends!! Sad thing was before the date the woman played I make you a happy man bullshit which is associated by many with ready made brides with the exception she wasn't on no exotic island.. Was on a very rough council estate with 1970s curtains very sad person... I don't judge people use to where there from or where they live but basic manners I do expect... Other than that I'm lucky not had many idiots dispute dating online as a lone parent for 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not my worse meet but one that always makes me laugh when I look back

was in a club in a open room playing with a guy, I was sucking his cock and every time I looked up he was looking at another woman on the other side of the bed, anyway after a while, without saying a word he pushed me away, got up and went over to the woman, he touched her and she gave him quite a sharp no thanks to which he came back to me and positioned himself so I could carry on sucking his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around"

The good experiences definitly outway the bad experiences,im lucky to only had a handful of bad and learnt from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"after reading some of these stories, one has to wonder why half of you lot are still here.

we would have kicked it into the gutter ages ago.

there are some very shite people around

The good experiences definitly outway the bad experiences,im lucky to only had a handful of bad and learnt from them "

that's true they do

ive met some great guys and had some great meets but you don't tell people about those ones because its not something you can make a topic about and laugh over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met up with a guy alone on night I wont go in to details but it was a lucky escape for me. just ended up bruised . now hubby is around for all my meets for my safety

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A guy off here who even though I hadn't met him decided that he was going to have me and said he will stalk me for ever, and catch me, put me in a castle and not let me see anyone.

Obviously he was a bit crazy, luckily he didn't know where I lived or any details about me.... Scared me though even though I knew it was unlikely he would find me, he was very unhinged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worse experience was having a 'single guys' psycho and rightly pissed off wife follow me home and verbally abuse me....I had no idea he was married...she turned up the next day with her three kids and threw a load more abuse at me...'look at you, you've destroyed their lives'

'urm I'm not the one who's cheated love' :-/ was awful. I felt awful. It got very nasty and I had to phone the police, learnt a lot from that experience

But its right good experiences outweigh the bad.... iv made lots of very close lifelong friends from my time on here

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"not my worse meet but one that always makes me laugh when I look back

Did you bite it off..... Carry on.... Or push him away also???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ, I'm getting scared now lol.

My first meet turned round and said he couldn't see me again because I'd slept with a mixed race man 5 years ago. I just gobsmacked that anyone could be that racist.

Then there was the man with his disabled girlfriend who slagged me off to women he met after me, then phoned and had a go at me for believing the person that told me

yet he slagged a meet off to me on our first meet so was pretty certain the whistle blower was being honest.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I also found the way men treat me has changed a hell of a lot since I because single"

What do you mean? I personally think they can treat single women worse as there is no partner to watch her back.

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

Learnt that even "nice" guys can be shits as well. "
what a twat he must be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not my worse meet but one that always makes me laugh when I look back

Did you bite it off..... Carry on.... Or push him away also??? "

i just moved to another part of the bed and joined in with someone else, i didn't want to say anything and risk making a fuss while others were playing, he got the hint and left the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and another funny bad meet was the guy who asked me to shit in his mouth, he wad fine to start with

we was playing and things was great at first, he was kissing me, had worked his way up my body got to my face and while still kissing me was whispering in rather a sex way how he would like me to shit in his mouth and on his body and massage it in etc all this while still kissing me, i thought WTF! Was a bit creepy i couldn't get dressed quick enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy off here a couple of years ago, we got on really well, became close and he was telling me he loved me and wanted to be with me. I fell for it and fell for him. We got together and started swinging as a couple. .....a year or so later he started to become distant...I found out he was swinging behind my back. We split up but stayed friends kind of.....since then I have found out he also has a long term girlfriend of 3 years outside of swinging that he's been cheating on the whole time. I was the "other woman" and did not know.

Currently im finding it very difficult to trust men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and another funny bad meet was the guy who asked me to shit in his mouth, he wad fine to start with

Oh dear lord! I'm thinking it's only a matter of time before THAT request infiltrates my inbox (so to speak).

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Reading some of these posts I reckon I have been very, very lucky!

I think my saddest moments have both been at clubs. The first one was when I was playing in the round room at Chams and there was a lovely young man who wanted to join in, but I was a bit, ahem, busy. I met him at the bar later and we arranged to meet later for some one on one play, and he didn't turn up. In fact I think he went home.

I also spent a whole evening at Isis and had no fun whatsoever. Having said that, the only other single woman there also didn't get to play so obviously it wasn't a good night for single women.

I had a social meet with a guy once, and had told him beforehand that there would be no play. He begged for me to go home with him all evening, and in the end I told him he made me feel very uncomfortable and left. If he can't take no for an answer on a social who knows what he'd be like in bed!

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"Oh and another funny bad meet was the guy who asked me to shit in his mouth, he wad fine to start with

Oh dear lord! I'm thinking it's only a matter of time before THAT request infiltrates my inbox (so to speak)."

Holy shit!!!!!! How can someone whisper that in a sexy way??? Sounds like a YouTube moment or adult, youv been framed not sure which.

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By *GR2014 OP Man
over a year ago

England

"Reading some of these posts I reckon I have been very, very lucky!

I also spent a whole evening at Isis and had no fun whatsoever. Having said that, the only other single woman there also didn't get to play so obviously it wasn't a good night for single women.

How come the two singles didnt get any action if they was only ones there was it a couples night?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've had two guys who I met for coffee (separately) and during the chat they both started crying about their marriage break ups.

In a cafe in a busy location!

And both still asked if I'd play with them!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Reading some of these posts I reckon I have been very, very lucky!

I also spent a whole evening at Isis and had no fun whatsoever. Having said that, the only other single woman there also didn't get to play so obviously it wasn't a good night for single women.

How come the two singles didnt get any action if they was only ones there was it a couples night? "

There were more couples than usual, but lots of single men. They just weren't playing with single women that night for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been to clubs plenty of times and haven't pulled. Should have stayed home and had a tug

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