FabSwingers.com forum: Getting over someone

By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet up with your girlfriends...wine, chocolates, cheese and facemasks and lots of gossip x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

sorry you had to call it a day, only suggestion we have is to get friends around you and get pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Retail therapy. Is that not the norm for most women.

if it was me mindless tv, a few good bottles of red and a selection of amazing cheeses....but then they are my face things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a plan

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Meet up with your girlfriends...wine, chocolates, cheese and facemasks and lots of gossip x "

This is going to sound a bit sad, but I don't have any girlfriends nearby. And my daughter moved to another city so I can't bug her either.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Girly weekends away, pamper evenings that incorporate alcohol.

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Girly weekends away, pamper evenings that incorporate alcohol."

I'm thinking booze is going to be the one to go for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them.... So... Sleep?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Girly weekends away, pamper evenings that incorporate alcohol.

I'm thinking booze is going to be the one to go for."
Music, lots of music, preferably stuff that doesn't remind you of him.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"

Fuck buddy, not boyfriend. We had an 'arrangement' for 7 years that suited us both.

But thanks for your concern.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"

FB is a fuck buddy not a boyfriend

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"
It was her FB, as I understood it, not a boyfriend or have I read it wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them.... So... Sleep? "

twaddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Me and my long-term FB have called it a day, and I need something to distract me from being a bit sad about it. I am unable to shag for a few days due to a visit from the lovely Mother Nature, so all non-sexual (and hopefully not too expensive) suggestions entertained."

US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Girly weekends away, pamper evenings that incorporate alcohol.

I'm thinking booze is going to be the one to go for.

Music, lots of music, preferably stuff that doesn't remind you of him....."

That will be easy

. His and my taste in music did not overlap much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice meal, a show, retail therapy in the form of jewellery window shopping, usually does it for me whenever I need a pick me up.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

pop up to Youtopia at the weekend, its close to you, very friendly club and you dont have to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I lost a long time gf 20 months ago & still think about her all the time. Cannot get her out of my head.

Awful feeling - hope you do better

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few "
Thats a good idea.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Chick flicks, chocolate and lots of wine xx

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few "

Its looking like this plus booze and chocolate is going to be the way to go. Hope I don't get liver damage though!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If your so bothered about your long term boyfriend and were happy with him in every way can l ask why you are on here while you are or were in a wonderful loving relationship?"

Setting aside the complete failure to understand the post, what a very helpful response. Well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them.... So... Sleep?

twaddle"

Dont do the getting pissed thing either. You wil only end up getting all maudling. Sort out a few social meets and go from there

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

US TV Show marathon should defo take your mind off things ....The wire ,24, prison break to name a few

Its looking like this plus booze and chocolate is going to be the way to go. Hope I don't get liver damage though!

Livers regenerate so as long as it's only a short-term bender and not prolonged abuse you'll be fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Bottle of the new Baileys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

Always been my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Bottle of the new Baileys...."

Ooh, there's a new one? What sort?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Bottle of the new Baileys....

Ooh, there's a new one? What sort?"

Belgian chocolate

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Bottle of the new Baileys....

Ooh, there's a new one? What sort?"
Belgian chocolate...its like fantastic sex in a glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bottle of the new Baileys....

Ooh, there's a new one? What sort?

Belgian chocolate

Now that sounds amazing

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X "

Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

Tried and tested method of choice - all the others are fattening !!

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum

Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!

Fun place though.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X

Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.

Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

Tried and tested method of choice - all the others are fattening !!

I wish, but its that time of the month, and I don't think its fair to inflict that on someone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X

Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.

Shame about that

you could get some beppe thingys and have a meet

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X

Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.

Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party

I hope you all have a Fab time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum

Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!

Fun place though."

I think it's ace

. And you did ask

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Wine, chocolate and a good book

Are you coming to the Sheffield Social 2nd Nov? X

Afraid not. I have got other plans that weekend. Its just this weekend I need to get through.

Shame you are not nearer you could of come to my party

Wish I wasn't so sodding busy. I want to come to your party!!! *tantrum*

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum

Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!

Fun place though.

I think it's ace

. And you did ask

True, true. I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of alcohol, start off with some maudling films (beaches, steel magnolias etc) and your body weight in chocolate. Then get your hair done, nails done, buy some gorgeous new lingerie, slip in some jiggle balls and take yourself off for a sexy strut down your high street before meeting a gorgeous man off fab and using him completely for your own pleasure

This. Plus more chocolate.

Aww hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What works for me is getting on the phone to a girlfriend and talking it through for hours, friends always make you feel better.

It is sad when relationships come to an end, and I mean any kind if relationship, romantic, friends, work colleagues etc, you will miss them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends friends friends

Booze booze booze

Sex sex sex

Repeat.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable.

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

Or on top......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a shower, put on something slinky and hit the clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get into cooking. I find that helps me escape make something different and nice for you and family .. x Time really is the only thing that will help and you learn to live with it all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend the next few days going through profiles looking for your next victim oops FB lol draw up a short list then when your ready to get back on the horse go fir it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not feeling low but this sounds like a fab plan for me and every other woman once a week xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?

There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I am not feeling low but this sounds like a fab plan for me and every other woman once a week xx"

Absolutely lol

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?

There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him."

Of course she does and she's asking for advice on the best way this weekend lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

put a post on ' meet today ' for the weekend and check out who is about ...all the very best !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my best friend tells me.. The best way to get over a man is to get under another one!

Worked great for me last week

Hope your weekend goes well whatever you decide to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meet up with your girlfriends...wine, chocolates, cheese and facemasks and lots of gossip x

This is going to sound a bit sad, but I don't have any girlfriends nearby. And my daughter moved to another city so I can't bug her either."

When I moved to leeds years ago, I became a member of city socialising. I met some really nice people who im still good friends with today. Its not about dating just meeting new people and enjoying nights out. It was good for me as I didn't know anyone in the area at all. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though

Then take me there as I have never been then we can have a coffee and chat afterwards

PS Booze is not the way to go

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By *igellahestonCouple
over a year ago

Darleston

"Bottle of the new Baileys....

Ooh, there's a new one? What sort?

Belgian chocolate

I had a freebie of that through the post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twilight Marathon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're in York - go to the National Railway Museum

Oh gods not again! I know that place inside out, thanks to my daughters young crush on Thomas the Tank Engine!

Fun place though.

I think it's ace

. And you did ask

True, true. I think the York Brewery Tour is more my thing though

Ooh, that's one to note. Can't beat a good brewery tour. Well, maybe a distillery tour.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Apparently it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them.... So... Sleep?

twaddle"

Twaddle indeed everyone knows it Times Two and add four moons.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Best way to get over a man it to get under a new one.

Tried and tested method of choice - all the others are fattening !!

I wish, but its that time of the month, and I don't think its fair to inflict that on someone new."

No but you can arrange a meet, have something to look forward to. And then eat chocolate!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Look at the spa day thread and treat yourself for £20, pamper pamper....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

just arrange to meet for a nice meal till u can take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a Cadbury creme egg and a kit-kat as soldiers, it's got me through manny things lol

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"It depends what you want, Do you really want him back, or do you want to get over him?

There are different methods of dealing with each case, I ask because it sounds like you don't want to let go and get over him."

Just because I feel sad at losing someone I have been friends with for 7 years doesn't mean I am pining for him. I just am looking for distractions so I don't think about him for a while.

The relationship has come to a natural end, so there's no point 'not letting go'. It was a mutual decision, so I have no idea why you think I don't want to get over him.

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"You could send cryptic messages to everyone. You could find me a couple of bi men to fulfill my fantasy. You could call people (not text or e-mail just real old-fashioned letting it ring and see what happens). You could read a new book. You could write a book. You could start walking and see where you end up. You could get an off-peak train fare and see if it's on time. You could monitor all the trains in and out of York and write letters of complaint at their failure to adhere to the timetable."

All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself.

You just add some to search for you too. Mine need to be closer than York anyway.

As someone else suggested look on the spa thread and book yourself a little treat too. As there is a hotel sale on as well I could even consider coming up your way for a spa and overnight stay. Lots of bi men and us!

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

All excellent suggestions, although I'll be keeping the bi men for myself.

You just add some to search for you too. Mine need to be closer than York anyway.

I saw the Premier Inn sale today. Very tempting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Booze doesn't work..tried that and nearly lost my life and my job..its only a temporary fix.the food/chocolate works for a while till the lbs start turning up!exercise.cinema.book...or as some have already suggested ....advertise for a 'no strings' social meet..worked for me!!!????

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Booze doesn't work..tried that and nearly lost my life and my job..its only a temporary fix.the food/chocolate works for a while till the lbs start turning up!exercise.cinema.book...or as some have already suggested ....advertise for a 'no strings' social meet..worked for me!!!????"

You're right. I don't want to spend all weekend pissed and with indigestion. However I think I'll resume my gym programme next week and spend the weekend catching up on some unwatched DVDs. Nothing like a subtitled film to take your mind off things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good move..keep busy and move on...may sound harsh and easy.but getting bitter and twisted doesn't do any good.if getting over them/him is getting difficult..perhaps speak to them and say how you feel..perhaps he is too but doesn't want to make the first move??good luck xx??

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By *yrdwoman OP Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Good move..keep busy and move on...may sound harsh and easy.but getting bitter and twisted doesn't do any good.if getting over them/him is getting difficult..perhaps speak to them and say how you feel..perhaps he is too but doesn't want to make the first move??good luck xx??"

Nah, he's made his feelings clear and I am happy to leave him alone. I would have spent the weekend shagging my way round York if I wasn't on my period, but as I am I was just looking for ways to entertain myself til I'm not.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Two new bars opened in York just last week, one owned and run by osset Brewery called the hop, and the other owned and run by Leeds brewery called the Duke of York, there coffees are pretty good as well as the Beer,,

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