FabSwingers.com forum: what gift

By *icky1 OP Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their present is my presence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to turn up empty handed a bottle of wine, chocolates or something nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah, a couple of thoughtful guys here then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spliff'n'red!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

No sausage sandwich?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

No sausage sandwich?! "

When I told him I had breakfast I did think he was expecting me to cook him a full English lol !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a douche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

You're cool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to see guys turning up with gifts which I've rarely had nor do I expect any, far more important for them to actually not cancel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nice to see guys turning up with gifts which I've rarely had nor do I expect any, far more important for them to actually not cancel meets

I think it's rude to turn up at someone's house without something... Even if you are going to drink it yourself

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By *uy4couplesMan
over a year ago

south kent

a bottle of wine with some condoms lol

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I see no reason to turn up with a gift if the intention is to shag. Unless, of course, the 'gift' was agreed to guarantee the shag. Which puts a different slant on it...

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I've never expected, nor requested a 'gift' but rarely have I met with a gentleman who has turned up without something for either myself, or us to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

No sausage sandwich?!

When I told him I had breakfast I did think he was expecting me to cook him a full English lol !

When are you free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

In general I don't make a habit of taking gifts and neither do I expect one if they visit me someones company is good enough without and added frills.

What makes you feel as though you need to take a gift?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never taken a gift nor been given one!

Sometimes when I've got in a regular pattern with a guy we now and again get some food to share but that's not a gift is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, you have to bring a gift?! Time to rethink this whole swinging thing.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

No gifts here either given or received apart from some flowers last Christmas from a long term buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their present is my presence.

"The here and now is a gift, that's why they call it the present."

Ah, Malcolm in the Middle. All life's questions answered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have given vibes and bondage cuff's in the past, was alot of fun using them:~)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the original star wars trilogy, a tub of B+J ice cream, and some Tescos finest brand wine of course.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Why the original star wars trilogy, a tub of B+J ice cream, and some Tescos finest brand wine of course.

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You certainly know how to be rock n roll...what flavour Ben n Jerrys?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You'd hope an idea would develop from any conversations you've had.

I once took a girl a jar of Nutella. Exactly the right thing for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tend to present gifts at the beginning until i have gotten to know the person well.

Made the mistake of turning up once with a box of chocks which the lady felt obliged to eat but didnt tell me she was a diabetic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be inappropriate to turn up with a bunch of flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single rose can be good,

Dont advise carnations, may get the wrong idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single rise through my teeth might look sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the original star wars trilogy, a tub of B+J ice cream, and some Tescos finest brand wine of course.

You certainly know how to be rock n roll...what flavour Ben n Jerrys?

Well I know they've got loads of flavours now that I don't know of, but I'd choose cookie dough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolates or a bottle of wine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take some wine to a meet, but if they are coming to mine you will get breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...I am going to curse...

Are we her to fuck? Or go to the prom?, think that answers my thoughts on gifts.

...If its a continual string of meets, or friends, then buying each other things, as you learn more about someone or food (cooked, or eaten out), isn't the same thing, as arriving with flowers, I'd find it a little Mr Bean.

and that's putting it mildly.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

"Would it be inappropriate to turn up with a bunch of flowers

Depends if the recipient gets hay fever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their present is my presence.

smoooooooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

In general I don't make a habit of taking gifts and neither do I expect one if they visit me someones company is good enough without and added frills.

What makes you feel as though you need to take a gift?"

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

I would never go anywhere without taking a bottle of wine , be it swinging or real life..... And as my meets are usually Friday nights it would be rude not to have a wine or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

A high sexdrive and an eagerness to please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am going to someones house I will take a bottle of wine, but normally its a hotel as I can't accomadate so no gifts there. I do have a special friend that I spend the weekend with and we always treat each other with and we always treat each other with dinner etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

I once had an early morning meet and was greeted with champagne and strawberries x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive taken snacks to an overnight hotel meet. keep the energy up.

also once a meet brought me a mini wand from ann summers. very thoughtful i thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll take some wine to a meet, but if they are coming to mine you will get breakfast

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look forward to my wine then....i will share tho x

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

A freshly showered and well-groomed me, turning up promptly... surely that is more important than a gift?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Think I'd find it a little odd if someone I'd never met turned up to a meet with flowers/ chocs. Like others have said, little things here and there when you get to know a person is different especially if it is something you are both going to use (like the mint choc ice cream sauce in my bedside table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are always food related. I take homemade cake to swinging clubs even!

P.s chams tomorrow with cupcakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are always food related. I take homemade cake to swinging clubs even!

P.s chams tomorrow with cupcakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turned up to an early morning meet with breakfast. Crossiants and orange juice.

I once had an early morning meet and was greeted with champagne and strawberries x "

Nice. My first ever meet I was greeted with an ann summers bag of toys including extra batteries so thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would agree taking flowers wouldn't be right - I was canvassing people's opinion on that one

I think a bottle of wine is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

I would turn up with a balaclava and 5 metres of rope !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how full my balls are,

Anything from a sherbert fountain to a Huge bouquet, just depends on my my sperm count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

I would turn up with a balaclava and 5 metres of rope !!!!

No Milk Tray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this one for the men what gift would you take for your meet mine would be wine

I would turn up with a balaclava and 5 metres of rope !!!!

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