FabSwingers.com forum: a few months in and still no friends lol

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i'll stick around and keep trying but begining to lose interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even boo boo?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hun, you have no public pics, you say that you aren't meeting, your profile doesn't really say anything about you.

There are approximately 94 single guys on here for every girl and it's hard to see a budding friendship blossom. You could try making your presence felt in the chat room, or the forum, which may help.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Hun, you have no public pics, you say that you aren't meeting, your profile doesn't really say anything about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be your friend mate!!! Pint down the pub? Clothes on obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i'll stick around and keep trying but begining to lose interest

Its the soviet sweetshop profile as a mate once told me thats the problem. Try giving it a pep up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read your profile

Understandably you want your privacy but maybe try a torso shot rather than looking at a blank avatar, get involved in the forums more maybe, get to some socials perhaps.

We can't meet just at the moment but on here most days just chatting in General.

Good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on here 8 months n adding your biography at a later date? Blimey! How much later? You've had 8 MONTHS lol. Maybe 20 mins shaping the profile up would be time well spent???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a matter of trust, put up some pics and trust people. Share yourself with them and let the fun begin or there's no reason to even be here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps no obnoxious females please ! lol"

That's a bit negative and I imagine most single females that read that will think "Well f*ck you then" or rather not!

You've no pics either.As a single guy,you'll get nowhere without at least one pic.

On the plus side you do accommodate.

I reckon if you add a decent pic,you'll be off

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've been here a year and have no friends.... Maybe that's because obnoxious git

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Change you name to Charlie Brown. He needed all the friends he could get.

Photo!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Would you make friends with someone who says they don't want to meet you and will tell you about themselves later?

You've said you don't want to meet so what are you looking for from that friendship? You want to message each other about the weather? Or are you looking for people to talk dirty or have cyber sex with? Some women might think that, which could put them off.

After all, if you're just looking for friends, why are you excluding men?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Go to a club or Forum meet its the best way to meet and get verifications.. some people add friends adlib but most i would say like to know someone first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to email around 70 women to get a reply so keep mailing lol.

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Would you make friends with someone who says they don't want to meet you and will tell you about themselves later?

After all, if you're just looking for friends, why are you excluding men?"

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By *iceguy83Man
over a year ago

manchester

"You need to email around 70 women to get a reply so keep mailing lol."

Agreed!

I've been a member here for years on and off.

I never get any replies, my meets come solely from club visits.

Most couples / ladies just ignore you point blank and that's with people who are looking for my age range / location etc etc.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Oh look.. its another one of these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to email around 70 women to get a reply so keep mailing lol.

Agreed!

I've been a member here for years on and off.

I never get any replies, my meets come solely from club visits.

Most couples / ladies just ignore you point blank and that's with people who are looking for my age range / location etc etc.

Yes me to I laugh when I get blocked I find it quite fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh look.. its another one of these threads

Well it is Wednesday n we ain't had one since Monday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"i'll stick around and keep trying but begining to lose interest

I'd get rid of the bit about no obnoxious females, they can be quite entertaining

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

all comments taken on board thanks guys ...and no i dont mind male friends who are straight.......it would just seem a bit strange for me other men seeing rather rude pics of me lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"all comments taken on board thanks guys ...and no i dont mind male friends who are straight.......it would just seem a bit strange for me other men seeing rather rude pics of me lol

But us bi types in rather natty dresses make great friends, too. We are great at gossiping, standing with one hand on our hip and we're always free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a few months in and still no friends lol "

From reading your profile it's not clear what your here for?..

Your asking people to add you to their friends list before you'll show them your face?..

You're clueless about the definition of "Friends".

I work on the principle of at the very least chatting to them for a good while before they even get added.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok profile pic added ...and i was here a few years ago under the same circumstances with lots of friends .....maybe people have got paranoid about single males ....i'll keep trying .....after all im worth it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"all comments taken on board thanks guys ...and no i dont mind male friends who are straight.......it would just seem a bit strange for me other men seeing rather rude pics of me lol

But you wouldn't want to be friends with a bi guy?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"all comments taken on board thanks guys ...and no i dont mind male friends who are straight.......it would just seem a bit strange for me other men seeing rather rude pics of me lol

Hey nice cock, Andy! I fabbed it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

oh god

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Funny.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"oh god

Aw shucks. Don't freak out. I don't travel beyond Watford.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?"

See the post immediately above

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above"

Make that two above

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above

Make that two above"

No, three....

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above

Make that two above

No, three....

Five?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above

Make that two above

No, three....

Five? "

Phew *wipes brow*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above

Make that two above

No, three....

Five?

Phew *wipes brow*"

Each to their own its all fun... I'm not here to judge... And neither should others

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Slowly slowly... Catch the monkey

You can't talk about monkeys!!!

Erm why?

See the post immediately above

Make that two above

No, three....

Five?

Phew *wipes brow*

Each to their own its all fun... I'm not here to judge... And neither should others "

Ok, obviously I'm going to have to spell it out for you... I.t - w.a.s - a - j.o.k.e

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ok profile pic added ...and i was here a few years ago under the same circumstances with lots of friends .....maybe people have got paranoid about single males ....i'll keep trying .....after all im worth it lol

Oh the profile pic was ya sprouts n sausage lol

I was expecting it to be a face haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh the profile pic was ya sprouts n sausage lol

I was expecting it to be a face haha.

well my profile does state that only friends get to see my other normal pics ........otherwise i would just put everything on the notice board in my local asda lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't shop in asda so I still wouldn't know lol

Anyway let's frighten u by stating the pic u have put up - lovely chest lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't shop in asda so I still wouldn't know lol

Anyway let's frighten u by stating the pic u have put up - lovely chest lol

need women sayin this .....runs away rather quickly

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