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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Firstly I'd like to say that terms like ample and large are somewhat demeaning and shouldn't be available as an option when selecting your body type.

Curvy; is open to intreptation and what I can see is subject to a broad spectrum, no pun intended!

Where should curvy start and end?

Obviously anyone can rightly call themselves fabulous, that's more of a personal statement of one's self-image rather than a quantifiable body shape or size.

This is a genuine topic of discussion, not a dig at anyone in particular so please don't misinterpret this post. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do is to look at a persons full body photos and decide if it is for you or not as labels don't mean anything a s they can mean different things.

For example I have seen skinny men who describe themselves as athletic due to being able to see the stomach muscles, they think it is classed as a 6 pack, personally to ME they aren't athletic as even I have a 6 pack under my fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing to do is to look at a persons full body photos and decide if it is for you or not as labels don't mean anything a s they can mean different things.

For example I have seen skinny men who describe themselves as athletic due to being able to see the stomach muscles, they think it is classed as a 6 pack, personally to ME they aren't athletic as even I have a 6 pack under my fat."

Plus there are some chaps on here describing themselves as athletic that I wouldn't recognise as such. Darts athletic maybe

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Oh dear, these threads never end well....

Don't think there is a scale where curvy starts and ends.

Curvy is more a shape than a size to me.

I choose to describe myself as curvy, some will agree and some won't. That's what photos are for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly I'd like to say that terms like ample and large are somewhat demeaning and shouldn't be available as an option when selecting your body type.

Curvy; is open to intreptation and what I can see is subject to a broad spectrum, no pun intended!

Where should curvy start and end?

Obviously anyone can rightly call themselves fabulous, that's more of a personal statement of one's self-image rather than a quantifiable body shape or size.

This is a genuine topic of discussion, not a dig at anyone in particular so please don't misinterpret this post. Thanks!"

just out of interest why do you find ample and large demeaning

Im big built so I put ample but if ample was taken off what would I put?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask for a full body pic and a new one and make your own mind up on size.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I think a lot of larger women tend to say they're BBW in their profile. So if you read that you should get more of an idea

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I chose large to describe myself because I am large. And yes I do have curves but they're not all in the right places. I would feel that I was being misleading if I put curvy.

I don't think either the term large is demeaning. If there was an option for beached whale I might raise an eyebrow.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oooh, we haven't had a fat bashing in disguise thread for 24 hours!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Even a guy's "athletic" could mean anything from jockey to shot putter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't think either the term large is demeaning. If there was an option for beached whale I might raise an eyebrow."

i's use it, I dare to be different

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Oh dear, these threads never end well....

"

No they don't as the op usually has some ulterior motive as they can't be that thick they can't work things out for themselves with their own eyes...but maybe I give too much credit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"

I don't think either the term large is demeaning. If there was an option for beached whale I might raise an eyebrow.

i's use it, I dare to be different "

Can you think of any others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads get done to death so you might find it wise to do a forum thread search before you post sometimes as it will save you and others repeating themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I don't think either the term large is demeaning. If there was an option for beached whale I might raise an eyebrow.

i's use it, I dare to be different

Can you think of any others? "

I think just plain old fat does the job but if you say to people your fat they see you as one of those fat birds with a chip on their shoulder, when really im not (honest read my profile it don't say jog on anywhere lol) I'm just blunt and to honest some times, but if you put BBW the anti fat brigade jump is claiming why should you be classed at beautiful just because your fat so you cant win really, so I think ample or large do the job fine, its middle ground, don't sound aggressive dont sound like your up your arse for being fat

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Oooh, we haven't had a fat bashing in disguise thread for 24 hours!"

Damn and I fell for it

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"

I don't think either the term large is demeaning. If there was an option for beached whale I might raise an eyebrow.

i's use it, I dare to be different

Can you think of any others?

I think just plain old fat does the job but if you say to people your fat they see you as one of those fat birds with a chip on their shoulder, when really im not (honest read my profile it don't say jog on anywhere lol) I'm just blunt and to honest some times, but if you put BBW the anti fat brigade jump is claiming why should you be classed at beautiful just because your fat so you cant win really, so I think ample or large do the job fine, its middle ground, don't sound aggressive dont sound like your up your arse for being fat

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Can't win really.

Im off to eat a pie.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"

Im off to eat a pie."

I want pie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i quite like size effelump think it has a nice ring to it lol

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"i quite like size effelump think it has a nice ring to it lol "

Ooh yeah that could work.

Rotund has a nice ring to it?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Im just fat lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Where should curvy start and end?

"

There is no clear definition as we all see things differently. If one person holds a full length mirror and another looks into it the person looking into the mirror will see that image in a different way to the one looking over the top of it even though its the same.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm more interested in why you think 'ample' or 'large' are demeaning ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing to do is to look at a persons full body photos and decide if it is for you or not as labels don't mean anything a s they can mean different things.

For example I have seen skinny men who describe themselves as athletic due to being able to see the stomach muscles, they think it is classed as a 6 pack, personally to ME they aren't athletic as even I have a 6 pack under my fat."

So I'm sort of guy your referring too......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm more interested in why you think 'ample' or 'large' are demeaning ?"

i've asked that, not got a reply yet

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'll settle it then .......

Your all obese ....

1.....2........ 3........ ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just fat lol "

Hardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large person passing through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape not a size.

If your built like a barrel and dont go in n out then maybe you lost the curves....straight up n down no boobs n bums no curves...but hmmmm what if your belly is bigger than your boobs that could be classed as curvy.

Ahhh hell i dunno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing to do is to look at a persons full body photos and decide if it is for you or not as labels don't mean anything a s they can mean different things.

For example I have seen skinny men who describe themselves as athletic due to being able to see the stomach muscles, they think it is classed as a 6 pack, personally to ME they aren't athletic as even I have a 6 pack under my fat.

So I'm sort of guy your referring too...... "

No, because you have selected 'slim' which to me, is what best fits you x

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Large person passing through "

wide load right behind ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly I'd like to say that terms like ample and large are somewhat demeaning and shouldn't be available as an option when selecting your body type.

Curvy; is open to intreptation and what I can see is subject to a broad spectrum, no pun intended!

Where should curvy start and end?

Obviously anyone can rightly call themselves fabulous, that's more of a personal statement of one's self-image rather than a quantifiable body shape or size.

This is a genuine topic of discussion, not a dig at anyone in particular so please don't misinterpret this post. Thanks!"

You are what you eat they say but I don't know what you eat to become fabulous. does it really matter though as its just a general self assessment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best thing to do is to look at a persons full body photos and decide if it is for you or not as labels don't mean anything a s they can mean different things.

For example I have seen skinny men who describe themselves as athletic due to being able to see the stomach muscles, they think it is classed as a 6 pack, personally to M'E they aren't athletic as even I have a 6 pack under my fat.

So I'm sort of guy your referring too......

No, because you have selected 'slim' which to me, is what best fits you x"

Thank u x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm fat. How else, without being dishonest, should I describe myself, other than large? I am large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear, these threads never end well....

Don't think there is a scale where curvy starts and ends.

Curvy is more a shape than a size to me.

I choose to describe myself as curvy, some will agree and some won't. That's what photos are for.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Large person passing through

wide load right behind ya "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought beauty was on the inside?

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"I always thought beauty was on the inside? "

Thats where you find the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat I'm honest and say so in profile up to people what they call themselves

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'm fat, but they dont have that as a tick box. I just have full naked body shoys in my friends list and people can decide from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cuddly motherfucker... and no Fab can't trademark that as its own classification lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Im off to eat a pie.

I want pie"

Cis of you chilly I had an egg custard today xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on the fat fugly bench already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But Julie (sexycouple548) you have an amazing butt, would love to play with it !

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