FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys and M&G's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is a bit of a heated debate going on over in the Ireland forums about a Meet & Greet being organised in Belfast where they have implemented rules about single guys attending, I have cut and pasted the rules below..

"So single guys - here are the rules

1. Dont post your interest in attending anymore, unless you are well verified by the host couples or organisers

2. If you have posted your interest make sure you have given your email address by the 25th October to either Sexy Specs or me.

3. There will be 2 spots available to men with little or no verifications. (We want to help the newbies)

4. The other spots will be given to men that are well verified at other meets with couples and ladies attending the party.

5. There will be a draw made for the men complying with the rules and they will receive an invite.

6. Any men not receiving an invite can go on the reserve list, but must be prepared to make the party at short notice. Please let us know as soon as you can if this is your desire.

Apologies in advance to any of the guys that dont make it this time. Trust me I know how you feel, but if this night works well there will be others and your chance will come

Keep Swinging"

I was wondering what people thought about these rules and are they fair to single guys, what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could argue they're not fair but they're probably realistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the choice of who is throwing the party who they invite

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think party and social rules should be at the organisers discretion, even if they do look a bit strict.

However, any party or social that has low numbers of single men would not be one I would attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I'm invited I don't mind.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think party and social rules should be at the organisers discretion, even if they do look a bit strict.

However, any party or social that has low numbers of single men would not be one I would attend."

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"As long as I'm invited I don't mind. "

You're not allowed to bring your blow up dolls though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as I'm invited I don't mind.

You're not allowed to bring your blow up dolls though

Awww, I'd have to go as a single guy then and not a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think party and social rules should be at the organisers discretion, even if they do look a bit strict.

However, any party or social that has low numbers of single men would not be one I would attend."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a bit of a heated debate going on over in the Ireland forums about a Meet & Greet being organised in Belfast where they have implemented rules about single guys attending, I have cut and pasted the rules below..

"So single guys - here are the rules

1. Dont post your interest in attending anymore, unless you are well verified by the host couples or organisers

2. If you have posted your interest make sure you have given your email address by the 25th October to either Sexy Specs or me.

3. There will be 2 spots available to men with little or no verifications. (We want to help the newbies)

4. The other spots will be given to men that are well verified at other meets with couples and ladies attending the party.

5. There will be a draw made for the men complying with the rules and they will receive an invite.

6. Any men not receiving an invite can go on the reserve list, but must be prepared to make the party at short notice. Please let us know as soon as you can if this is your desire.

Apologies in advance to any of the guys that dont make it this time. Trust me I know how you feel, but if this night works well there will be others and your chance will come

Keep Swinging"

I was wondering what people thought about these rules and are they fair to single guys, what do you think? "

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"As long as I'm invited I don't mind.

You're not allowed to bring your blow up dolls though

Awww, I'd have to go as a single guy then and not a couple.

Thats fine.... the more single men the merrier

lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social "

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"So single guys - here are the rules

1. Dont post your interest in attending anymore, unless you are well verified by the host couples or organisers

2. If you have posted your interest make sure you have given your email address by the 25th October to either Sexy Specs or me.

3. There will be 2 spots available to men with little or no verifications. (We want to help the newbies)

4. The other spots will be given to men that are well verified at other meets with couples and ladies attending the party.

5. There will be a draw made for the men complying with the rules and they will receive an invite.

6. Any men not receiving an invite can go on the reserve list, but must be prepared to make the party at short notice. Please let us know as soon as you can if this is your desire.

Apologies in advance to any of the guys that dont make it this time. Trust me I know how you feel, but if this night works well there will be others and your chance will come

Keep Swinging"

I was wondering what people thought about these rules and are they fair to single guys, what do you think? "

I am confused. I thought a meet and greet was to meet new people you have not met before. Why invite mainly guys who the couples attending have already met and verified? What am I missing?

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

What the others have said.

Also #4 is bi-ist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I had been involved in organising this social, those sort of rules might have been something I might have considered. I liked the bit about a couple of unverified invites. For my own naff sense of humour, I would have added a few facetious rules too, just to see if the guys followed them, for example, to send a photo with a sponge cake on their head to make sure they had read the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though. "

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Oh - and OP - as far as those rules are concerned - it's always the right of the host to set any rules they see fit. If you don't like them - don't show interest! Having read them I certainly wouldn't !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Seamless plug.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Im not going, Im not allowed and I cant go to the one on the 1st of Feb either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Seamless plug. "

Putting in an appearance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" and I cant go to the one on the 1st of Feb either

Why not?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Where's Xtasia? On my phone so can't be arsed to Google!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's Xtasia? On my phone so can't be arsed to Google!"

West Brom. I just looked it up.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Where's Xtasia? On my phone so can't be arsed to Google!

West Brom. I just looked it up. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" and I cant go to the one on the 1st of Feb either

Why not?

Its my son's birthday on that day and I am also in college that day as well, I would have loved to gone after the good report from the Kent social, maybe I will get to the one after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Seamless plug.

Putting in an appearance?

We don't know what we are doing next week most of the time so we will have to check closer to the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Seamless plug.

Putting in an appearance?

We don't know what we are doing next week most of the time so we will have to check closer to the time.

No worries - there's a while yet!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Who cares?

Some nightclubs wont let me in if I'm wearing the wrong shoes. I don't moan about it, I just don't go to them.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???"

No, I'm just slow.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If I were a single man think I'd rather a wank followed by a brew! Much more fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

No, I'm just slow."

get yer trainers on lol

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I think party and social rules should be at the organisers discretion, even if they do look a bit strict.

However, any party or social that has low numbers of single men would not be one I would attend.

+ 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

No, I'm just slow."

Wear trainers next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I were a single man think I'd rather a wank followed by a brew! Much more fun! "

or a brew and then a wank

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

No, I'm just slow."

Harpoon gun or lasso

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single bloke (!!) but that's too many rules for me.

Fair enough they can do what they want and invite who they want... it just sounds too elitist and not fun at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

No, I'm just slow."

Get someone to trip them up and sit on them until you can get to them...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can't understand the need to control the ratio of guests so tightly at a social, personally. But as stated before, it's up to the organisers how they run it.

As a single woman most interested in single men, I would be dubious about attending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't understand the need to control the ratio of guests so tightly at a social, personally. But as stated before, it's up to the organisers how they run it.

As a single woman most interested in single men, I would be dubious about attending. "

Trust me - sometimes control is needed!

Just look at what happened at the first FFFF night at Xtasia - the sheer numbers of twat single guys that turned up due to it being free and membership not being required made for an uncomfortable evening for many - couples, single females and in fact - a lot of the single guys!

The trouble with 'open' events is that you cannot control who attends. A balance needs to be kept for the enjoyment of all!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

and all the time, single men in here are being told to attend a social

There are loads of socials that don't restrict single men. Like the Fab Forum ones.

I hope they get a lovely warm welcome

They would from me if they didn't run so blimmin' fast!

are they all athletes???

No, I'm just slow.

Get someone to trip them up and sit on them until you can get to them...

I'll be needing a few helpers at the Xtasia social then.

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By *innamon ChallengeMan
over a year ago

London

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"At least they are trying to help out the unverified.

Fair yes can see why people thinks it's not though but it's down to the organisers at the end of the day.

And as someone rightly pointed out there are other socials for singles though.

**Shameless Plug!!**

Xtasia - 1st Feb 2014 !!

Can't say we don't give you plenty of advance warning!!

Details in the thread in the clubs section!!

Im not going, Im not allowed and I cant go to the one on the 1st of Feb either

Are you not going because you are a single guy, or because you don't really want to be a single guy, or there's not many single guys going?

It's tough being a single guy. Single guys are just.... Well single guys I guess.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I can't understand the need to control the ratio of guests so tightly at a social, personally. But as stated before, it's up to the organisers how they run it.

As a single woman most interested in single men, I would be dubious about attending.

Trust me - sometimes control is needed!

The trouble with 'open' events is that you cannot control who attends. A balance needs to be kept for the enjoyment of all!

Oh don't get me wrong, I totally understand the need to balance the numbers to a degree. Those rules just seem a bit mathematically precise for a social. And also very restrictive, since the idea is for it to be, well, social. Y'know?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if that is the way they want to run their social they are within their rights to do that....

is it the type of social I would be interested in going to bearing in mind I have been to them all over the country, and northern ireland is on my to do list..... nope....

what it says to me is that they have never been to a proper social... because in all my years of being a social whore and travelling up and down the county going to them... there has never been one where the numbers had to be gerrymandered so that there were more couples than singles.....

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