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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

following on from the independent woman thread do you find it offputting that some of the ladies are just looking for cock and dont want the relationship stuff?

does this make you feel insignificant or used?? or do you feel that whats good for the goose is good for the gander?

oh and keep it nice please!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he he this could prove interesting, lol

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

yea i will be keen to know this,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for the gents to share their thoughts with us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

four single fems in a row, hell you would think they would be battling to get in the middle

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

They may be still in shock to know we are only after their cocks......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

come out and say it guys no one will be offended!! i make it plain what i am here for just want to know how guys feel not that i generally care about a guys feelings, just like an insight into the male mind!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone 'looking' for a relationship would scare me off, if a relationship develops then that is all very well, but to set out 'looking' for one, no no no, so very wrong. not just here, but in life generally.

I have never felt used when in a sex only relationship, had a few lady friends with benefits over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

......@..@..@..@ tumble passing through.....@..@..@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly dont want a relationship with anyone I meet of this site, if I ever do that is lol I had a regular FB last year and we both knew it was just sex but we also socialised as well. That was fine and what I'm looking for again.

I have met women who just what cock and that was fine but not really what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops cheers Shagalooney , that wasn't meant for you xxx

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I certainly dont want a relationship with anyone I meet of this site, if I ever do that is lol I had a regular FB last year and we both knew it was just sex but we also socialised as well. That was fine and what I'm looking for again.

I have met women who just what cock and that was fine but not really what I'm looking for."

you dont want a relainship but your not lookin for anyone who just wants sex? hmmm confused.com lol

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I certainly dont want a relationship with anyone I meet of this site, if I ever do that is lol I had a regular FB last year and we both knew it was just sex but we also socialised as well. That was fine and what I'm looking for again.

I have met women who just what cock and that was fine but not really what I'm looking for.

you dont want a relainship but your not lookin for anyone who just wants sex? hmmm confused.com lol"

ignore me, i just reread lol ooopsy lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I certainly dont want a relationship with anyone I meet of this site, if I ever do that is lol I had a regular FB last year and we both knew it was just sex but we also socialised as well. That was fine and what I'm looking for again.

I have met women who just what cock and that was fine but not really what I'm looking for.

you dont want a relainship but your not lookin for anyone who just wants sex? hmmm confused.com lol"

Sod him, he'll have to take what he's given...

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I certainly dont want a relationship with anyone I meet of this site, if I ever do that is lol I had a regular FB last year and we both knew it was just sex but we also socialised as well. That was fine and what I'm looking for again.

I have met women who just what cock and that was fine but not really what I'm looking for.

you dont want a relainship but your not lookin for anyone who just wants sex? hmmm confused.com lol

Sod him, he'll have to take what he's given..."

lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem in meeting with a woman (women) who simply wants to play with no strings attached.

This is the 21st century isn't it ? and I think society in general has become much more tolerant of a variety of stuff.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I have no problem in meeting with a woman (women) who simply wants to play with no strings attached.

This is the 21st century isn't it ? and I think society in general has become much more tolerant of a variety of stuff."

Oh shut up and get your trousers off boy!

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I have no problem in meeting with a woman (women) who simply wants to play with no strings attached.

This is the 21st century isn't it ? and I think society in general has become much more tolerant of a variety of stuff."

will call ya later no talking just get ya cock out ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no problem in meeting with a woman (women) who simply wants to play with no strings attached.

This is the 21st century isn't it ? and I think society in general has become much more tolerant of a variety of stuff.

will call ya later no talking just get ya cock out ok "

Can't wait to hear ya voice Kitty as long as ya dont call me a cunt !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys prob dont care, we sometimes just look for cock, nothing else. sometimes thats all we want, no aggro. guys dont seem to mind. dont have women begging for cock on here though. or maybe it just depends on what mood your in?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

everybody enjoys sex,male and female.in the past, a guy who had lots of sexual partners.was one of the boys.respect from the guys,and a sneaky admiration,from the ladies.ladies who had lots of sexual partners.was thought of as a slag by the guys.good for a shag, but not a relationship.also a slag by the ladies.no respect,and someone to be watched. ladies were as guilty of these double standards,as the guys.hopefully these outdated perceptions, are on there way out.leaving everybody free to enjoy sex.male and female.fuck sake i dont half go on sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women dont seem to be as blantant as some of the guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"women dont seem to be as blantant as some of the guys on here."

That might be true BUT I bet most women get a few messages daily where the guys might get one in a blue moon. .. . . . . . . . well I do lol I don't have ANy one chasing me.

I would guess most women have guys chasing them all the time !!!!!!!!!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Use me as much as you like girls, I don't mind at all.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

hmmmm the response is supriseing me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"everybody enjoys sex,male and female.in the past, a guy who had lots of sexual partners.was one of the boys.respect from the guys,and a sneaky admiration,from the ladies.ladies who had lots of sexual partners.was thought of as a slag by the guys.good for a shag, but not a relationship.also a slag by the ladies.no respect,and someone to be watched. ladies were as guilty of these double standards,as the guys.hopefully these outdated perceptions, are on there way out.leaving everybody free to enjoy sex.male and female.fuck sake i dont half go on sorry. "

i dont think these are outdated perseptions in the 'vanilla' world.

i have chatted to a few guys i met on a dating site and as soon as i told them i was on here they got funny.

One guy who boasted about dabbling in swinging himself has now said he would not like to meet me becaue of , and i quote 'all the cock you have had'!! - talk about double standards!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well put it this way. our profile pics include both sexes, the female half allways gets compliments. maybe desperate single guys i dunno. but compliments none the less

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?"

I think you have missed the fact it is a tongue in cheek thread, so no need to get frightened of the girls....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does that mean that guys are more blatant? or more compimentary lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine with me if all is wanted is cock and maybe friendship. Do not want a relationship myself and no one should feel used swinging, the pleasure should be consenting and mutaul always. Here's to fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely women/couple are just lookig for cock to start with and if a friendship/relationship blossoms because of it, its all good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol"

Makes a note in diary.....must start stalking Mat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol"

well hello double standards and hypocrisy i hope none of your potential meets ever come on here cause with that statement you have just signed your own celibacy warrant!!! but well done for admittin it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in making friends and having fun. If a couple wants to swing then its up to them. My profile says I'm mainly looking for single girls, I want to be able to do all the kinky stuff that I haven't found in a normal relationship. I have met couples and singles and enjoyed the company of both, not one awkward moment. Just don't expect to see me bringing a gf to the party.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"No harm in making friends and having fun. If a couple wants to swing then its up to them. My profile says I'm mainly looking for single girls, I want to be able to do all the kinky stuff that I haven't found in a normal relationship. I have met couples and singles and enjoyed the company of both, not one awkward moment. Just don't expect to see me bringing a gf to the party."

can i ask why u would not want to swing with a gf? just intrested thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"No harm in making friends and having fun. If a couple wants to swing then its up to them. My profile says I'm mainly looking for single girls, I want to be able to do all the kinky stuff that I haven't found in a normal relationship. I have met couples and singles and enjoyed the company of both, not one awkward moment. Just don't expect to see me bringing a gf to the party.

can i ask why u would not want to swing with a gf? just intrested thats all"

He's going to come out of this looking like a real shit if he doesn't think carefully before answering this....waits with baited breath

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol

well hello double standards and hypocrisy i hope none of your potential meets ever come on here cause with that statement you have just signed your own celibacy warrant!!! but well done for admittin it!!"

I smiled at the came comment but i am sure he didn't mean it like it came across especially if he wants to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me."

sooo its ok for you to go to the party and partake in the buffet but you aint sharing your picnic so to speak??

what if she wanted to swing?? xx

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me."

Maybe you should stick this quote on your profile and see if you still get replies from couples.....

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me."

do u think that the couples who swing dont have real love? do ya think they are mad for sharing lol.

not having a go just real intrested

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me.

sooo its ok for you to go to the party and partake in the buffet but you aint sharing your picnic so to speak??

what if she wanted to swing?? xx"

She would first need to know he swings...

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Right had a bit of a read at this one and I am having a rye smile here as I have seen a decent proportion of the women on here also on dating websites too (and told a lot of blokes are). I treat them all as a social interaction site but with various levels of involvement. Its just more of a direct sexual line on here.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol"
1 i would say swinging,probably adds to our relationship.sex is sex.we are secure, in how we feel about each other.2 i dont think swingers have a greater potential,to become stalkers than anyone else. maybe you know something i dont :- )3 talking of stalkers we are looking for one.part time,maybe 2 or three days a week.moving on to full time,depending on how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?

I think you have missed the fact it is a tongue in cheek thread, so no need to get frightened of the girls...."

Sorry, didn't realise I needed permission before posting!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"My gf is for me lol I can't love someone and share them, the commitment is what makes a relationship for me.

Maybe you should stick this quote on your profile and see if you still get replies from couples....."

i dont think it will make much difference to be honest.

admitedly i am not in a couple but surely the fact that the person they are swinging with doesnt want to swing in future relationships has no bearing on their swinging when out of one??

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?

I think you have missed the fact it is a tongue in cheek thread, so no need to get frightened of the girls....

Sorry, didn't realise I needed permission before posting!"

Chill out.....it's only life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?

I think you have missed the fact it is a tongue in cheek thread, so no need to get frightened of the girls....

Sorry, didn't realise I needed permission before posting!"

are u always so snappy, must be the time of the month for u mr attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol"

very well said lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

very well said lol"

I have a dry sense of humour and think I have got the measure of the forums. Some people like to bait you and wait for you to slip up. Sure couples can be in love and swing, I can also be in love and not swing. It is all about what suits you. I haven't seen any couples upset by my post, maybe I am being too sensitive or cautious?

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Just seen this (missed the "Independent Woman" thread so will have to go back to find it).

Women lookign for "cock" (mmmm could be interesting) - women looking for mutual fun? Hell yeah!

Women looking for relationships - I run for the hills (after I've directed them to Plenty Of Fish or the nearest Dating Site). Its just not what swingignis about IMHO.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol"

Fair play, have only just caught on you are only 21, maybe your views on swinging will change as you get older and are in a long term relationship.

But well done for stating your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry, but I thought this was a swinging site?

Is swinging not about NSA fun?

And is it not a 2-way thing? Guys need girls and girls need guys, and couples need couples?

I think you have missed the fact it is a tongue in cheek thread, so no need to get frightened of the girls....

Sorry, didn't realise I needed permission before posting!

are u always so snappy, must be the time of the month for u mr attitude "

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

very well said lol

I have a dry sense of humour and think I have got the measure of the forums. Some people like to bait you and wait for you to slip up. Sure couples can be in love and swing, I can also be in love and not swing. It is all about what suits you. I haven't seen any couples upset by my post, maybe I am being too sensitive or cautious?"

i actually admire your honesty, i asked u what i did to see what u would say and u said things diffrent to what i thought u would say.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"Just seen this (missed the "Independent Woman" thread so will have to go back to find it).

Women lookign for "cock" (mmmm could be interesting) - women looking for mutual fun? Hell yeah!

Women looking for relationships - I run for the hills (after I've directed them to Plenty Of Fish or the nearest Dating Site). Its just not what swingignis about IMHO."

i am looking for cock, call me lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

very well said lol

I have a dry sense of humour and think I have got the measure of the forums. Some people like to bait you and wait for you to slip up. Sure couples can be in love and swing, I can also be in love and not swing. It is all about what suits you. I haven't seen any couples upset by my post, maybe I am being too sensitive or cautious?

i actually admire your honesty, i asked u what i did to see what u would say and u said things diffrent to what i thought u would say. "

I think he handled that very well, must have been like attending a feckin' interview at times lol

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

very well said lol

I have a dry sense of humour and think I have got the measure of the forums. Some people like to bait you and wait for you to slip up. Sure couples can be in love and swing, I can also be in love and not swing. It is all about what suits you. I haven't seen any couples upset by my post, maybe I am being too sensitive or cautious?

i actually admire your honesty, i asked u what i did to see what u would say and u said things diffrent to what i thought u would say.

I think he handled that very well, must have been like attending a feckin' interview at times lol "

he did init, i have heard other guys say the same but their reasons was diffrent thats why i thought i double check frist lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I swing when I'm single, for me it is just sex and maybe friendship. When I have a partner I stop and I commit to them. Everyone has their own idea of what love is and for me it is 2 people commited only to each other. I don't go around telling couples that they aren't in love, that is for them to decide. Everyone sets their own limits and it's up to others to respect them I respect couples who swing so others should respect my right to not swing when I have a gf lol

Fair play, have only just caught on you are only 21, maybe your views on swinging will change as you get older and are in a long term relationship.

But well done for stating your views"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Fair play, have only just caught on you are only 21, maybe your views on swinging will change as you get older and are in a long term relationship.

But well done for stating your views"

Your 43, don't worry I won't hold it against you. My age does not affect my views, aren't youths meant to be less into monogamous relationships?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"

Fair play, have only just caught on you are only 21, maybe your views on swinging will change as you get older and are in a long term relationship.

But well done for stating your views

Your 43, don't worry I won't hold it against you. My age does not affect my views, aren't youths meant to be less into monogamous relationships?"

What I meant was you may have a different view on swinging as a couple if and when you have been in a long term relationship, many couples get into swinging after a few years of being together....at 21 you are obviously not in this position.

Wasn't a criticism.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'll start off with the best of intentions. Who knows how things will end up. I would be against it if a partner suggested it to me and I would never suggest it to them. Thats how I feel right now, give me a relationship and a few years and I will get back to you. I meet very rarely off this site so it isn't a habbit for me, I don't think I would miss it if I had to stop.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"following on from the independent woman thread do you find it offputting that some of the ladies are just looking for cock and dont want the relationship stuff?

does this make you feel insignificant or used?"

Not at all, it is first and foremost a swingers site, primarily for uncomplicated no strings sexual fun, quite often opportunistic by both parties.

Quite happy to meet the other parties needs and desires, whether it be a quick "cum and go" or a lengthier more social interaction, with regular repeats if so desired.

And girls, why are you surprised that few men reply, are we not well known for failing to read anything on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only on here for pussy.

Cock does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no probs at all as long as everyone is upfront and honest

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance


"four single fems in a row, hell you would think they would be battling to get in the middle "

Couldn't get a bloody wordin edgeways thats why!!!!!!!!!!! typical women

This is a very good thread, I've read it through and agree with just about everybodies points of view. Doesn't that show how diverse the swinging scene is !!!! Whats good for the goose, is not always good for the gander.

I have been part of a couple that was into swinging and we both knew what we wanted and where we stood. Everyone has their limits. As a swingle now I do not or will not denegrade any single woman, for knowing what she wants or how she likes it.

I must admit tho an independant woman IS a BIG turn on for me.

Sorry to have gone on so long

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"following on from the independent woman thread do you find it offputting that some of the ladies are just looking for cock and dont want the relationship stuff?

does this make you feel insignificant or used?? or do you feel that whats good for the goose is good for the gander?

oh and keep it nice please!! "

Not really. It would be nice to have the relationship stuff but this is a swingers site. Now I am not saying women on here can't or are not looking for romance, relationship etc as well as good sex. I think the best place to look for a relationship, romance etc is a vanilla dating website.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"following on from the independent woman thread do you find it offputting that some of the ladies are just looking for cock and dont want the relationship stuff?

does this make you feel insignificant or used?? or do you feel that whats good for the goose is good for the gander?

oh and keep it nice please!! "

Seeing as most or a lot but NOT all men on here are just looking for a fuck I think they don't care if a woman is just looking for a no strings fuck. I think the men who are looking for a woman to swing with may get upset. Some men hope to meet a woman on here to swing with to get past the no single men rule some couples have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the name of the website not give you a clue as to why men join....or woman for that matter??

Unless it said fabdating i can see why. I don't see where this thread is coming from???

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"everybody enjoys sex,male and female.in the past, a guy who had lots of sexual partners.was one of the boys.respect from the guys,and a sneaky admiration,from the ladies.ladies who had lots of sexual partners.was thought of as a slag by the guys.good for a shag, but not a relationship.also a slag by the ladies.no respect,and someone to be watched. ladies were as guilty of these double standards,as the guys.hopefully these outdated perceptions, are on there way out.leaving everybody free to enjoy sex.male and female.fuck sake i dont half go on sorry.

i dont think these are outdated perseptions in the 'vanilla' world.

i have chatted to a few guys i met on a dating site and as soon as i told them i was on here they got funny.

One guy who boasted about dabbling in swinging himself has now said he would not like to meet me becaue of , and i quote 'all the cock you have had'!! - talk about double standards!!!!!!! "

What a knobhead he is. He lives in the age where people thought if men have lots of different women they are a stud and if women have lots of different partners they are a cheap slag.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. I like swinging for interesting sex and socials. This is the last place I'd look for a relationship, it would maybe scare me off, I don't need a stalker lol"

Wow I find that a bit strange. You are happy to fuck swingers but if you had a partner you would not be happy for her to be fucked by another swinger. So it is ok for you but not for her.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Just seen this (missed the "Independent Woman" thread so will have to go back to find it).

Women lookign for "cock" (mmmm could be interesting) - women looking for mutual fun? Hell yeah!

Women looking for relationships - I run for the hills (after I've directed them to Plenty Of Fish or the nearest Dating Site). Its just not what swingignis about IMHO.

i am looking for cock, call me lol"

What's your number lol

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Well I'll start off with the best of intentions. Who knows how things will end up. I would be against it if a partner suggested it to me and I would never suggest it to them. Thats how I feel right now, give me a relationship and a few years and I will get back to you. I meet very rarely off this site so it isn't a habbit for me, I don't think I would miss it if I had to stop."

Then you do have double standards. It is ok for you to shag swinging women and women of swinging couples but no way would you let your partner swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'll start off with the best of intentions. Who knows how things will end up. I would be against it if a partner suggested it to me and I would never suggest it to them. Thats how I feel right now, give me a relationship and a few years and I will get back to you. I meet very rarely off this site so it isn't a habbit for me, I don't think I would miss it if I had to stop.

Then you do have double standards. It is ok for you to shag swinging women and women of swinging couples but no way would you let your partner swing. "

I am single therefore I do not have a partner. When I have a partner then I do not swing either. Read my posts, I think I explained it quite well earlier.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Just seen this (missed the "Independent Woman" thread so will have to go back to find it).

Women lookign for "cock" (mmmm could be interesting) - women looking for mutual fun? Hell yeah!

Women looking for relationships - I run for the hills (after I've directed them to Plenty Of Fish or the nearest Dating Site). Its just not what swingignis about IMHO.

i am looking for cock, call me lol"

* Ring Ring *

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

for some reason in the swinging scene when u meet guys alot of them always wanna 1 on 1 meet without my hubby there, even though they know we come as a cpl, so in answer to the thread question no i dont feel used when meeting guys for a shag as thats all that im looking for, been married for over 30yrs and have to admit i quite like it..lol stella..xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just seen this (missed the "Independent Woman" thread so will have to go back to find it).

Women lookign for "cock" (mmmm could be interesting) - women looking for mutual fun? Hell yeah!

Women looking for relationships - I run for the hills (after I've directed them to Plenty Of Fish or the nearest Dating Site). Its just not what swingignis about IMHO.

i am looking for cock, call me lol

* Ring Ring *"

phone is answered

for anal please press 1

for oral please press 2

for all other sexual positions please press 3 followed by hash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao

gotta get me one of them phones

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. ...."

Great attitude for a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. ....

Great attitude for a swinging site "

I don't see why it's a problem. I advertise myself as a single guy and that is what I am. I don't tell couples they can't swing so what is wrong about me only being on here when I am single?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm for me no i dont think i would feel used about it . would prefer to know them a bit beforehand though as have found out in the past . as i make it pretty clear from the start that i dont do reltionships its not an issue that they not looking for one from my point of view .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here for no strings if i wanted to date i would go to dateline or whatever. refreshingly honest it is on here most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i would have thought that the guys on here want women who are only after a cock and just want to use them for sex

However ive had some odd messages in my time and i think a lot of guys, even tho they dont want you dont like the idea of the women they meet shagging lots of different men

I had one guy tell me if we met he'd expect me to stop meeting other men, had another tell me he had a 3 day rule and wouldnt meet anyone who had had a meet within 3 days prior to meeting him!

so even tho they dont want you i think some feel funny about going with women who meet other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well personally for me if a couple or a single lady wanna use me just for my cock and of course my tongue !!!! well thats fine by me.

after all thats what this lifestyle is all about sex sex and more sex !!!!! or am I on the wrong site lol.

Dont get me wrong I have met a lot of people on here and I belive I can now call them friends and can socilaise with them with no thought of a shag afterwards.

I am on here as it is suposed to be hassle free no strings fun for all parties concerned.

I am not expecting to meet my soul mate orr the love of my life !!!! but hey ya never know !!!.

So if people want to meet me jut coz I have a cock so be it !!! but if they want more then thats great and I welcome it.

Andy

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. ....

Great attitude for a swinging site

I don't see why it's a problem. I advertise myself as a single guy and that is what I am. I don't tell couples they can't swing so what is wrong about me only being on here when I am single?"

What you are saying is while I am single and not getting any I am happy to swing but when I get a partner swinging is off the menu. Some may say you are using swingers as a way to get sex when you are not getting any.

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By *ike 1978Man
over a year ago

kettering / Enfield

me personally i think if a woman is just wanting cock there is nothing wrong with that at all it saves on batteries which is good for global warming after all

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By *drianukMan
over a year ago

Spain, Lancs

I'm not looking for a relationship. Horny sex is fine by me and I think women on here will understand that.

But if I did meet a woman on here who I clicked with emotionally as well as sexually I wouldnt fight that. I think, in fat, that would be a very happy relationship for people who share this interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never have a relationship with a swinger, or swing if I was in a relationship. If I'm in love with someone then I do make a commitment to them and them alone. ....

Great attitude for a swinging site

I don't see why it's a problem. I advertise myself as a single guy and that is what I am. I don't tell couples they can't swing so what is wrong about me only being on here when I am single?

What you are saying is while I am single and not getting any I am happy to swing but when I get a partner swinging is off the menu. Some may say you are using swingers as a way to get sex when you are not getting any. "

Isn't that what everyone on here is doing? Using each other to get something they can't find at home? By some people you mean you?

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