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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?"

I always do, even the ones I have not enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I say "THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH!!" If it was a really good experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?

I always do, even the ones I have not enjoyed "

awwww you have bad sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies. "

oops that will teach me for not reading other threads

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

It's always good manners to finish/leave with a "Thankyou"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies.

oops that will teach me for not reading other threads "

too many to read all of them for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies.

oops that will teach me for not reading other threads "

Nah always good to hear what people have to say and I can't find it anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?"

I'm usually sooooo grateful that ANYONE will still tackle an old fart like me that along with the thanx I always give a sandwich toaster.a tapestry kit, a standard lamp, a Picasso cartoon n a cuddly toy

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies.

oops that will teach me for not reading other threads

Nah always good to hear what people have to say and I can't find it anyway lol "

was it not something like feeling empty after a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always use my manners, please and thankyous and lots of smiles cost nothing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was reading a thread about this yesterday - can't find it now but some interesting replies.

oops that will teach me for not reading other threads

Nah always good to hear what people have to say and I can't find it anyway lol

was it not something like feeling empty after a meet

"

Thank you View, I was beginning to think I had dreamt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question though Cute, before the person/s leave or we leave then yes we say thanks then.

And sometimes over message when receiving a veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone gone to someone's house and on leaving said "thank you for having me" and then realised what just came out of their mouths lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/213583

Here phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?"

You need to be careful with this one as I found that some ladies take exception to being thanked for providing a service, I now tend to thank them for 'a lovely time', cutting straws I know but we should acknowledge the time and effort someone has put into a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners."

Oops I forgot a vanilla date that didn't go well . So let's say 98-99% of the time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners.

Oops I forgot a vanilla date that didn't go well . So let's say 98-99% of the time ."

Ahem.........well ya could have LIED innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I always says thanks for coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would you not thank someone after a nice meet? I thank my vanilla friends for a nice night out in their company - it's just common courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can believe naughtyinessex is a polite lady... She is a true fab lady and is a really nice and happy to oblidge (thanks again but yes manners are becoming a thing that will be left in the dark ages!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can believe naughtyinessex is a polite lady... She is a true fab lady and is a really nice and happy to oblidge (thanks again but yes manners are becoming a thing that will be left in the dark ages!!!! "

I was brought up to be polite. When I say thank you men often ask what for. I always am genuinely thankful for their time and effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners.

Oops I forgot a vanilla date that didn't go well . So let's say 98-99% of the time .

Ahem.........well ya could have LIED innit "

I thanked him for the water (but there was heaps of sarcasm )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?"

Well at least be polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i normally say thank you straight after though.. face covered in cum..

sometimes i think i should wait a little while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit risky this... But I think men need a thank you and a pat on the back, because in a sexual situation its the males ego that is exposed and and the female is more like a judge out of strictly... And therefore a thank you from the female is more poignant than a males because us males need the plaudits.... It's an ego thing... Not for might I add... So all you ladies make sure you say a big thank you through your tongue that is well and truly planted in your cheek, no matter how quick or non orgasmic or dull it may have been!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally thank them, then thank my mum for giving birth to me, my dad for having the sperm to impregnate my mum, donna for being my wife and being there and making it all happen...

Its quite a speach

Oh and anyone else who knows me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners.

Oops I forgot a vanilla date that didn't go well . So let's say 98-99% of the time .

Ahem.........well ya could have LIED innit

I thanked him for the water (but there was heaps of sarcasm )"

I HOPE u don't mean he pissed on u unless of course that is your thing in which case no problem lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I send a message on here when I've got in, saying thanks and enclose a pic of the night

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I always say thank you. The words that follow that are tailored to what I am thankful for, nicely when I'm thankful that it is over, naughtily if it's something more intimate.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Yes! It wouldn't cross our minds, not to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm believe in manors so the lady always cums first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth would you not thank someone after a nice meet? I thank my vanilla friends for a nice night out in their company - it's just common courtesy. "
may say nice to meet you but that's it . Never thanks for the shag . lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hug them and cry while giving their bum a squeeze.

Only joking, I've not had a meet.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"thanks for coming" is usually our response

*it actually is!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I generally announce that my needs have been met and tell 'em not to let the door hit them on the arse on the way out.

Or I ask them to marry me.

The second approach usually gets them out faster.

(Neither of these works especially well if they are accommodating)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?

I'm usually sooooo grateful that ANYONE will still tackle an old fart like me that along with the thanx I always give a sandwich toaster.a tapestry kit, a standard lamp, a Picasso cartoon n a cuddly toy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I save up the manners I don't use in the forums for those who I fuck. Even if the sex is shit I'm always quick to say thank you. Whether that means thank you for finishing so early or thank you for giving me an orgasm is always open to interpretation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing i've always felt the need to say thank you to meets after i'm done with them..

Does anyone else say 'thanks'?"

I thought it was a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always.

I was brought up to show courtesy, respect and have manners.

Oops I forgot a vanilla date that didn't go well . So let's say 98-99% of the time .

Ahem.........well ya could have LIED innit

I thanked him for the water (but there was heaps of sarcasm )

I HOPE u don't mean he pissed on u unless of course that is your thing in which case no problem lol "

Lol never experienced that. Also, I pointed out it was a vanilla date, so the water came with ice and a slice

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I can believe naughtyinessex is a polite lady... She is a true fab lady and is a really nice and happy to oblidge (thanks again but yes manners are becoming a thing that will be left in the dark ages!!!!

I was brought up to be polite. When I say thank you men often ask what for. I always am genuinely thankful for their time and effort "

Happy to oblige ? That's a phrase that'd get my hackles up ....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm believe in manors so the lady always cums first! "

You'd be dead if you waited for me to cum.....

I HATE men banging on to make you cum .....

Plus......... it's almost like ...lets get her to cum then I can see to myself or bang on forever or cum quick ..

It's just NOT good sex .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's a bit risky this... But I think men need a thank you and a pat on the back, because in a sexual situation its the males ego that is exposed and and the female is more like a judge out of strictly... And therefore a thank you from the female is more poignant than a males because us males need the plaudits.... It's an ego thing... Not for might I add... So all you ladies make sure you say a big thank you through your tongue that is well and truly planted in your cheek, no matter how quick or non orgasmic or dull it may have been!!! "

That's a veiwpoint I can see being held by males who _iew women as no more than sperm vessels or something that needs satisfying.

Most women ( mature , sexually knowledgeable women ) contribute a great deal to any sexual scenario. They are suggestive, guiding, kind, they have know how, they are experienced in reading body language , in making men relaxed, comfortable and in communicating how they can be aroused and brought to pinnacles of ecstacy and much much much more .....

Many men don't realise that. They are stupid and arrogant enough to think that they do it ALL and look for a thank you. It alarms me that men still think they they give and the woman takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit risky this... But I think men need a thank you and a pat on the back, because in a sexual situation its the males ego that is exposed and and the female is more like a judge out of strictly... And therefore a thank you from the female is more poignant than a males because us males need the plaudits.... It's an ego thing... Not for might I add... So all you ladies make sure you say a big thank you through your tongue that is well and truly planted in your cheek, no matter how quick or non orgasmic or dull it may have been!!!

That's a veiwpoint I can see being held by males who _iew women as no more than sperm vessels or something that needs satisfying.

Most women ( mature , sexually knowledgeable women ) contribute a great deal to any sexual scenario. They are suggestive, guiding, kind, they have know how, they are experienced in reading body language , in making men relaxed, comfortable and in communicating how they can be aroused and brought to pinnacles of ecstacy and much much much more .....

Many men don't realise that. They are stupid and arrogant enough to think that they do it ALL and look for a thank you. It alarms me that men still think they they give and the woman takes."

They give us their cum and we should not only feel honoured but grateful .

I wonder if the tissue feels honoured and grateful post solo wank?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know about thanking someone for sex(!) but if they hosted I'd obviously thank them for their hospitality along with "I had a great time" or something similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know about thanking someone for sex(!) but if they hosted I'd obviously thank them for their hospitality along with "I had a great time" or something similar. "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's a bit risky this... But I think men need a thank you and a pat on the back, because in a sexual situation its the males ego that is exposed and and the female is more like a judge out of strictly... And therefore a thank you from the female is more poignant than a males because us males need the plaudits.... It's an ego thing... Not for might I add... So all you ladies make sure you say a big thank you through your tongue that is well and truly planted in your cheek, no matter how quick or non orgasmic or dull it may have been!!! "

Men deserve to be thanked for their performance to assuage their egos?

Don't you think that ladies also appreciate recognition for their part? I'm lead to believe it takes two to tango.

Ladies spend a fair bit of time doing their hair, their nails, their makeup, choosing their outfit and so on... Men shower, shave, slap on some smelly stuff, dress and are ready.

Ladies tend to worry about how they look. We like to know we were a turn on. We like to know that our blow jobs are great and any other things we may do are appreciated. We could just lay there like a dead fish and let you get on with it, but generally we don't.

But it's the men that deserve a cheerleading squad, even if it was just for getting a hard on and thrusting it about a bit? Men are the ones emotionally exposed?

I don't think so.

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