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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I hav met a lady on here that i really like and getting quite fond of but dnt wanna spoil her fun of seem pushy or get gel wen she has other meets any advice ladies ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hav met a lady on here that i really like and getting quite fond of but dnt wanna spoil her fun of seem pushy or get gel wen she has other meets any advice ladies ?? "

two things you can do, tell her how you feel and see what she says, she may like you back or stop seeing her as she is a swinger and as it upsets you then you need to move on..

I got jealous of a meet this guy I really like had and I told him how I felt and now he is my boyfriend hehe and he nor I swing anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hav met a lady on here that i really like and getting quite fond of but dnt wanna spoil her fun of seem pushy or get gel wen she has other meets any advice ladies ??

two things you can do, tell her how you feel and see what she says, she may like you back or stop seeing her as she is a swinger and as it upsets you then you need to move on..

I got jealous of a meet this guy I really like had and I told him how I felt and now he is my boyfriend hehe and he nor I swing anymore."
glad it worked out for you maybe I should

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for different people. Remember that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hav met a lady on here that i really like and getting quite fond of but dnt wanna spoil her fun of seem pushy or get gel wen she has other meets any advice ladies ??

two things you can do, tell her how you feel and see what she says, she may like you back or stop seeing her as she is a swinger and as it upsets you then you need to move on..

I got jealous of a meet this guy I really like had and I told him how I felt and now he is my boyfriend hehe and he nor I swing anymore. glad it worked out for you maybe I should "

thanks :D

how long have you been seeing her if you don't mind me asking? it was about four months before I told him how I felt.

good luck :D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Works for different people. Remember that! "
real talk bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hav met a lady on here that i really like and getting quite fond of but dnt wanna spoil her fun of seem pushy or get gel wen she has other meets any advice ladies ??

two things you can do, tell her how you feel and see what she says, she may like you back or stop seeing her as she is a swinger and as it upsets you then you need to move on..

I got jealous of a meet this guy I really like had and I told him how I felt and now he is my boyfriend hehe and he nor I swing anymore. glad it worked out for you maybe I should

thanks :D

how long have you been seeing her if you don't mind me asking? it was about four months before I told him how I felt.

good luck :D"
dnt mind bout a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dnt mind bout a month

do you ever meet without having sex or meet just to spend time together regardless if you have sex or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tbh jus have crazy sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh jus have crazy sex "

aww well tell her if that's what you want and you never know till you ask. hope it goes well for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tbh jus have crazy sex

aww well tell her if that's what you want and you never know till you ask. hope it goes well for you "
thank you good to hear a ladies point of _iew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh jus have crazy sex

aww well tell her if that's what you want and you never know till you ask. hope it goes well for you thank you good to hear a ladies point of _iew "

you're welcome xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i can add a slightly different _iew, i agree with miss kinky, yes tell her how you feel BUT dont just blurt it out!! Ask her how she feels about relationships, ask her honestly how she feels about you and wether she would consider being a couple with you.

That should give you enough information to make an informed choice about telling her.

If you just blurt it out, and shes not open to it, you could spook her and then its adios amigo

Tread softly my friend

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Consider that for her a relationship started on here may include swinging. So you need to think about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love romance .. I hope she feels the same

Tell her - life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These things happen, feelings become involved as none of us are as cold hearted as we think (even me)

You need to sit down and talk to her, maybe suggest a vanilla meet? There will be a lot to discuss as you have met on a swingers site and be prepared that she may freak out a little.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" maybe suggest a vanilla meet? There will be a lot to discuss as you have met on a swingers site and be prepared that she may freak out a little.

Good luck x"

Just see what happens when you suggest this, maybe she feels the same or she might run to the hills

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck

hope it develops the way you both want

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