FabSwingers.com forum: Bad Sex vs No Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you rather have?

I like sex, but I like good sex! Bad sex makes me even hornier (oh and I'm a bit of a bitch when I've had bad sex!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a bad wank then you've only yourself to blame, surely?

Apparently.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No sex over bad sex every time. It's why I don't meet that often.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'd rather go without than have bad sex, as I am left feeling was that it!

So yes, I will go without for a few months than just settle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex as i cant stand the feeling of disappointment after a bad meet at least with no sex i can give myself a good orgasm, the high i get from it just wont be as good or last as long as when ive had good sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex rather than bad sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's bad sex?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No sex is by far preferable to bad sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's bad sex?

I'm not going to answer that in public, but its the only sex I've had in nearly 5 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you rather have?

I like sex, but I like good sex! Bad sex makes me even hornier (oh and I'm a bit of a bitch when I've had bad sex!)"

What would you call bad sex ruby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex????...

Bad facking sex?????...

Ya what's that?...

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I'd rather go without sex than have bad sex.

There is nothing worse than getting all horny to be left frustrated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What would you rather have?

I like sex, but I like good sex! Bad sex makes me even hornier (oh and I'm a bit of a bitch when I've had bad sex!)

What would you call bad sex ruby? "

The kind of sex that leaves me totally unsatisfied - made even worse when the guy has had an orgasm and I've had to fake the orgasm I should have had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second that Ruby! You know you've had bad sex when you've had to fake it to get it over with. Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

I wish I was a bitch and could just say, STOP, it's not working

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

I'd rather have a self induced orgasm than go through the effort of trying to please someone who dosent please me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wish I was a bitch and could just say, STOP, it's not working

The only time I've ever done that was when someone asked me to be their girlfriend midfuck! The answer was "STOP" His response, "But I've not done", mine was, "I have!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't! "

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather have a self induced orgasm than go through the effort of trying to please someone who dosent please me.

Brick SMASH!!!!

Mr bloody subtle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do without or bring out old faithful...Mr M Wand

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"What would you rather have?

I like sex, but I like good sex! Bad sex makes me even hornier (oh and I'm a bit of a bitch when I've had bad sex!)"

Yep just like me!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Rather have none than bad sex - that said... it is a bit like drinking or eating too much. You dont know it was bad until after the event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

One moment!!! ....one moment please!!!!!

But...

If the sex is noisy from the start it's sometimes hard to tell!!

Especially in doggy!!!

So I counter that motion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, no sex is better than bad sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh oh oh and my latest bug bear is just because its a decent sized cock doesn't mean you're a decent shag! If I put the effort in to give a decent blow job then I'd expect a lil bit of effort when it comes to fucking me, I'll even talk dirty if you fuck me at a rate of more than one hump every 10 seconds!

(Oh dear where did Rant Monday come from!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

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One moment!!! ....one moment please!!!!!

But...

If the sex is noisy from the start it's sometimes hard to tell!!

Especially in doggy!!!

So I counter that motion!!

Hahahaha I could so comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a vibe, there's no way I'm going home without at least one orgasm if i can help it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

)

One moment!!! ....one moment please!!!!!

But...

If the sex is noisy from the start it's sometimes hard to tell!!

Especially in doggy!!!

So I counter that motion!!

Hahahaha I could so comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

)

One moment!!! ....one moment please!!!!!

But...

If the sex is noisy from the start it's sometimes hard to tell!!

Especially in doggy!!!

So I counter that motion!!

Ooh, you're that good are you, from the start

Okay, okay I accept it may be difficult for the hard of hearing to know by sound alone that the woman has come

I know I've had a good fuck if I have to tell him to stop. Sometimes though (this is very rare and usually only comes when you know somebody well) the guy just knows when you're about to come without you having to verbalise it and he stops just short of letting you cum.

Sigh, it's been a looooooong time since that happened.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What's bad sex?

Turn up tired or 'sex-d out' one day and I can show you how sex turns bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's bad sex?

Turn up tired or 'sex-d out' one day and I can show you how sex turns bad

Run obi run ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average sex is ok, bad sex would be with someone i didnt like at all.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"What's bad sex?

Turn up tired or 'sex-d out' one day and I can show you how sex turns bad

Run obi run ....

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

When someone has bad sex why is it always the other persons fault ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When someone has bad sex why is it always the other persons fault ?"

Because I know I'm an awesome shag!! (ps tongue in cheek!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no sex over bad sex, absolutely.

then again, ive never had bad sex, although a few of my exes tell me they have.

poor things. lucky they met me. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex over bad sex anyday. Although the only time I've had bad sex and was with my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm another no sex is better then bad sex and I never think it's the other persons fault if the sex is bad, it takes two to tango & have good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's idea of bad sex may not be another's! Although, I think I have been lucky enough to never have had bad sex. I think each intimate encounter relies on both parties making an effort. Is the bad sex always down to the other person? Be honest with yourself and assess your own performance against your (sexual) partner's interests and turn ons !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No sex over bad sex every time. It's why I don't meet that often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad sex is well crap especially if the person bigs themself up prior

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to buck the trend here...

As frustrating as bad sex can be, I'd take it over no sex.

I like sex so even if it's bad (or just not great) there would be something enjoyable about it.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Well I'm an authority on no sex!! It totally sucks..

and not in a good way

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"No sex over bad sex every time. It's why I don't meet that often.

seconded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no sex

bad sex usually results in me doing all the work and not cumming at least if I had no sex id have a wank and cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but you don't know it's going to be bad sex until you've finished so you can't really avoid it.

Does anyone say "I'm going to fuck you badly"

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

". Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

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One moment!!! ....one moment please!!!!!

But...

If the sex is noisy from the start it's sometimes hard to tell!!

Especially in doggy!!!

So I counter that motion!!

Ooh, you're that good are you, from the start

Okay, okay I accept it may be difficult for the hard of hearing to know by sound alone that the woman has come

Sigh, it's been a looooooong time since that happened. "

Getting to know who a person's body responds makes for better sex. One of my favourites, no longer on here, used to say "oh, there's the shuffle" and knew that meant I would kill him if he changed what he was doing at that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but you don't know it's going to be bad sex until you've finished so you can't really avoid it.

Does anyone say "I'm going to fuck you badly"

true

but if I had a meet and things didn't work for me sexually if he contacted me again and I had the choice of another bad sex session or staying at home, id stay at home, I've turned down many re meets because I didn't enjoy our first sexual encounter

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"but you don't know it's going to be bad sex until you've finished so you can't really avoid it.

Does anyone say "I'm going to fuck you badly"

They don't and of course you play a part in it being bad too (most of the time although I have a story about that that I can't post on here).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I second that Ruby! You know you've had bad sex when you've had to fake it to get it over with. Even more annoying when they say "did you cum!". If you have to ask me, I probably havn't!

I wish I was a bitch and could just say, STOP, it's not working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but you don't know it's going to be bad sex until you've finished so you can't really avoid it.

Does anyone say "I'm going to fuck you badly"

They don't and of course you play a part in it being bad too (most of the time although I have a story about that that I can't post on here).

I agree with that, I don't think there's such a thing as being bad at sex its more if there's chemistry between the two of you, if there isn't then no matter what you do you wont enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex is like pizza, even when it's bad it's still pretty good"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I've really had bad sex,even if blokes can't penetrate cuz allergic to durex,they have pleasured me in other ways as I have them.I find it a two/three way thing,u get out of it what u put in

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