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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single men so I like them

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X

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By *oupleMKUKCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We ONLY meet single males .... :D

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

We don't dislike single males. We're just not looking for one at the moment (well, maybe just one... or two)

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By *oupleMKUKCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

Well said .. you are 100% correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

Oh has another week just started? We are back with the struggling guy syndrome already - Sheeeeesh the weekend flew by!!!

Ah well good luck with this one it's a REGULAR favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

the people that use the forum are but a handful of users on Fab. A lot of people on the site want single men. Some single men can let their horn rule their head but most people will ignore those. People get a bit frustrated with them and vent on here. I personally,as a bi woman prefer single men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J.

Oh has another week just started? We are back with the struggling guy syndrome already - Sheeeeesh the weekend flew by!!!

Ah well good luck with this one it's a REGULAR favourite "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J.

Oh has another week just started? We are back with the struggling guy syndrome already - Sheeeeesh the weekend flew by!!!

Ah well good luck with this one it's a REGULAR favourite "

Usual suggestions apply;

Go to socials and/or clubs.

Put effort into your appearance.

Put effort into your friendly approach.

Be polite and respectful, we like to play but we're not sluts (well not always!)

Does that cover it?

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I like single guys, in fact, only want to meet single guys

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Ya know, I'm here to meet single guys so I guess I'm just odd

Ok maybe I should say 'selected single guys' (get out of jail free card held high)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love 'em, but not the whiners or arrogant ones

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The consensus? Of all Fab members? When was the survey conducted? Who ran it and where are the results published?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love 'em, but not the whiners or arrogant ones "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wonders that when I send the 1st message I like to think I'm polite I say hi n compliment gem on there pics n mention that I've read there profile n mention a but about me n say they look great n sexy in there pics if they do n just leave it as if you fancy a chat get back to me

Still do t have much look tho lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

I love men (single or not)! I have no problems with them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's the rude, arrogant, abusive single men who thinks everyone owes them a shag that are disliked. The confident, friendly, laid back, up for a laugh single guys on here usually get on pretty well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

This is what women say. Sadly what women think/say and do are different to reality

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Some of my best friends are single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The consensus? Of all Fab members? When was the survey conducted? Who ran it and where are the results published?"

Please send a postal order, value £25 made payable to Sydney university at the usual address and we will forward you our 11,000 page research analysis which proves conclusively with only a margin of doubt of 97% that single men are the solid foundation upon which this site is built. Please allow 92days for royal mail postal delivery. Thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J.

I love men (single or not)! I have no problems with them at all "

Apart from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol its like a lottery, I wuold say the most fun about this site is the chat room or the forum as the inbox is dry most times lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single guys, as fussy as I am iv been my fair share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice, funny, fit single guys yes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind being a single male on here!!! Bring on the challenge! All else fails will go to a club and pleasure myself in the comer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

I dont think that is true, I think its the behavior and attitude of some single guys that some find objectionable. I have written on my profile that I am not interested in single guys but still get messages looking for a shag/bj etc and Im a guy, I can image now the ladies feel getting that constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP needs to understand that like most communities in life its about the market place. FAB has circa 120,000 subscribers at anyone time give or take 10%. Of the massed ranks over 98,000 of those subscribers are single men (or those who purport to be single) that's almost 80% of the community.

The remainder of the FAB world is made up of Couples (MF) single ladies, TVs and TS's with others being the smallest minority.

So the 20% have a lot to choose from (if that is their catchment pool!) with those kind of odds its little wonder that MF couples and single ladies who seek single men will be inundated with various forms of requests to meet some will be polite and engaging some will be less polite and lets say frank and to the point. Those who prefer the frank and less subtle approach to finding playmates seemingly have those who prefer a gentle and thoughtful approach, tarred with the same brush. Hence a degree of scepticism creeps in to the 20% who form the minority. Does that answer your question?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

It's the married guys that are hated

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

From nearly five years of experience on here, we find that most single guys fall into one of three categories.

1. Polite, well mannered, fun, honest, friendly and trustworthy. (By far the smallest group lol)

2. Ignorant, ill mannered and arrogant, who think being on here somehow entitles them to a shag.

3. Not single!

In our experience, as a rough estimate, I would say the first group makes up under 20% of the guys we have had contact with.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X

Well said .. you are 100% correct. "

We're with this. The "fancy a fuck", "here's a photo of my cock" and "stop whatever you're doing right now and meet my demands" briggade are the ones which get short thrift. Especially when you look on their profile and you get someone who's been on here for x years with no veri's (wonder why), or joined four minutes ago (then next day there name has changed to "user no longer on site".

Plenty of nice, polite chaps around though.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X

This is what women say. Sadly what women think/say and do are different to reality "

That's a pretty big generalisation isn't it?? This is exactly what I say AND do! Don't forget the just being polite and friendly etc isn't enough to get you meets as there needs to be an attraction too but just because men get turned down or messages deleted doesn't mean they are hated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That bloke Sid ain't very popular I've seen loads if people telling him not to bother, but then with a last name like nyuniversity I'm not surprised lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X

This is what women say. Sadly what women think/say and do are different to reality

That's a pretty big generalisation isn't it?? This is exactly what I say AND do! Don't forget the just being polite and friendly etc isn't enough to get you meets as there needs to be an attraction too but just because men get turned down or messages deleted doesn't mean they are hated! "

A lot of women I have spoken to in person claim they want the friendly, polite and well mannered men who are single and a lot of the time. They pick out guys who are rude and arrogant and then claim to love them whilst moaning that they want to meet a "nice" guy. Just an observation. Meant no harm by the comment made. Its just something I have noticed when speaking to women in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is generally a case of 'whatever tickles your pickle...'

Despite many claiming they dont have pickles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single men I will meet cheaters not my thing ,but totally agree with you that u single men on here get a rough deal xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From nearly five years of experience on here, we find that most single guys fall into one of three categories.

1. Polite, well mannered, fun, honest, friendly and trustworthy. (By far the smallest group lol)

2. Ignorant, ill mannered and arrogant, who think being on here somehow entitles them to a shag.

3. Not single!

In our experience, as a rough estimate, I would say the first group makes up under 20% of the guys we have had contact with. "

In the few weeks that I am on the site it appears that there is a much higher percentage of women in Britain who just seek males.curious. . .

I fall into category 1 above but it makes no difference. Still get few replies and some don't even look at the profile and therefore don't even choose to _iew face pic and this when I would meet their very specific requests. The mind boggles. I am seriously considering sending much more explicit messages. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No single men for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, it's my fault

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

Yeah, they fart then look you in the eye and say 'you like curry, mate?'. That's why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only meet single men so I like them "

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+1

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I love my single men, the respectful one's of course, not the one's who seem to think I'm a free prostitute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The competition is too high for single guys. The ratio of guys to girls is a ball ache. My personal experience makes me feel like a leper!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really "

I have noticed that if you email single women here, most you get is abuse back, I thought this would be a friendly place lol x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

"

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

"

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x."

Is that the message that you tend to send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x.

Is that the message that you tend to send? "

Yes thats the usuall message I usually write to them x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The competition is too high for single guys. The ratio of guys to girls is a ball ache. My personal experience makes me feel like a leper!"

No it isnt to high, a lot depends on your local area but regardless, you will find on any online site like this or even vanilla dating that there are always more guys than girls.

Success on here depends on your own attitude and how you come across to others. If you let every rejection knock you back, then your gonna be slashing your wrists by Friday. Just keep at it and sooner or later you will get a positive result.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really "

And a fair few who SAY they are a couple but it is only a single male lol

Mama we're all crazeeee now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really

I have noticed that if you email single women here, most you get is abuse back, I thought this would be a friendly place lol x."

I dont know who youve been emailing mate cos ive never had an abusive email from a woman on here ever!

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Us polite, lovely smelling, handsome, and intelligent guys are a rare breed................especially us with shaved balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really

I have noticed that if you email single women here, most you get is abuse back, I thought this would be a friendly place lol x.

I dont know who youve been emailing mate cos ive never had an abusive email from a woman on here ever!"

lol thats good, yeah its just few that does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x.

Is that the message that you tend to send?

Yes thats the usuall message I usually write to them x."

That might explain the responses! Or lack of!

Try something original and more personal - you may see a different outcome!

And to the OP - life as a single male on here is what you make it - not what others influence.

And life is good! Very good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like single males...

Suppose it's how your approaching others on here?

Not really, its a nice msg saying hi, I like your profile and pic, fancy some fun.

At least I know I am a nice guy x.

Is that the message that you tend to send?

Yes thats the usuall message I usually write to them x.

That might explain the responses! Or lack of!

Try something original and more personal - you may see a different outcome!

And to the OP - life as a single male on here is what you make it - not what others influence.

And life is good! Very good! "

Yes thanks pal, I will try that as well lol.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I dislike nobody and will always answer messages from single men even if to say 'no thank you'. Just the way I would like my message to be treated!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single men, a lot, mainly from behind!

From my perspective the single men I've had the most fun with are the one's who've managed to turn my brain on.

Being inventive with first messages is usually a good way to go (not a copy and paste though!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some!,,, single men can b very pushy and rude... Gets my tits when I say I only meet weekends but they go on n on like its gunna make me change my mind..n then get nasty as I don't reply just delete as they won't give up.. Them type of single guys spoil it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dislike nobody and will always answer messages from single men even if to say 'no thank you'. Just the way I would like my message to be treated! "

Apart from me that is

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

I find it difficult to find a woman in my area. The one's I message just ignore me and delete my message straight away without even a no thank you. It's not even like I send them a message saying meet me tonight and have a 9" cock deep inside you. I respect woman but its getting me nowhere. Ive had one meet off here in 9 months. It does seem that single guys are dirt and no one is interested. I would happily meet up wiyh women in my area. Most of them are absolutely stunning from what I can see too. Im off work for a week and still can't get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it difficult to find a woman in my area. The one's I message just ignore me and delete my message straight away without even a no thank you. It's not even like I send them a message saying meet me tonight and have a 9" cock deep inside you. I respect woman but its getting me nowhere. Ive had one meet off here in 9 months. It does seem that single guys are dirt and no one is interested. I would happily meet up wiyh women in my area. Most of them are absolutely stunning from what I can see too. Im off work for a week and still can't get a meet "

Sounds like me. Only I haven't had a meet and I have been here for 3 years.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"I find it difficult to find a woman in my area. The one's I message just ignore me and delete my message straight away without even a no thank you. It's not even like I send them a message saying meet me tonight and have a 9" cock deep inside you. I respect woman but its getting me nowhere. Ive had one meet off here in 9 months. It does seem that single guys are dirt and no one is interested. I would happily meet up wiyh women in my area. Most of them are absolutely stunning from what I can see too. Im off work for a week and still can't get a meet

Sounds like me. Only I haven't had a meet and I have been here for 3 years. "

It's too easy just to give up tho

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I dislike nobody and will always answer messages from single men even if to say 'no thank you'. Just the way I would like my message to be treated!

Apart from me that is "

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

lol @ _rightonsteve, I wont quote you though as it's a lonnnnng post.

General one line messages with no effort would get deleted by me too

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

And of course the good ones actually read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm

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Very original Steve!

*still not replying though!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

in the end only I answer for me...

I dont answer for every single bloke...

other single blokes don't answer for me...

I make my own luck, my own oppotunities....

I don't rely on others....

blaming others... or the numbers... is too easy a kop out! It places all the blame elsewhere..

sometimes you have to look at the way you interact with others.... if something isnt working then change it!!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


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Very original Steve!

*still not replying though! "

Ooooh Obi, you're such a hard man...poor Steve spilled his guts out for you!!! c'mon, just a one line response to make him happy!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I dislike nobody and will always answer messages from single men even if to say 'no thank you'. Just the way I would like my message to be treated!

Apart from me that is

"

Maybe it would be best if you ignore each other please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in the end only I answer for me...

I dont answer for every single bloke...

other single blokes don't answer for me...

I make my own luck, my own oppotunities....

I don't rely on others....

blaming others... or the numbers... is too easy a kop out! It places all the blame elsewhere..

sometimes you have to look at the way you interact with others.... if something isnt working then change it!!"

What he said!! ^

*Thanks for answering for me Fabio!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it difficult to find a woman in my area. The one's I message just ignore me and delete my message straight away without even a no thank you. It's not even like I send them a message saying meet me tonight and have a 9" cock deep inside you. I respect woman but its getting me nowhere. Ive had one meet off here in 9 months. It does seem that single guys are dirt and no one is interested. I would happily meet up wiyh women in my area. Most of them are absolutely stunning from what I can see too. Im off work for a week and still can't get a meet "

No response = no thank you! So how exactly are you being treated like dirt? If you don't match someone's preferences then don't contact them and you won't get that awful sense of rejection.

There is NO entitlement here!

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By *oupleMKUKCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Ya know, I'm here to meet single guys so I guess I'm just odd

Ok maybe I should say 'selected single guys' (get out of jail free card held high) "

LOL ... yep, very true. Same as in any other walk of life we get to pick and choose. If the single guys have the proper approach and not "Hey, you, wanna meet for a f*ck" then no problem whatsoever. Even that may work for some, but not for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP needs to understand that like most communities in life its about the market place. FAB has circa 120,000 subscribers at anyone time give or take 10%. Of the massed ranks over 98,000 of those subscribers are single men (or those who purport to be single) that's almost 80% of the community.

The remainder of the FAB world is made up of Couples (MF) single ladies, TVs and TS's with others being the smallest minority.

So the 20% have a lot to choose from (if that is their catchment pool!) with those kind of odds its little wonder that MF couples and single ladies who seek single men will be inundated with various forms of requests to meet some will be polite and engaging some will be less polite and lets say frank and to the point. Those who prefer the frank and less subtle approach to finding playmates seemingly have those who prefer a gentle and thoughtful approach, tarred with the same brush. Hence a degree of scepticism creeps in to the 20% who form the minority. Does that answer your question?"

Nah !!! Can you run that past us one more time , but in greater detail

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

its purely a numbers thing .. simples

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"its purely a numbers thing .. simples"

I disagree with it being a numbers thing.

I really think it has so much more to do with the individual and individual approach.

Those that send out the 200 bullet pm's in the hope that 1 shot hits it's target, will get 199 misses.

Those that read a profile, respect the profile and approach sensibly will get a different response.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some nice

some not so nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

thats about it

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

So, let me get this straight, rejecting a single guy is now treating them like dirt?

Is there any approach that won't be regarded as some sort of ill-treatment, other than replying "oh yes, big boy, get over here and fuck me now"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, let me get this straight, rejecting a single guy is now treating them like dirt?

Is there any approach that won't be regarded as some sort of ill-treatment, other than replying "oh yes, big boy, get over here and fuck me now"?"

Only in there sad deluded minds, I have been rejected many times on Fab and its all part of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my single men, the respectful one's of course, not the one's who seem to think I'm a free prostitute! "

This... it's the men that treat women like free prostitutes that give the other guys a bad name.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X

This is what women say. Sadly what women think/say and do are different to reality

That's a pretty big generalisation isn't it?? This is exactly what I say AND do! Don't forget the just being polite and friendly etc isn't enough to get you meets as there needs to be an attraction too but just because men get turned down or messages deleted doesn't mean they are hated! "

I totally agree..There is a recurrence of this "single men are hated" theme every now and then on the forum which is a statement so often made as a bland generalisation based on the contributors' lack of success and patience.

Judging by the response here and elsewhere on the forum it is also a highly dubious generalisation.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

lots of single fellas do extremely well on here ...its all about approach and oersonality i think

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I happen to know quite a few single men

I know a few who say they are single and they aren't really

I have noticed that if you email single women here, most you get is abuse back, I thought this would be a friendly place lol x."

I've never had an abusive reply from a woman, but am always careful to send a polite message that demonstrates that I have read and understood the profile.

I do admit I have sometimes had no reply at all, but I fully understand the reasons why they might be, and do not consider that rude at all.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

Dickheads are not too well liked. Thing is that since there is a preponderance of single males mosr dickheads are more likely to be male. It's just a matter of numbers.

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

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By *bthreeCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

Couldn't agree more xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads "

Why is it pathetic that someone wanks over your pics? Why on earth have you got pics like that on show if you don't want people to wank over them?!?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads "

I think I'm at the other end of the country.......please dont tar me with the he's just an online wank pervo pic collector...I've recently been down south on a few massive meets

wheres the logic now? lol

*now can I perv the profile????!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, the general consensus on Fab is that single guys aren't too well liked? Could anyone shed any light as to why? Many thanks, J. "

I love single males

I was moaning to my toyboy I don't get enough attention he recommended this site , I'm swamped with attention from single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads "

Says the woman with her legs opened

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I single men. The more, the merrier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads

Says the woman with her legs opened "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single men so we like them very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not the case with us.

Well mannered, friendly and SINGLE males with with the ability to write more than a crass one liner message are liked and get meetings with us, but being rude, aggressive or lying about their status these types are not liked.

There are after all so many single men to choose from, what's a girl to do other than be selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads "

They might be wanking over your guy's cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not the case with us.

Well mannered, friendly and SINGLE males with with the ability to write more than a crass one liner message are liked and get meetings with us, but being rude, aggressive or lying about their status these types are not liked.

There are after all so many single men to choose from, what's a girl to do other than be selective.

"

I `dunno where wetwang is...I best not perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads

Says the woman with her legs opened

"

What dose the green face with teeth mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys rock ( and u sexy single girls )xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads

Says the woman with her legs opened

What dose the green face with teeth mean "

stop changing the thread subject!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only meet single men so I like them "

Yes some os us are okay. Not every one like the same thing after all.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's the abuse you get when you turn someone down it's uncalled for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not the case.

Polite, well mannered, friendly single males are very much liked and in demand.

Rude, arrogant idiots are not. Lol.

Bit like in real life! X "

Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not the case with us.

Well mannered, friendly and SINGLE males with with the ability to write more than a crass one liner message are liked and get meetings with us, but being rude, aggressive or lying about their status these types are not liked.

There are after all so many single men to choose from, what's a girl to do other than be selective.

I `dunno where wetwang is...I best not perv "

Richard Whiteley was mayor of wetwang

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certainly not the case with us.

Well mannered, friendly and SINGLE males with with the ability to write more than a crass one liner message are liked and get meetings with us, but being rude, aggressive or lying about their status these types are not liked.

There are after all so many single men to choose from, what's a girl to do other than be selective.

I `dunno where wetwang is...I best not perv

Richard Whiteley was mayor of wetwang"

Hmmm a wetwanger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because if a single guy living at the other end of the country or even in another country looks at our profile they are just wanting a wank. Pathetic. There are a few decent ones out there but most are one liner 'fancy a fuck tonight' dick heads

Says the woman with her legs opened

What dose the green face with teeth mean

stop changing the thread subject!!!!! "

No it dosent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the abuse you get when you turn someone down it's uncalled for...."

Yes

U say no ty then u get a torrid of abuse then u still get torrid of abuse if u don't reply back

Not from all of them though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The consensus? Of all Fab members? When was the survey conducted? Who ran it and where are the results published?

Please send a postal order, value £25 made payable to Sydney university at the usual address and we will forward you our 11,000 page research analysis which proves conclusively with only a margin of doubt of 97% that single men are the solid foundation upon which this site is built. Please allow 92days for royal mail postal delivery. Thank u

"

Any etnographic qualitative researchers in the field atm? Sexy university girlies with tied back black hair which they let down as they toss their head to one side and take off their thick rimmed spectacles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the abuse you get when you turn someone down it's uncalled for...."

I never get a use when I turn them down.

I think they must just be relieved I did.

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