FabSwingers.com forum: Lonely? Turn the radio on.

By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

Apparently there are millions of people all over the country who only have the radio for company and can go days, if not weeks, before they talk to another human and most find this very difficult to cope with.

Now, I've been single for 26 years and I also work full time where interacting with people is paramount so I RELISH going home to silence and my own company.

I've even lied in the past about not being able to visit family at Christmas due to working, when in reality, I'm at home, alone, wallowing in the sound of TOTP Christmas special and eating my body weight in roast potatoes.

What about you lot, lonely? Alone? Good or bad?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Alone (but for the cats) and love it...I occasionally wouldn't mind company only when my sciatica is bad and I can't move, soon as I'm back on my feet that slight desire buggers off again. Haven't been properly lonely since the last 2 or 3 years of married life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I get lonely, though I do miss people who have passed away.

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By *opsy Rogers OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Alone (but for the cats) and love it...I occasionally wouldn't mind company only when my sciatica is bad and I can't move, soon as I'm back on my feet that slight desire buggers off again. Haven't been properly lonely since the last 2 or 3 years of married life"

With you there Caz, we all could do with someone when we're not at our best. In fact, the only time I've ever really been lonely and felt it affected me negatively, is when I'm in crowds. And I'm no shrinking flower either!

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Up until last year I always lived with someone. I used to hate it, but now I find that it's growing on me.

They are days where I am glad to have pulled some random of here, just to have company.

Today I won't physically talk to another person.... But I don't care anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, I do like my own company but do also enjoy just chilling out with others.

I was in a 4 year relationship with a man in the forces so in that respect, a relationship where he was around 24/7 probably wouldn't suit me especially as I like my bed to myself but do sometimes feel the loneliness of single life as a result of my choices.

Christmas is ok but often get stressed by having to be surrounded by up to 15 people for 2 days so try to sneak off alone for an hour or two.

I guess everything is good in moderation for example if you didn't have a job where you interacted and spent days alone, evenings alone wouldn't be so much fun.

Does that make sense?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Alone and usually happy with it. Select company is good, in small doses, but I need a lot of my own space.

Even, (sometimes especially), family I can only be with for short periods before I crave solitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy living alone most of the time but sometimes a bit of company would be nice, never felt lonely though.

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By *unglerivermonkeyMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

My youngest recently went back to uni and it took a little while to adjust back to living alone.

I do however love my independence and the fact that I can come and go as I please,eat when I like and watch as much sport as I want!

Just the sofa snuggles that are missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently there are millions of people all over the country who only have the radio for company and can go days, if not weeks, before they talk to another human and most find this very difficult to cope with.

Now, I've been single for 26 years and I also work full time where interacting with people is paramount so I RELISH going home to silence and my own company.

What about you lot, lonely? Alone? Good or bad?"

I'm with you on that one. By the time I have time to myself, I'm happy for it. By the time I have to interact, I really want to.

I can go about a week without people or radio though and sometimes it hurts, sometimes it's a blessing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone with a cat and a dog, and I too like to come back to a

without any noise except for the cat demanding her food.

Usually spend Christmas on my own, prefer it that way, and I shall go camping with the dog as per usual.

Loner here who like my own company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone but i aint lonely. I hv a hectic job where im constantly talking to ppl all day and on the phone as well so its nice to get home and hv sum quiet time on my own

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