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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever felt that it was a struggle to come to terms with your sexuality, weather your bi or just the fact that you are a multiple partner kind of person or tv I would love to hear your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I come from a very traditional family and have always struggled with the concept of marriage, kids and monogamy.

Whilst in relationships, I always remained loyal but there was always something deeper missing.

Having a partner I can be completely open with as well as share D/s elements gives me more security and mentally, more pleasure and satisfaction than I have ever had before. I feel very fortunate to have taken the plunge into discovery and someone who is willing to help me experience new things.

crystal

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No, it's never bothered me. It's nobody's business but mine and anyone else I play with or have a romantic/sexual relationship with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are times when I struggle and times when I want to let it all hang out so to speak but it's a hard thing to share when your not even sure yourself if that makes sence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before i joined fab, i was very insular with my sexual preferences, and borderline homophobic. Since joining fab and being part of more liberal attitudes and more open socially, its given me the confidence to express myself sexually and enjoy other peoples attitudes as well.

3 months ago, i would have found it almost impossible to be naked infront of another guy, now i can happily perform with another guy even touching me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I come from a very traditional family and have always struggled with the concept of marriage, kids and monogamy.

Whilst in relationships, I always remained loyal but there was always something deeper missing.

Having a partner I can be completely open with as well as share D/s elements gives me more security and mentally, more pleasure and satisfaction than I have ever had before. I feel very fortunate to have taken the plunge into discovery and someone who is willing to help me experience new things.

crystal"

Totally jealous

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why share then? It's your personal business. Tell only the people it's relevant to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are times when I struggle and times when I want to let it all hang out so to speak but it's a hard thing to share when your not even sure yourself if that makes sence"

I am quite happy with my own sexuality, to the point of been able to compliment guys on here for having a cute bum

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not so sure. When I first started dressing, I used to be able to slip Tina on and off like a dress. However, now it isn't so easy to change my mind set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I come from a very traditional family and have always struggled with the concept of marriage, kids and monogamy.

Whilst in relationships, I always remained loyal but there was always something deeper missing.

Having a partner I can be completely open with as well as share D/s elements gives me more security and mentally, more pleasure and satisfaction than I have ever had before. I feel very fortunate to have taken the plunge into discovery and someone who is willing to help me experience new things.

crystal

Totally jealous "

There are loads of good guys out there You may have to kiss a few frogs on the way but the journey is half the fun!

There are still quite a few kinks of mine which we are a long way off exploring but it's great to know its never a no, it's always a not yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been Gay, it wasn't a choice .

when younger 11 to 16, it was confusing, and I did try hiding my sexuality, for my safety, and to avoid breaking the law, Ie being gay was not legal, and any sex act between 2 males was an offence, punished by prison.

I spent many years as an active member of CHE, working towards changing the law, and marched most weekends between 16 and 20, campaigning for a change in the law, which has happened.

CHE is still alive and well, now campaigning for gay rights, and health services for gay men.

I have never struggled with my sexuality, but have been celibate for 35 yrs, only recently, accepting that sex is a part of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever felt that it was a struggle to come to terms with your sexuality, weather your bi or just the fact that you are a multiple partner kind of person or tv I would love to hear your thoughts"

Until we met I was extremely naive and not into any kinky stuff haha

However we explored and found we were completely compatible so it was just a natural progression and I think you need to have 100% trust to evolve.

Joining the site and the experiences we have had, it is a joint venture and something we do within a loving relationship.

I was also brought up with very traditional values, and I did at times to start with wrestle with my conscience and think my Mum would be at me.

However it is our life and the way we choose to live it, and it really is no ones business but ours.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My sexuality is a secret and I'm not going to tell anyone.... OK anyone else, except the Internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I come from a very traditional family and have always struggled with the concept of marriage, kids and monogamy.

Whilst in relationships, I always remained loyal but there was always something deeper missing.

Having a partner I can be completely open with as well as share D/s elements gives me more security and mentally, more pleasure and satisfaction than I have ever had before. I feel very fortunate to have taken the plunge into discovery and someone who is willing to help me experience new things.

crystal

Totally jealous

There are loads of good guys out there You may have to kiss a few frogs on the way but the journey is half the fun!

There are still quite a few kinks of mine which we are a long way off exploring but it's great to know its never a no, it's always a not yet. "

I had a fabulous frog once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a fabulous frog once"

That made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a fabulous frog once

That made me lol "

I'm turning towards kinky men now, but it's a hard one...

Search that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started off gay at 14 (my sexual experiences were all wiv adult men) . Then I turned bi fir some years, then back to gay n last few years been bi again

I've never struggled with it n have always been totally comfortable with my sexuality - wherever it has swung to.

You're only here once so there's nothing to beat yaself up about in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of inspiration there from all of you some times it's just nice to know that your not the only one that has doubts and fears

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