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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Depends who says it and what they say. And whether they say it after kicking out time on a Friday or Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what the op certainly is a hot lady and very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never take compliments well, a girl said I was good looking an went bright red and didn't speak for a few minutes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just greatful there are guys desperate enough to fuck fat whale types... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dont get that many

i want men to meet me because they think we will have fun together, and i am a nice person, not because i look really good. if they are that bothered about looks then they arent really my type, obviously you have to be attracted to someone a bit though.

they usually say they like my hairy pussy and my pictures, and i cant disagree with them about that.

always say thanks, as its polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to take life with a pinch of salt, its too short to take everything seriously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to take life with a pinch of salt, its too short to take everything seriously!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist! "

Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just greatful there are guys desperate enough to fuck fat whale types... lol "

Yeah, or old grannies.

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

When my partner compliments me i geek happy and good as i know they mean it , any orner compliments get took with a pinch or salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking

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By *MOOTH AND ROUGHCouple
over a year ago

tamworth


"When my partner compliments me i geek happy and good as i know they mean it , any orner compliments get took with a pinch or salt "

Not geek meant go fecking predictive text

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."

Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist!

Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares "

Not in my case. I wouldn't give false compliments to get into a bloke's pants. Any compliment I give is genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."

Yes same here unless I know the person well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Compliments are nice but sadly too many don't mean them or try to make a girl feel like she is more special than the others. Just timewasters and game players.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.

Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve) "

Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a huge pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pinch of salt here always have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take them with not just a pinch but a whole pile of salt

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters."

I am not very good at accepting compliments at all especially in person. I never quite know what to say or how to take them.

Most on here I take with a pinch of salt and ignore as they more than likely say the same things to everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking "

In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms afterwards too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never take compliments well, a girl said I was good looking an went bright red and didn't speak for a few minutes lol"

I do this lol but I am getting better at saying thank you instead of disagreeing with them.

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

I do compliment on here, but not to everyone..

I think it's nice to tell someone they look great etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking

In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms

afterwards too? "

lol no there was no crying, I dont mind anybody complimenting Donna but it was just way over the top, I think if she had shit herself he would of said how wonderful her shit was

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.

Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)

Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then."

People sometimes not like there pics and I don't judge book by cover once there I'd prefur to read the pages and explore the content

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I use buckets of salt

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I accept all compliments with a smile...they are good for my ego

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England


"Compliments are nice but sadly too many don't mean them or try to make a girl feel like she is more special than the others. Just timewasters and game players."

Maybe a girl who feels cherished performs better between the sheets.. A thought not a statement !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 90% of the time....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most of it is told in an attempt to get into my panties.

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England


"We had a 3some with a bloke who was constantly complimenting Donna, and I mean over the top compliments, she got annoyed with it in the end and told him she doesnt want or need compliments she just wanted fcuking

In my opinion that is disrespectful to the husband or partner!!! There was two of you there after all. Did he cry in her arms

afterwards too?

lol no there was no crying, I dont mind anybody complimenting Donna but it was just way over the top, I think if she had shit herself he would of said how wonderful her shit was "

Maybe it was first time the guy had done swinging? maybe next time he would be more reserved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a tablespoon of salt. But it always makes me smile and I say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never take compliments well, a girl said I was good looking an went bright red and didn't speak for a few minutes lol"

You are hot

I am the same though. I normally think they are taking the mick or want something

Sarah

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I take it as it is a compliment.....I don't need my ego stroking to consider they are lying...nor is it a fast track way of getting a shag

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yeah.. no one could possibly mean what they say to me.

Load of old twaddle.. Just as well i like salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant blame a man for complimenting a woman if he thinks it will get him what he wants though, as long as they dont over do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that even if the complimentor is throwing out blarney like it was from a belt fed bullshit gun, if the intent is to make someone feel better about themselves, with or without the aim of relieving said person of their undercrackers, then the compliment should be taken as intended.

I personally love folk telling me how handsome, witty and well toned I am.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I would suggest that even if the complimentor is throwing out blarney like it was from a belt fed bullshit gun, if the intent is to make someone feel better about themselves, with or without the aim of relieving said person of their undercrackers, then the compliment should be taken as intended.

I personally love folk telling me how handsome, witty and well toned I am.

"

You are handsome, witty and well toned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give out compliments when chatting to someone on here (male and female), its all part of the banter, I wouldn't over do it, some might be back handed compliments as well but I wouldn't give out a false compliment ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pinch of salt, i think most men just cut and paste the same message to every women on here in the hope that at least one will reply, i think if i sent a message back to say thank you they would have to re open my profile to see who i was, which is why i vary rarely reply to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just because you compliment someone doesnt always mean you want to have sex with them, or mean that they are lying though. have you ever thought someone looked nice, then changed your mind, when sober i mean, i have.

sometimes you see their picture, then see a different one and they dont look so apealing.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

On here. Yes. Sometimes you need Lot's wife! !

From people who know me then that's genuine and nice to hear.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.

Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)

Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then."

and how did said pigs use their trotters to type

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

On here, yes.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I hate compliments, but then I think compliments = wanting something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We British are are notorious for not accepting compliments and praise...i for one like to genuinely compliment people around me daily as it makes them smile and feel good...wouldn't the world be a better place if we all did?

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas

Always love when my partner pays me

a complament as i no it comes from the heart and he means it, as regards other we just take with a pinch of salt as guys often say mrs is stunning just from our profile pic never really no why they want face pics then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always do regardless of who says it to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea I take compliments with a huge pinch of salt. Lots of men on here would fuck anything ( evident from their verifications) so I just don't take any notice unless it's a regular fuck buddy really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bag full of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe a word of it on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a person pays you lots of compliments and flattery do you tend to believe them or take it with a pinch of salt that they say the same thing to dozens of women on here?

I take it with a huge pinch of salt and don't get too sucked in as most are just time wasters.

Believe a compliment after a man has made love to you only!!!! and I don't mean "fucked you" the saying goes women can live on compliments and water... Myself I can hold a conversation but many men need bullshit has I means to bed you so yes take it with a pinch of salt!!! Met many a pig on vanila sites with really shit attitudes because they think there beauty queens... All it tell a me is they've had allot of cocks and a sucker for a compliment.... Sorry this reply aint very tactical or very nice but its factual.. (In my opinion which we all deserve)

Why were you meeting pigs? or chatting to them then.

and how did said pigs use their trotters to type "

Sorry,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take compliments well at the best of times! I take them with a pinch of salt here, always say thanks, never believing they mean it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd have to be a fool to believe every kind word uttered on here... I see in chat all the time guys telling women on cam that they're stunning, most amazing looking woman on here etc then not even 5 mins later the same patter is transferred to the next lady... I'm appreciative of any nice comments received but as per most of the ladies above I take them with a massive pinch of salt!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I take them with a huge pinch of salt! Especially on here

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Im just greatful there are guys desperate enough to fuck fat whale types... lol "

Surely you mean lovely curvy girls with great eyes?

I take it with a ginormous pinch of salt when some guy sends me a message saying, 'you look wonderful. Better than many real girls. Fancy a fuck?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always with a large pinch of salt.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I tend to take life with a pinch of salt, its too short to take everything seriously!"

But the genuine compliments from friends who respect you and those whom we respect are welcomed and said with a warm heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a compliment is just that, a compliment, and dont all have an ulterior motive.

If i think a woman is beautiful or has a lovely figure or some other asset i will compliment her on it.

Its the way i was brought up, i still hold a door open and offer a chair, let the lady walk first.

Its being a gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only take compliments from my true friends seriously. Anyone else, not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist!

Same applies to women it aint just males though that try flattery but as i am a slapper who cares

Not in my case. I wouldn't give false compliments to get into a bloke's pants. Any compliment I give is genuine. "

This

I have a very good intuition also and can tell when someone is bullshitting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shit at taking compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe men will tell you anything to get in your knickers. I'm a pessimist! "
NEVER A TRUE WORD SPOKEN WELL SAID.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Depending on context, if it's not too OTT it's nice to receive a compliment or forty-seven but I don't let it go to my head seeing as I already know I am the most stunning woman on this site and even Holly Willobooby would take one look at me and get a bag for her head

Serf, pass me another peeled grape immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Get real' - I don't receive them very often so I usually take them with a chilled Moet et Chandon!!!

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