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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

when there are other guys present ...i ask this as a male friend works in the porn industry and is constantly inundated by guys wanting to work for him ..the pay is horendous for guys ...however the benefits arent lol...however the amount of guys who turn up and cant perform is staggering !

is it other men being present that puts them off ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done 3somes with couples, gang bangs and bukkake with other guys present, apart from any dogging meetings. Yes I can and do perform in front of other guys, but it's not for them I do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not about the other guys, it can be chemistry of the meet.

I dont like being told what to do and when.

some nites i have off nites

if theres no laughs n chat I'm likely to not enjoy myself

Ive attended many 'events' in my 6-7years....sometimes I get bored by the whole group aspect of things

and I like giving oral as well as receiving, but some dont like that as all they want to see is their partner getting fucked like a porn star...and annoying tell u to do it like that

I dont have the muscley physique of a porn star either

I like kissing, again, thats a bit too sensual for some and as above theyd rather see something more porno

soooo...maybe when I was younger I would have been good for it, but I can say I've pretty much done everything on the scene to know which parts I enjoy...being meat isnt one of them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

In our experience yes.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

We have had an awful lot of this problem, we aren't sure whether it is the fact we are totally open and get naked quickly (or maybe we are open with the NSA aspect) and it freaks people out or something else. But mr floppy on the other side has happened on at least 30-40% of meets we have had.

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I've had a number of mfm threesomes and had no problems performing so far. I've also had people watching and that didn't bother me either, although it's pretty easy to ignore people out of your eyeline. Not sure how much of an effect the presence of cameras and lights and all the other gubbins that go along with filming a shoot would have though.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

thats the attitude to have i reckon ..he is the director and is actually gay but the amount of times he has to call on 'cum shot extras' or actually jump in himself is unreal !

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Coming back on this, when I (j) was a worker back in the day...

At the beginning of porn shoots I used to get serious shakes, absolutely uncontrollable shakes..

It freaked me out at the time, but I still managed to get an erection, even if it was with about 10 people watching me and the camera rolling..

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"when there are other guys present ...i ask this as a male friend works in the porn industry and is constantly inundated by guys wanting to work for him ..the pay is horendous for guys ...however the benefits arent lol...however the amount of guys who turn up and cant perform is staggering !

is it other men being present that puts them off ??"

A lot of guys would do it for nothing, given the chance.

It may be that what stops them performing is the realisation that the girl is only doing it for the money.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

you sound like you have found your comfort zone keen !

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"We have had an awful lot of this problem, we aren't sure whether it is the fact we are totally open and get naked quickly (or maybe we are open with the NSA aspect) and it freaks people out or something else. But mr floppy on the other side has happened on at least 30-40% of meets we have had.

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how do you handle it ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you sound like you have found your comfort zone keen !"

between a nice pussy

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By *agxteamMan
over a year ago

norwich

I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

It may be that what stops them performing is the realisation that the girl is only doing it for the money."

but they are getting paid also

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"We have had an awful lot of this problem, we aren't sure whether it is the fact we are totally open and get naked quickly (or maybe we are open with the NSA aspect) and it freaks people out or something else. But mr floppy on the other side has happened on at least 30-40% of meets we have had.

how do you handle it ??"

Thinking back, neither of us mentioned it (one meet actually got it up but was finished in less than 20'secs of an erection). We can see the disappointment on the males faces but we continue and Involve everybody. It's all sexual, erections don't have to be integral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked. "

dunno where to go with that.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never had to perform infront of other guys so don't really know if i would have a problem or not.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked.

dunno where to go with that......."

Seriously that's wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked. "

This was another film right?

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING

I'd be shit as a porn star as in alot of porn you see the woman finish off the bloke by a bj. I've never cum from oral and don't think I ever will. I must have a problem.

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

in answer to the forum thread.. our problem is - When We Meet Couples - Hubby goes soft when any another female goes near him.. - So i Can Only imagine/reckon - That other guys will go soft if they not happy with the situation that They are in..

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked.

dunno where to go with that......."

Stories and fantasies forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked. "

Is your profile pic of you when you were 18? That's gotta be a good contender for most out of date piccy

Yeah as others are saying, your stories a bit and if there was an emoticon vomiting I think I'd be putting that up too as a reaction.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I'd be shit as a porn star as in alot of porn you see the woman finish off the bloke by a bj. I've never cum from oral and don't think I ever will. I must have a problem. "

thats why there are cum shot extras in the porn business ...an amazing amount of fellas cant

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"

It may be that what stops them performing is the realisation that the girl is only doing it for the money.

but they are getting paid also "

It's not the same thing at all.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

It may be that what stops them performing is the realisation that the girl is only doing it for the money.

but they are getting paid also

It's not the same thing at all.

no it isnt ..the women are paid between £200 - £300 pound a day and the guys are paid £40 a day ..its like everything in life ..supply and demand ..copious amounts of guys want to do it . the wage goes down ..not many women want to do it ..the wage goes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked.

dunno where to go with that.......

Stories and fantasies forum? "

even as a story or fantasy...I'd still not know where to go with that lol

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan
over a year ago

SPALDING


"I'd be shit as a porn star as in alot of porn you see the woman finish off the bloke by a bj. I've never cum from oral and don't think I ever will. I must have a problem.

thats why there are cum shot extras in the porn business ...an amazing amount of fellas cant "

Really?? I thought it was me. One of my ex's sat and cried because she couldn't get me to cum by oral. I don't know why I didn't as she was fucking great at it

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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Really?? I thought it was me. One of my ex's sat and cried because she couldn't get me to cum by oral. I don't know why I didn't as she was fucking great at it"

dont stress about it ...you really aint alone ....there are lots of cocks sat in the wings for fellas like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when there are other guys present ...i ask this as a male friend works in the porn industry and is constantly inundated by guys wanting to work for him ..the pay is horendous for guys ...however the benefits arent lol...however the amount of guys who turn up and cant perform is staggering !

is it other men being present that puts them off ??"

We all experiance sex 1on1 with nobody else present so i guess it can get some getting used to performing around others though guys or girls or in group situations ...just takes getting used then it's fine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It may be that what stops them performing is the realisation that the girl is only doing it for the money.

but they are getting paid also

It's not the same thing at all.

no it isnt ..the women are paid between £200 - £300 pound a day and the guys are paid £40 a day ..its like everything in life ..supply and demand ..copious amounts of guys want to do it . the wage goes down ..not many women want to do it ..the wage goes up

"

Thats why when I hear a women moan about no money...blah blah I say get into adult porn ...one of the few industries that the men get way way less then what women earn ...some top female P. Stars in America are on like $100K a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I when I was 18 lived in hongkong made porn films I had no problums. And now the other week went to meet for cock hold. There was mum and dauter and two husbands who watched me shag there wives they wanked.

Is your profile pic of you when you were 18? That's gotta be a good contender for most out of date piccy

Yeah as others are saying, your stories a bit and if there was an emoticon vomiting I think I'd be putting that up too as a reaction. "

Maybe he's hoping to attract attention from the likes of Sydney university and their friends candidate for study I reckon :o

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a couple of multiperson encounters and havent had a problem as such apart from a reaction to viagra last time but that passed quickly.

Not sure how i would be in a film shoot scenario with 30 people, cameras and lights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think its people in attendance thats the problem, think its more the pressure of having to.

on a meet you take things easy and relax, whereas in the 'industry' everything is probably very time specific and things need to happen when they have to.

i get hard very easily, but even i dont think i could do what is required by those that do it.

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