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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I was invited to one last night, guy mailed me asking if I wanted to go to his hotel then he mentioned trying to find a few others.

I declined as not sure it would be my thing.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think I was invited to one last night, guy mailed me asking if I wanted to go to his hotel then he mentioned trying to find a few others.

I declined as not sure it would be my thing."
I understand that completely if you dont have enough information - I can see that would be a potential for a decline for a number of reasons.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

"

If you were the gangbangee, then I wouldn't hesitate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will let you know when and if I ever get invited to one lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

"
You got to give me more than that lol...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. "
That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

If you were the gangbangee, then I wouldn't hesitate "
Thank you very much but what else would be a reaosn to accept or decline?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the things I love to try. The idea sound very hot to me, Love the idea have fun with other people doing the same. Having the changes of been able to play with a few girls in one night is amazing. lot of thing I love to try that need more than one person. I know I be a bit nervous, and will need big pack of condoms as well.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"One of the things I love to try. The idea sound very hot to me, Love the idea have fun with other people doing the same. Having the changes of been able to play with a few girls in one night is amazing. lot of thing I love to try that need more than one person. I know I be a bit nervous, and will need big pack of condoms as well."
I wondered whether the excitement is accompanied by ...let's called a performance anxiety which I would completely understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different? "

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

The reason to decline for me would be if I didn't know the invitee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there same risk for both men a women will there be better looking better at having fun people there than them. The risk of going to nothing happening, that would very sole destroying for a lot of people.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest"
That is cool and could you/ would you be able to say what turns you off? I am just really interested in the guys' perspective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things I love to try. The idea sound very hot to me, Love the idea have fun with other people doing the same. Having the changes of been able to play with a few girls in one night is amazing. lot of thing I love to try that need more than one person. I know I be a bit nervous, and will need big pack of condoms as well.I wondered whether the excitement is accompanied by ...let's called a performance anxiety which I would completely understand. "

Nail on the head there, performance anxiety but that goes both ways eg female and males.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch. "
So what you are saying is that it sounds like a cool, exciting idea but it is perhaps better left in the realms of fantasy for most people?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"The reason to decline for me would be if I didn't know the invitee "
I completely get that.

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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Not my scene at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest That is cool and could you/ would you be able to say what turns you off? I am just really interested in the guys' perspective. "

A queue to have a bonk is just not what I'm looking for personally, knowing my luck I'd be last and it would be like bonking a wind sock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been invited to quite a few but i have always declined them. May have just been my luck. But, right at the last minute they all mention it would be bareback.

...sorry, but that's not my cup of tea, as much as i do love a cuppa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are commenting that gb's are lots of fems etc but that is not normal, that is more just a party whereas gangbangs normally focus around one female only and x number of blokes eg more than 2.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Not my scene at all. "
Can you say what it is that you dont like about the idea? Is it about an element of "out of control" scenario?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest That is cool and could you/ would you be able to say what turns you off? I am just really interested in the guys' perspective.

A queue to have a bonk is just not what I'm looking for personally, knowing my luck I'd be last and it would be like bonking a wind sock "

Hahahahahahahah like it

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I think there same risk for both men a women will there be better looking better at having fun people there than them. The risk of going to nothing happening, that would very sole destroying for a lot of people. "
Yep, I completely get that too

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By *obdoesitMan
over a year ago

Heswall

Hi i think it,s a bit like legalized rape? But like most of us it,s the thought of well WTF am here now so lets do it.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest That is cool and could you/ would you be able to say what turns you off? I am just really interested in the guys' perspective.

A queue to have a bonk is just not what I'm looking for personally, knowing my luck I'd be last and it would be like bonking a wind sock "
I was trying to be serious but you just made me burst out laughing. Trust you

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Isn't safe sex an issue with gang bangs with strangers especially?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have been invited to quite a few but i have always declined them. May have just been my luck. But, right at the last minute they all mention it would be bareback.

...sorry, but that's not my cup of tea, as much as i do love a cuppa.

"
Again that would sound a good reason not to (I am talking of course from my female perspective!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to experience a gangbang but I would be flattered to be invited but unsure of the etiquette etc.

Perhaps the men who back out like the concept of it but then back out at the last minute due to performance anxiety or intimidation?

That's something that might run through my mind due to inexperience.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"People are commenting that gb's are lots of fems etc but that is not normal, that is more just a party whereas gangbangs normally focus around one female only and x number of blokes eg more than 2. "
TBH I had not thought about that - in my mind I was thinking of a situation of several men and one woman.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Isn't safe sex an issue with gang bangs with strangers especially? "
It possibly requires a more careful selection and maybe somebody watching over the safety?

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By *obdoesitMan
over a year ago

Heswall

Yer Peaches is right. But as for backing out well i would,nt unless someone called time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not interested at all. I like a lady all to myself. Maybe I'm just greedy..?

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By *hris148Man
over a year ago

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"Not my scene at all. Can you say what it is that you dont like about the idea? Is it about an element of "out of control" scenario? "

For me there is no personal aspect and the concept makes me think of being in a queue for sex. Then there is the stage fright fright issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would decline most emphatically and run like hell in the opposite direction as quick as my little legs and PINK shoes would allow

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Hi i think it,s a bit like legalized rape? But like most of us it,s the thought of well WTF am here now so lets do it. "

WOAH!! If everyone is willing then surely its just fun for all!!

That word gets used way too often in the wrong context! It only has ONE meaning!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Yet to experience a gangbang but I would be flattered to be invited but unsure of the etiquette etc.

Perhaps the men who back out like the concept of it but then back out at the last minute due to performance anxiety or intimidation?

That's something that might run through my mind due to inexperience."
I am thinking along your lines there. SOunds great in theory but possibly intimidating in practice for most?

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Isn't safe sex an issue with gang bangs with strangers especially? It possibly requires a more careful selection and maybe somebody watching over the safety? "
ha ha the sex police!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Hung my gangbang boots up a few years ago but always had them all turn up except once. But then i have a list of guys that i know are good in gangbang situations.

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Confidence ................

Sexual confidence.......

I've never been to one , or been invited, but ..............I would love to go to one

Like all sex .........I think it is about sexual attraction but if the female comes across as exciting then that is a big turn on ...............I like a demanding woman , a woman who makes it clear she needs to be fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too greedy and would want to pleasure the girl or girls all the time. I am sure these things you take turns? Doesn't seem like something I would love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends.

not very keen on the serious porn director wannabe's to be honest, that is the mostly husbands that arent even participating in the actual action...

its like football fans pretending they can manage a team or play as well as the players...

in the end, I just think theyre twats

theres also a point of how long I want to stay on a meet..I might as well stay home and have a wank if its a meet thats proposed for an hr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think sloppy tenths. no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch. So what you are saying is that it sounds like a cool, exciting idea but it is perhaps better left in the realms of fantasy for most people? "

Yes and no!

It doesn't work the way Kevs said and a queue - it isn't much different to a mmf except more m's. Depending on the males there will depend on your experience and everyone has to feel comfortable.

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

its never been something that has interested me to be honest as we are a couple who only meet single guys and focus as much he chemistry of meeting guys so that my fella is involved equally to the sex aspect that i get ...i can however see how it would work for single ladies and have heard of lots of positive experiences that sound like alot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't go to one, a big turn off for me to be honest That is cool and could you/ would you be able to say what turns you off? I am just really interested in the guys' perspective.

A queue to have a bonk is just not what I'm looking for personally, knowing my luck I'd be last and it would be like bonking a wind sock I was trying to be serious but you just made me burst out laughing. Trust you "

Sorry but it is a consideration , seriously the thought of gang banging just turns me off, the thought of taking it in turns with a load of guys I don't know just does nothing for me, each to their own but I'll stick with my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mfm is as far as my fantasy goes.

Never fancied the "gangbang" scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my cup of tea - so would be a simple decline!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi i think it,s a bit like legalized rape? But like most of us it,s the thought of well WTF am here now so lets do it. "

I have absolutely no clue what ur on about, ridiculous if it even made sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch. So what you are saying is that it sounds like a cool, exciting idea but it is perhaps better left in the realms of fantasy for most people?

Yes and no!

It doesn't work the way Kevs said and a queue - it isn't much different to a mmf except more m's. Depending on the males there will depend on your experience and everyone has to feel comfortable.

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open. "

I think if i had the pleasure of about 6 to 8 guys........everything would be wide open..........bigtime

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont understand this queuing business, noone queued at mine they would all be doing something to me and me to them. Its pretty diffult to keep more than ten guys all occupied though have to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hung my gangbang boots up a few years ago but always had them all turn up except once. But then i have a list of guys that i know are good in gangbang situations. "

This is also what I am saying you learn very quickly who is good in those situations.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I would decline most emphatically and run like hell in the opposite direction as quick as my little legs and PINK shoes would allow "
Would you be happy to say your reasons? I really am curious about what people think.

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By *obdoesitMan
over a year ago

Heswall

I am lead to believe that most women fantasize about being raped??? I know of one, but some control must be maintained or it will end up a free for all and sloppy n messy to.

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By *obdoesitMan
over a year ago

Heswall

I am lead to believe that most women fantasize about being raped??? I know of one, but some control must be maintained or it will end up a free for all and sloppy n messy to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

"

I went to one and the experience is very different to what I thought it would be, I wouldn't go again, it just wasn't fun, the guys seemed to loose respect, for themselfs and for the two ladies who were there, each to their own but not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand this queuing business, noone queued at mine they would all be doing something to me and me to them. Its pretty diffult to keep more than ten guys all occupied though have to admit"

This again! No queue at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure about a gang bang. would have to give it some thought. would also want to get to know a few of the other people a little first if i did it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am lead to believe that most women fantasize about being raped??? I know of one, but some control must be maintained or it will end up a free for all and sloppy n messy to. "

Absolutely not the case! And control is always maintained! I speak up if I am not happy and I am looked after,

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open. "
I think there has to be an element of a social aspect - otherwise it would feel a little... I dont know.. lacking in respect maybe?

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Having given it a lot of thought. I think I and many other guys would be scared to entertain a gang bang despite our macho persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch. So what you are saying is that it sounds like a cool, exciting idea but it is perhaps better left in the realms of fantasy for most people?

Yes and no!

It doesn't work the way Kevs said and a queue - it isn't much different to a mmf except more m's. Depending on the males there will depend on your experience and everyone has to feel comfortable.

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open.

I think if i had the pleasure of about 6 to 8 guys........everything would be wide open..........bigtime "

Having done those numbers, no it really isn't

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

I think if i had the pleasure of about 6 to 8 guys........everything would be wide open..........bigtime "
Only just noticed that

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Having given it a lot of thought. I think I and many other guys would be scared to entertain a gang bang despite our macho persona "
A very honest approach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand this queuing business, noone queued at mine they would all be doing something to me and me to them. Its pretty diffult to keep more than ten guys all occupied though have to admit

This again! No queue at all! "

I understand that now, even so a mfm is about as far as I like to go, I would know the other guy and trust him.

A gangbang in a controlled environment is certainly a safe option for those who's boxes it ticks though, as I said each to their own

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I always had a male friend there to make sure i was happy with what was going on and to make sure the guys where putting the condoms on. I used to love doing them but after a few years just got bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..if everyone is on the same wavelength then a gangbang should work out well. If there is too much pressure, it just doesn't work.

Only been to one but would like to be invited to more. Will have to count my lucky stars for that.

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

My last gang bang involved a troupe of mime artists.

They performed unspeakable acts on me.

I'm here all week

("More's the pity"-FS Ed)

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Cannot keep up with the posters anymore - apologise to everybody whose point I have not taken up but find your answers really fascinating and looking for more replies.

Love the honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. That is what I am wondering about - many people talk about it as a very exciting opportunity given half a chance but reality might be different?

You have so much interest and people dying to come, no pun intended, but I feel we were lucky in the numbers we achieved however I was very meticulous in the search!

However even getting the guys there does not equate to them being able to perform, had one guy 3 weeks ago basically only able to sit and watch. So what you are saying is that it sounds like a cool, exciting idea but it is perhaps better left in the realms of fantasy for most people?

Yes and no!

It doesn't work the way Kevs said and a queue - it isn't much different to a mmf except more m's. Depending on the males there will depend on your experience and everyone has to feel comfortable.

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open.

I think if i had the pleasure of about 6 to 8 guys........everything would be wide open..........bigtime

Having done those numbers, no it really isn't"

Phewwwwww

but i would still decline

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over a year ago


"

I always make sure rules are set out, have the social bit first and relax, no

pressure to perform etc

Then I have to make sure I share my time out, it is a very good experience but you have to go into it with your wide open. I think there has to be an element of a social aspect - otherwise it would feel a little... I dont know.. lacking in respect maybe? "

Yes and you can't expect men to perform or indeed me like a seal. All about relaxing before hand and I like to get to know and chat with each of them first.

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"I am lead to believe that most women fantasize about being raped??? I know of one, but some control must be maintained or it will end up a free for all and sloppy n messy to. "

You have been misled! Sure some women fantasize.. but not most! And most that have been don't find it a fantasy experience. Those that do fantasize about it would probably stop if it ever actually happened!

On a site like this, that word shouldn't even need to come up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a couple of mmmmmf

And we're lucky enough in that the guys all got on together and worked in a team... There wasn't any queing and again lucky that none of them had performance anxiety...it's a bit like mfm but with a few more Ms...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Hi i think it,s a bit like legalized rape? But like most of us it,s the thought of well WTF am here now so lets do it. "

i have tried to understand this post but i am still struggling ...surely legalised rape is making it legal to have sex with a woman without her consent ...a gangbang has the womans consent ...could you explain what you mean maybe ???

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I am lead to believe that most women fantasize about being raped??? I know of one, but some control must be maintained or it will end up a free for all and sloppy n messy to.

You have been misled! Sure some women fantasize.. but not most! And most that have been don't find it a fantasy experience. Those that do fantasize about it would probably stop if it ever actually happened!

On a site like this, that word shouldn't even need to come up!"

I agree and I was under the impression that it might be against forum rules anyway. And it was not really what I was wondering about - and just to make it clear : I am asking people, men and women about their ideas about a gangbang where everybody is fully consenting.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We have had a couple of mmmmmf

And we're lucky enough in that the guys all got on together and worked in a team... There wasn't any queing and again lucky that none of them had performance anxiety...it's a bit like mfm but with a few more Ms...

"
Sounds like a positive experience all round!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" it depends.

not very keen on the serious porn director wannabe's to be honest, that is the mostly husbands that arent even participating in the actual action...

its like football fans pretending they can manage a team or play as well as the players...

in the end, I just think theyre twats

theres also a point of how long I want to stay on a meet..I might as well stay home and have a wank if its a meet thats proposed for an hr"

Finally got back to you, no we start it off and yes he will stand back and take pics but at the end of the day I can be with him anytime,

Not really as you are suggesting and when I need some reassurance I bring him into the circle.

Also he watches to make sure I am safe, and that is also key, it isn't an easy role either at times for him because he is "against" x number of blokes if it were all to go wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think. "

Would it not be far easier to have bi-guys? A lot less chance of performance anxiety and you always have some fluffers to help! Not that I am trying to influence you, you understand!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like any other scenario.

If all are aware of the rules etc and everyone is happy with whats going to happen....then great.

It would be pretty boring if we all loved the same thing...

Variety is the spice of life

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge


"Hi i think it,s a bit like legalized rape? But like most of us it,s the thought of well WTF am here now so lets do it.

i have tried to understand this post but i am still struggling ...surely legalised rape is making it legal to have sex with a woman without her consent ...a gangbang has the womans consent ...could you explain what you mean maybe ???"

Not sure he can or wants to. Thats the 2nd post he's made with that word in it. Either he's looking for a reaction, or his head is in a wrong space.

Given all the reaction I can deal with.. won't even look at this thread again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

been to gang bang last week and have to say wasnt keen, lots of very desperate guys 40+ and not many ladies. guys pushing in and rude was glad to leave. will i except if asked again i think only if it was a more intimate select party

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"been to gang bang last week and have to say wasnt keen, lots of very desperate guys 40+ and not many ladies. guys pushing in and rude was glad to leave. will i except if asked again i think only if it was a more intimate select party "
Sounds like it can be fun if it is managed properly as Juliewonders was suggesting above.

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over a year ago

I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I hadn't thought of several women involved, silly me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think.

Would it not be far easier to have bi-guys? A lot less chance of performance anxiety and you always have some fluffers to help! Not that I am trying to influence you, you understand!"
Ive never had a fluffer, ive done them with bi guys and straight guys, funniest was i did a tv one, just me and six tvs. If the guys are comfortable in there own skin and aware there might be accidental contact its all well and good. Its the ones that have the hangups that it wouldnt work with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me. "
so really better left for fantasy...and we all have those, dont we? I dont mean fantasies of gang bangs... just different fantasies...;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"been to gang bang last week and have to say wasnt keen, lots of very desperate guys 40+ and not many ladies. guys pushing in and rude was glad to leave. will i except if asked again i think only if it was a more intimate select party Sounds like it can be fun if it is managed properly as Juliewonders was suggesting above. "

Yes three as I said in more or less as many weeks and never had this and would halt proceedings if like that.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets "
I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. "

Indeed, as we are a couple so it has to be fun for the both of us. Or it's just not worth doing

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure.

Indeed, as we are a couple so it has to be fun for the both of us. Or it's just not worth doing "
I completely get that in the case of a couple!

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. "

You just hit the nail on the head

A gb should always be about the female pleasure , nothing else

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. "
so who gets the most pleasure?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure.

You just hit the nail on the head

A gb should always be about the female pleasure , nothing else "
So are you saying that it is not really for the men involved which would mean they are doing it for a woman's pleasure alone?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? "
Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think.

Would it not be far easier to have bi-guys? A lot less chance of performance anxiety and you always have some fluffers to help! Not that I am trying to influence you, you understand!"

I like Diamonds have had straight/bi/TV but in guy mode.

Makes no difference as the focus is on one woman vs x amount of men,

Never needed or would need a fluffer either.

Only had one guy who basically sat and watched which was fine, the guys who knew he was watching were not bothered by him watching or being close.

It is actually quite funny watching 6+ strip and not care to then when I get inevitably covered and want to give them a kiss bye, them saying erm no yuck yet 5 mins prior not caring who saw them at all creating the mess lol

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely."

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have held three recently and while guys seem "game" they soon back out.

It is a very different experience, and the last no interaction really.

Really depends what you want from it and it isn't actually as easy as you may think.

Would it not be far easier to have bi-guys? A lot less chance of performance anxiety and you always have some fluffers to help! Not that I am trying to influence you, you understand!

I like Diamonds have had straight/bi/TV but in guy mode.

Makes no difference as the focus is on one woman vs x amount of men,

Never needed or would need a fluffer either.

Only had one guy who basically sat and watched which was fine, the guys who knew he was watching were not bothered by him watching or being close.

It is actually quite funny watching 6+ strip and not care to then when I get inevitably covered and want to give them a kiss bye, them saying erm no yuck yet 5 mins prior not caring who saw them at all creating the mess lol "
Made me chuckle... puts yet another spin on things

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure.

You just hit the nail on the head

A gb should always be about the female pleasure , nothing else So are you saying that it is not really for the men involved which would mean they are doing it for a woman's pleasure alone? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me...."

Not sure where this idea oh queing comes from?

Big bed... Fem in the middle, guys around the bed doing various things...

No queing

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me...."
Well, that was what I was wondering? I was curious about the concept of self respect and whether some guys might feel that it would be compromised in the scenario.. Dont get me wrong, I dont have an issue with gang bangs and we are all different and have different kinks and ideas about what we like and dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely."

Men are visual creature and enjoy watching as well as being involved in the kink, one woman taking on a certain number of guys has a lot of appeal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me. so really better left for fantasy...and we all have those, dont we? I dont mean fantasies of gang bangs... just different fantasies...;-)"

Well if I ever got the opportunity, I'd give it a go. Strangely I think I'd be more comfortable with people I knew than total strangers.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....

Not sure where this idea oh queing comes from?

Big bed... Fem in the middle, guys around the bed doing various things...

No queing "
Ah that has answered my question - it is definitely as Julie already said not a matter of queuing then.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me. so really better left for fantasy...and we all have those, dont we? I dont mean fantasies of gang bangs... just different fantasies...;-)

Well if I ever got the opportunity, I'd give it a go. Strangely I think I'd be more comfortable with people I knew than total strangers. "
Another interesting perspective on whether or not we know/ want to know the people involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me...."
there is no queue as I said before ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....

Not sure where this idea oh queing comes from?

Big bed... Fem in the middle, guys around the bed doing various things...

No queing Ah that has answered my question - it is definitely as Julie already said not a matter of queuing then. "

Well in our case it hasn't been, all the guys were involved and not standing back waiting their turn, I think thanks to porn there may be a possible misconception about GBs

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me.... there is no queue as I said before ..."
Wondering where the idea of queue comes from - maybe it happens in clubs?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....

Not sure where this idea oh queing comes from?

Big bed... Fem in the middle, guys around the bed doing various things...

No queing Ah that has answered my question - it is definitely as Julie already said not a matter of queuing then.

Well in our case it hasn't been, all the guys were involved and not standing back waiting their turn, I think thanks to porn there may be a possible misconception about GBs "
I was wondering that, too.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....Well, that was what I was wondering? I was curious about the concept of self respect and whether some guys might feel that it would be compromised in the scenario.. Dont get me wrong, I dont have an issue with gang bangs and we are all different and have different kinks and ideas about what we like and dislike. "

Going back to who gets the pleasure, why do some men say it's for the woman's pleasure exclusively...I it seems inconceivable to take that line in a gang bang..are all the men happy to forego their orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me....

Not sure where this idea oh queing comes from?

Big bed... Fem in the middle, guys around the bed doing various things...

No queing Ah that has answered my question - it is definitely as Julie already said not a matter of queuing then. "

The only queuing but again manageable in a sexy sense still is when they all form a circle around you waiting to be sucked, but they have their hands haha and I am very good at counting to ensure equal time!

Also no guy I have met really wants to go first as likely to cum and prefer to be part of the action still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never taken part in gang bang but I've had a few offers. It's flattering to be invited but for me it would depend on the total number of people there and the ratio of men to women. If there are more than enough women there then i would attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never taken part in gang bang but I've had a few offers. It's flattering to be invited but for me it would depend on the total number of people there and the ratio of men to women. If there are more than enough women there then i would attend"

That defeats the object of a gangbang, just a party then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just noticed a few posts saying about the hubbie standing back whilst the action goes on..

Not in our case Luke always joins in whether that be mfm or mmmmmf or group meets I would imagine that would make it a shared experience rather than something organised just for the woman's pleasure. so who gets the most pleasure? Indeed, my thoughts entirely.

If I'm stood in a queue waiting my turn I'm not sure it would feel erotic to me.... there is no queue as I said before ...Wondering where the idea of queue comes from - maybe it happens in clubs? "

We had a gangbang in a club and nope no queuing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

A lot of guts decline because not many guys are comfortable being in a room full of naked guys and only one or two females. I,v been to few gangbangs and know a lot of guys can,t get an erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont understand this queuing business, noone queued at mine they would all be doing something to me and me to them. Its pretty diffult to keep more than ten guys all occupied though have to admit

This again! No queue at all! "

Better with bi guys. No-one is left out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me. so really better left for fantasy...and we all have those, dont we? I dont mean fantasies of gang bangs... just different fantasies...;-)

Well if I ever got the opportunity, I'd give it a go. Strangely I think I'd be more comfortable with people I knew than total strangers. Another interesting perspective on whether or not we know/ want to know the people involved. "

For me, I think it would be less intense knowing or at least met the woman or the other guys there. I'd also have to be comfortable with who the the other guys were. If I was there with a group of older, hairy, over weight guys, or even with a group of fit, athletic 10 inch dicked guys, I'd feel really uncomfortable or out of place. Is that weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM "

Wuss lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM "
FFF is much safer!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've often fantasized about this and watch a lot of videos. However to be part of it, would probably scare the shit out of me. so really better left for fantasy...and we all have those, dont we? I dont mean fantasies of gang bangs... just different fantasies...;-)

Well if I ever got the opportunity, I'd give it a go. Strangely I think I'd be more comfortable with people I knew than total strangers. Another interesting perspective on whether or not we know/ want to know the people involved.

For me, I think it would be less intense knowing or at least met the woman or the other guys there. I'd also have to be comfortable with who the the other guys were. If I was there with a group of older, hairy, over weight guys, or even with a group of fit, athletic 10 inch dicked guys, I'd feel really uncomfortable or out of place. Is that weird? "
Not werid at all. It is what YOU feel comfortable with and that in my world is cool... knowing your boundaries.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM FFF is much safer!"

And a bit disappointing for guys if they're not invited lol

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM FFF is much safer!

And a bit disappointing for guys if they're not invited lol "
True lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

if its with guys who are thinking about the woman's pleasure then it can be good fun..

when you get someone who just wants to come and go so to speak it tends to take the edge of it..

as usual it will depend on the planning, who's invited etc..

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"if its with guys who are thinking about the woman's pleasure then it can be good fun..

when you get someone who just wants to come and go so to speak it tends to take the edge of it..

as usual it will depend on the planning, who's invited etc.. "
So again, what you are saying is... the management, the conditions under which it has been arranged, are crucial to its success

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success "
Can you imagine that job description?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success "

It does! Not easy to organise but once got the right key to success bingo!

It also I can tell you means you lay all inhibitions at the door and on with the show come what may.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success Can you imagine that job description? "

And reading the CV of applicants

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

also not keen on the term 'gangbang', just has certain connotations which are a bit iffy..

just our opinion..

prefer group fun or a greedy girl meet..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've never had an organised gangbang, and no desire to have one. However, in a club situation, when I am in the mood, I don't mind a small swarm around me as long as I have a friend keeping an eye out. Condoms only, no cumming on me and no means no.

I enjoyed the spontaneity of it but even then I found some men experienced performance anxiety once they were allowed into the circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success Can you imagine that job description? "

We have been asked now numerous times to organise ones for people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"also not keen on the term 'gangbang', just has certain connotations which are a bit iffy..

just our opinion..

prefer group fun or a greedy girl meet..

"

Greedy girl indeed

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"if its with guys who are thinking about the woman's pleasure then it can be good fun..

when you get someone who just wants to come and go so to speak it tends to take the edge of it..

as usual it will depend on the planning, who's invited etc.. So again, what you are saying is... the management, the conditions under which it has been arranged, are crucial to its success "

to a degree yes but more important is having the right guys..

right guys, good attitude..

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success Can you imagine that job description?

We have been asked now numerous times to organise ones for people. "

Sounds an opening to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success Can you imagine that job description?

And reading the CV of applicants "

I always ask if they have participated in one before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success "

We arranged our first one in less than a day... Invited a few single guys that we had previously met and put a meet request up to make the numbers up... It was a few caotic hours of messages and phone convos but it all worked out in the end

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"also not keen on the term 'gangbang', just has certain connotations which are a bit iffy..

just our opinion..

prefer group fun or a greedy girl meet..

"

I know what you mean. I have never thought I had a gangbang until reading this thread. I just thought I had a greedy girl treat with whomever was my date for the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success Can you imagine that job description?

We have been asked now numerous times to organise ones for people.

Sounds an opening to me! "

Problem is I am like blimey it is hard work organising your own, let alone someone else's! Plus you eg me contact the guys and they would imo think I was part of it and it would be confusing well my friend xyz profile not me etc etc

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success

We arranged our first one in less than a day... Invited a few single guys that we had previously met and put a meet request up to make the numbers up... It was a few caotic hours of messages and phone convos but it all worked out in the end "

We organised one in 3 hours from time of messaging to meeting, I think a better way to ensure attendance as no wannabes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group "

Or two - eg a couple

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group

Or two - eg a couple "

Gotcha! Makes sense

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group

Or two - eg a couple "

yes to both, and any new guys who attend are vouched for..

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group

Or two - eg a couple

yes to both, and any new guys who attend are vouched for..

"
I'm tempted now!

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group

Or two - eg a couple

yes to both, and any new guys who attend are vouched for..

"
I'm tempted now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't like the idea of gangbangs.

I dont like playing with lots of guys, I don't go for long sessions, i prefer a more sensual type of meet with just one extra guy, which obviously coupled with my own partner makes the three of us. I don't like the idea of guy after guy just banging away.

My OH is also not interested in gangbangs and has never wanted to be part of a queue of men.

I like parties and clubs because I can dip in and out of play when I want. I don'tike the thought of having hours of continuous sex and that's the idea I get of gangbangs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have not read my profile

Just does not appeal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer ?

Because I'm too Chicken to even organise a MFM FFF is much safer!

And a bit disappointing for guys if they're not invited lol True lol "

Sell tickets ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I was invited to one last night, guy mailed me asking if I wanted to go to his hotel then he mentioned trying to find a few others.

I declined as not sure it would be my thing.I understand that completely if you dont have enough information - I can see that would be a potential for a decline for a number of reasons. "

I was worried he was a timewaster/dreamer

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I think it seems crucial all guests are trusted by a common member of the group "

That's a must. Advertising a gangbang on a open forum is a bit like announcing a 16th birthday party on Facebook when your parents are away.

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By *AMES19620Man
over a year ago

newport

i have been to a fair few

at 1st was exciting just turn up do your bit then go

then i realised it was not i really wanted just to turn up like a performing seal

nowadays i prefer to get to know people make friends and have mutual sexy fun which makes 2nd or 3rd meets more pleasurable well thats my opinion

moral of the story is suits some not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to one last month but unfortunately was ill and had to cancel. Fortunately, i have been invited back this month.

I know the lady in question only does gangbang parties and these are strictly controlled and by invitation only so numbers dont get out of hand. She always has a second lady as well and every guy is seen to personally by both ladies during the course of the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont suffer from performance anxiety, with other men in close or touching proximity. Had a few multiway encounters and git over that hurdle early. Plus i take viagra to offset any issues that might deflate my ardour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things I love to try. The idea sound very hot to me, Love the idea have fun with other people doing the same. Having the changes of been able to play with a few girls in one night is amazing. lot of thing I love to try that need more than one person. I know I be a bit nervous, and will need big pack of condoms as well.I wondered whether the excitement is accompanied by ...let's called a performance anxiety which I would completely understand.

Nail on the head there, performance anxiety but that goes both ways eg female and males. "

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been to some. Always safe sex. I like being watched anyway so no worries about performing - in fact, an opportunity for some jokes. Whilst waiting it's good fun watching other people having sex. A lot of guys said they would turn up but didn't and only one couldn't perform. I like having 2 or 3 'goes' so quite like fucking after other guys have. Only with condoms....It's a variation and an experience. The lady had a non fucking man with her so he could make sure everyone behaved. (Luckily they had a large lounge with sofas and a big space on the floor.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one I've been invited to forgot to mention a charge to "cover costs" til the final email. If it's at your house, and your not supplying drinks, then I don't see why I should have to pay to help overload her with pleasure.

I sure as hell wouldn't charge to invite 5 gals back to my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It sounds like it needs an events manager to be a good success

We arranged our first one in less than a day... Invited a few single guys that we had previously met and put a meet request up to make the numbers up... It was a few caotic hours of messages and phone convos but it all worked out in the end

We organised one in 3 hours from time of messaging to meeting, I think a better way to ensure attendance as no wannabes. "

We've (granda) held a few and always check credentials or it's likely to be a waste of time. We only had one where a large majority couldn't perform, our fault for trying to arrange it at the last minute. Jake always joins in and is as turned on by it as I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried a few, with mixed results. To climax I need the lady really turned on, varies between 15-50 minutes, faster dogging for some reason and better with people I already know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think and feel when invited to a gang bang? I am interested in the male perspective but females/ couples are welcome to join in.

Are you excited, do you feel privileged and what would it depend on for you to accept or decline?

"

I had the pleasure of been invited to one but if I was i would be chuffed and excited and I guess a wee bit apprehensive. But I do love the idea.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Thanks everybody for their contributions. I was curious about the different thoughts on the matter as I was always under the impression that most guys would be up for it. Thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the things I love to try. The idea sound very hot to me, Love the idea have fun with other people doing the same. Having the changes of been able to play with a few girls in one night is amazing. lot of thing I love to try that need more than one person. I know I be a bit nervous, and will need big pack of condoms as well.I wondered whether the excitement is accompanied by ...let's called a performance anxiety which I would completely understand.

Nail on the head there, performance anxiety but that goes both ways eg female and males.

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too "

Yes why would a female not have anxiety about performing?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too

Yes why would a female not have anxiety about performing? "
Another really interesting thought - if I were to ask for a gang bang I would, as a woman not be worried about performing, as I never worry about that anyway - I simply see it as a good time to be had by all. But I can understand that it might produce some anxiety in women.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too

Yes why would a female not have anxiety about performing? Another really interesting thought - if I were to ask for a gang bang I would, as a woman not be worried about performing, as I never worry about that anyway - I simply see it as a good time to be had by all. But I can understand that it might produce some anxiety in women. "

I understand the female performance anxiety. I'm selfish but I also like to please but find it difficult to 'perform' to give pleasure if I am experiencing pleasure. I would also worry if any of the men were to experience performance anxiety and so it would become a bit of a vicious circle.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too

Yes why would a female not have anxiety about performing? Another really interesting thought - if I were to ask for a gang bang I would, as a woman not be worried about performing, as I never worry about that anyway - I simply see it as a good time to be had by all. But I can understand that it might produce some anxiety in women.

I understand the female performance anxiety. I'm selfish but I also like to please but find it difficult to 'perform' to give pleasure if I am experiencing pleasure. I would also worry if any of the men were to experience performance anxiety and so it would become a bit of a vicious circle.

"

I can understand what you re saying as it is kind of about " multitasking" for us women, isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never taken part in gang bang but I've had a few offers. It's flattering to be invited but for me it would depend on the total number of people there and the ratio of men to women. If there are more than enough women there then i would attend

That defeats the object of a gangbang, just a party then. "

Oh ok. I guess they are not really my thing then

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

A blow bang would appeal more. That is pure fucking slutty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will let you know when and if I ever get invited to one lol"

what he said

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over a year ago


"

Wouldn't have thought females getting performance anixety too

Yes why would a female not have anxiety about performing? Another really interesting thought - if I were to ask for a gang bang I would, as a woman not be worried about performing, as I never worry about that anyway - I simply see it as a good time to be had by all. But I can understand that it might produce some anxiety in women.

I understand the female performance anxiety. I'm selfish but I also like to please but find it difficult to 'perform' to give pleasure if I am experiencing pleasure. I would also worry if any of the men were to experience performance anxiety and so it would become a bit of a vicious circle.

I can understand what you re saying as it is kind of about " multitasking" for us women, isnt it?"

Yes and to a certain degree you take on a different persona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been part of a couple, one arranged and one ad-hoc in a club. The ad-hoc was definitely more fun. The arranged one was more like strangers standing in a room waiting for things to start. I tried to be social with some of the other guys, but you'd swear I was trying to kick things off with them!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Doesn't worry me fucking in front of other people

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