FabSwingers.com forum: Expectations

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You read so many threads (mainly from men-sorry guys I do know its not all of you) where they are moaning about bit getting as much out of the site as they expected to on joining. So as a question to all what were your expectations on joining? Mine were simple at first I wanted a bit of local regular NSA with one or two people and make good friends from it and the site was and still is all I want it to be, with the added bonus of this great forum and its witty regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All honesty!? Joining A free sex site basically so possibly sex with a few local women where there would be no complications. Upon joining my view changed. I realised it would not be so easy, but also my wants have changed as now more open to the swinging lifestyle as a single male. I am also addicted to this site but simply for the forums. I find them funny, interesting and entertaining with a good mix of people. I also speak to people about meets too so watch this space. I hope to meet but want it to be quality rather than quantity. I have learnt patience and that is the key on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You read so many threads (mainly from men-sorry guys I do know its not all of you) where they are moaning about bit getting as much out of the site as they expected to on joining. So as a question to all what were your expectations on joining? Mine were simple at first I wanted a bit of local regular NSA with one or two people and make good friends from it and the site was and still is all I want it to be, with the added bonus of this great forum and its witty regulars "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

A shag or two (which I got night 1)...an unexpected bonus has been making some great mates on the forum and having lots of social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the occasional shag but my expectations have been exceeded with the forums, enjoying the craic on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we expected to meet people similar in outlook to us who would after an initial social meet, be interested in dinner, drinks and a whole evening of erotic, kinky, sensuous pelasure. This has proved slightly more difficult than we imagined but not altogether impossible

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice to see some grey honest answers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I didn't expect to find so many different types of people interested in us, that has been an eye opener along with the desire its sparked up in both of us to try and push our boundaries even further. We have met so many different and interesting people of all ages, many just socially that has been a real pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been around long enough that when we created this profile, I knew exactly what to expect - to meet some interesting people and to have some great sex and I've not been disappointed.

My expectation and experience as one half of a couple is very different to being on here as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined with no real expectations of meeting anybody, but I have met and chatted to many people who I just wouldn't have met in everyday life, so it's been good for me

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we joined with the plan of meeting couples for full swap but after meeting first couple my guy decided this was not for him ...no reflection on the lady concerned (who was actually from another site) as both her and her fella remain firm friends. we therefore decided to go down the single fella route as this suits us better and has proved to be alot more fun than we could ever have imagined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought i was gonna get it in the first few days but its been five weeks without any action! I now know more about how it works on here though

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We had already been members on a couple of other swinging sites before joining this one. So knew pretty much what to expect and what we wanted....

We joined to meet uncomplicated, interesting & fun people and to enjoy social and sexual encounters.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I wanted to find sex at least twice a week every week. My expectation was that I might be able to achieve once a week. I forgot to factor in just how fussy I am.

I enjoy what I do and when that stops so will I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought i was gonna get it in the first few days but its been five weeks without any action! I now know more about how it works on here though"

some single guys strike it lucky in the first couple of weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My aim was to meet with couples but this changed to singles to very quickly lol it has been 5 years since my very first meet and I have met some truly wonderful people who I have become friends with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet men for sex, was surprised at how much better this site is compared to all the others.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I joined for the sex.

I stayed for the banter.

This is the only site I use these days.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I thought i was gonna get it in the first few days but its been five weeks without any action! I now know more about how it works on here though"

Big social coming up in Sheffield next month (2nd), you should maybe get your name down for it if you haven't already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came

I saw

I conque.... ermmm came again

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I joined for new experiences, to contribute to the forum chat and meet a lover or two....

The site does take more of my time than it could (I'm very fussy and I'm also addicted to the forums), it has met my expectations.

I have had some lows and some much bigger highs, I would be a little lost without this site though, it's part of my day now.

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England

No expectations I've done swinging twice with 2 differant partners 1st introduced me to the scene 2nd I introduced them. Totally taken back at how nice everyone is and till now only found one muppet on the forum trying to belittle me!! In the clubs everyone is equal and find on the site there's a pecking order 1. Bi females 2,couples 3 men when I am part of a couple if I wanted me and her to meet a guy he would have to have a very large cock has I'd get off seeing her with it in her so basically with 7inch I've no expectations other than If I meet people face to face at a club or enjoy the forums here... Best free site on the net hence happy to be a site supporter!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined on a friends recommendation, I certainly didn't expect anything, then anything I do get is a bonus !

However I have been blown away by the interest in a fat, old man, in panties, yes that would be me,

I never realised with straight guys, any hole is a goal !

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought i was gonna get it in the first few days but its been five weeks without any action! I now know more about how it works on here though

some single guys strike it lucky in the first couple of weeks

Lol i know but life is toughest for us young, single guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah thanks. I will definitely try to get there

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By *GR2014Man
over a year ago

England

"I thought i was gonna get it in the first few days but its been five weeks without any action! I now know more about how it works on here though

some single guys strike it lucky in the first couple of weeks

Lol i know but life is toughest for us young, single guys here"

Lol @ life being tough for young single guys!!! 1. Most are cheating and not single 2. Most women in GB don't want need or looking for NSA 3. Most women prefur to get sex off a Vanila site as there's always a hope of more!! 4. All guys think there god in the bedroom when really there not 5. Most women I date won't share there man hence not on Fab!! 6... Aint the idea of swinging couples swapping with couples and hence why I joined or am I missing the point here? 7 yes if its on a plate as men yes we will take it but if men are looking on here for sex or more its pritty dam sad due to the ratio unless youv a 12 inch cock!!!! 8. Single woman wanting sex off a sex/swingers site is pritty dam sad when its on tap anywhere with more credability with only pre-requisitte is own a pussy!!! whoops that sounds like abuse comming my way ! Hope I've not offended but my observations!!! Fab forums clubs hotels couples are why I'm here mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't sure when I joined now over 3 yrs later I want to make friends, have amazing sex and most of all have fun, love the site met some amazing people, met some arses to but hey ho majority rules and the majority have been great love the chat love the forums so it's met all my expectations and more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expected the spanish inquisition as i've seen monty python and prepared myself. As yet they have failed to turn up but i'm still on guard for them.

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