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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

I guess because many people come here for reasons other than meeting, its not compulsory!

Lots have developed friendships through this lifestyle and many come just to use the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you havent been on long

The people who you mention have built up good friendships over a period of months if not years on here

Do you really think that once they have found a partner and decided not to meet that they should just give up those friendships??

There is a lot more to swinging than just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because a couple in a relationship does not mean they no longer have friends or able to make friends, vanilla or swingers alike.

It is their choice whether to have more playmates or not, or just have non-playing friends.

Each to their own I'd say!

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Sometimes people are busy with work and family and finding time to meet is an issue, some people just like to take a break from time to tme and, and yes some people find someone thay are see on a regular basis and don't want to meet others (me included), but I love to post on the forums and keep in touch with the many good friends I've made on fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

Suppose you feel like that because your a man and you see this site just as a way to get sex

Now ive been swinging about 10 years now, i have met hundreds of people, many just on a social level, some on a more personal level, but one thing i do know is i have many many friends, some very good and close friends thro swinging and if i did ever find my 'perfect half; and decide to pack away my swinging cloggs i would still want to stay in contact with my friends so there for would still come on the site's to chat, and it wouldnt mean that im not really happy and looking for extra on the sly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

I don't understand this one

Are you saying that couples are full of bullshit because they say they love thier partners but are swingers ?

Or

Are you saying that when you dont want to swing anymore you should leave the site ?

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

Because they can be still here and it's their choice and no one elses what they do - simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t

I don't understand this one

Are you saying that couples are full of bullshit because they say they love thier partners but are swingers ?

Or

Are you saying that when you dont want to swing anymore you should leave the site ?"

i think hes saying once you have found your perfect partner and no longer want to swing you shouldnt be on the site other wise your full of bullshit and aint found your perfect partner at all

thast how i read it anyway

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

Women in general get inundated on here and so can put pretty much what they want on their profile and still get offers. They may still look but want to chose them and not field tons of unwanted messages. Others have met and got a perfect partner but still want to talk to old friends and maybe still swing from time to time who knows. What I do know its each individuals choice and they have no need to explain their actions to anyone. I suspect you have posted out of frustration looking at your profile your not the happiest bunny on fab but you like everyone else has a choice over your own profile content.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t

Women in general get inundated on here and so can put pretty much what they want on their profile and still get offers. They may still look but want to chose them and not field tons of unwanted messages. Others have met and got a perfect partner but still want to talk to old friends and maybe still swing from time to time who knows. What I do know its each individuals choice and they have no need to explain their actions to anyone. I suspect you have posted out of frustration looking at your profile your not the happiest bunny on fab but you like everyone else has a choice over your own profile content. "

Well said that man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how dare you people not be available for random sex bloody terrible i say! go n lock yourself in your bedrooms!!

and you dare make friends that your not fucking!! off with your heads!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and so far only post gnasher2525, is this a start how you mean to go on, or start on a low so room for improvement?.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"how dare you people not be available for random sex bloody terrible i say! go n lock yourself in your bedrooms!!

and you dare make friends that your not fucking!! off with your heads!!! "

off to lock myself in said bedroom with my "friend"

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ the OP

" b**lsh*t"

Do I take that to mean, 'Bullshit' ??

And why exactly is it bullshit ?

At present, and to the best of my understanding, there is no rule on this site which suggests that it is not permitted to have met someone and to be no longer be looking for meets ! or even that it is bullshit to say so in your profile !!!!!

Whats happened - has someone turned you down and dented your ego ??

Bottom line my friend - it is up to the profile holder to state whatever they choose (provided that it is within the rules of the site)and if you don't like it

Tough shit !

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Eerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Geeze i must be REALLY thick today!!!

Oh sorry - the word of today is immature.

I am immature today.

I do NOT get what this chap is on with!!!

who CARES if you are meeting or not - of NOT then pass that profile by!!!!!!

FFS - there are couple on here who wanna swing - so leave the "new couples" alone to get to know each other - and tryout the couples that DO wanna swing!!!

The ones that arent looking at the mo may be back pretty soon - and by making a nuicence of yaself - you arent gonna be invited in the future"!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh !! Just looked at ya profile OP

What a stroppy lttle man you appear to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how dare you people not be available for random sex bloody terrible i say! go n lock yourself in your bedrooms!!

and you dare make friends that your not fucking!! off with your heads!!!

off to lock myself in said bedroom with my "friend" "

you soon need a fanny retread at this rate lol! !!!!!

go girl!! xx

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"Ooooh !! Just looked at ya profile OP

What a stroppy lttle man you appear to be"

LOL takes all sorts dunnit.

I see he not replied again tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooh !! Just looked at ya profile OP

What a stroppy lttle man you appear to be"

I've just taken a look.

To the OP, this is a swing site, not a guaranteed fuck site, single men outweigh couples and single females I do believe.

Take a look around the forums, there are threads that may help you, people asking why meets are difficult to find, if their profile is good and how to improve it, and advice on attitudes towards swinging.

Your profile as it stands, and your first thread do not help you in the slightest, in actual fact I think they have harmed your efforts rather than help.

If you want meets, you need to stand out from the rest, and in the right way, not in a stroppy or negative way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

Geeze i must be REALLY thick today!!!

Oh sorry - the word of today is immature.

I am immature today.

"

Cheesh! You're like a dog with a bone aren't you. Tell you what, let's drop the bit about the calcium stick eh? Leave it at that.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Ooooh !! Just looked at ya profile OP

What a stroppy lttle man you appear to be

I've just taken a look.

To the OP, this is a swing site, not a guaranteed fuck site, single men outweigh couples and single females I do believe.

Take a look around the forums, there are threads that may help you, people asking why meets are difficult to find, if their profile is good and how to improve it, and advice on attitudes towards swinging.

Your profile as it stands, and your first thread do not help you in the slightest, in actual fact I think they have harmed your efforts rather than help.

If you want meets, you need to stand out from the rest, and in the right way, not in a stroppy or negative way. "

I cry foul, a misnomer, a fraud. Your post above is far too sensible to have come from a loony, rename yourself at once.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Why is it that some members say they have me their perfect other half and no longer looking?

Why are they still on the site what a load of b**lsh*t"

Sometimes it’s because they are tourists… they come to see the sights and experience something different for a bit of a break and then go back to the land of the monogamous relationship.

Sometimes the tourists like to keep their profile just in case the new relationship doesn’t work and they need another trip… ya gotta admit it is better than Center Parcs.

Sometimes they just want to build their new relationship before introducing other people into their sex life… swinging as a couple is different to being single and looking for a shag.

Sometimes they have made friends with people they want to stay in touch with.

Sometimes they are on the wrong site.

I am sure there are other reasons …. but those are the ones which came to mind first.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Ooooh !! Just looked at ya profile OP

What a stroppy lttle man you appear to be

I've just taken a look.

To the OP, this is a swing site, not a guaranteed fuck site, single men outweigh couples and single females I do believe.

Take a look around the forums, there are threads that may help you, people asking why meets are difficult to find, if their profile is good and how to improve it, and advice on attitudes towards swinging.

Your profile as it stands, and your first thread do not help you in the slightest, in actual fact I think they have harmed your efforts rather than help.

If you want meets, you need to stand out from the rest, and in the right way, not in a stroppy or negative way. "

He's had two shags this month so he's not doing too badly

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