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Oh dear boys... We aren't that silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now then, I suppose being a young lady on here attracts a fair few men and messages to my inbox, so I like my potential suitors to have a face picture of some description. Just to help find the chaps I might quite fancy.

So many time this situation goes through my inbox.

"Hey, you're fit. Do you wanna meet some time" (usually a guy in his 50s with no face picture or profile picture. I understand maybe cautious of showing his face for one reason or another)

"Hey, thanks. I tend to like to see who I'm talking to before I arrange meets though. x" (usually my fairly obvious sign for a face pic-which is also outlined in my profile too)

*male sends cock pic*

"Awhhh I meant face sweetie. I see plenty of dicks on here every day"

"Oh! I clicked the wrong button!"

This happens a few times a week, even a a few times a day. Why? If you don't wanna show me your face then just say. Or don't message me as its a requirement. I mean. It's only one of two reasonable ones I have!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do they send a face pic after you point out you didn't want a cock one though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scary face pics on mine.x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Oh dear boys... We aren't that silly.

oh yes, some are

hang around, you will see threads from women slagging off men and couples, threads from couples slagging off elusive single bi female and men slagging off the world of swinging...

it is the way it is and it ain't gonna change anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all I can say is get used to it loads do it I have been here on and off for 5 years now it happens daily if they don't send one then block them or just delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now then, I suppose being a young lady on here attracts a fair few men and messages to my inbox, so I like my potential suitors to have a face picture of some description. Just to help find the chaps I might quite fancy.

So many time this situation goes through my inbox.

"Hey, you're fit. Do you wanna meet some time" (usually a guy in his 50s with no face picture or profile picture. I understand maybe cautious of showing his face for one reason or another)

"Hey, thanks. I tend to like to see who I'm talking to before I arrange meets though. x" (usually my fairly obvious sign for a face pic-which is also outlined in my profile too)

*male sends cock pic*

"Awhhh I meant face sweetie. I see plenty of dicks on here every day"

"Oh! I clicked the wrong button!"

This happens a few times a week, even a a few times a day. Why? If you don't wanna show me your face then just say. Or don't message me as its a requirement. I mean. It's only one of two reasonable ones I have! "

Hey you're fit - you can have one...and a face pic.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear boys... We aren't that silly.

oh yes, some are

hang around, you will see threads from women slagging off men and couples, threads from couples slagging off elusive single bi female and men slagging off the world of swinging...

it is the way it is and it ain't gonna change anytime soon."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scary face pics on mine.x"

Disagree with that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scary face pics on mine.x"

You know you aren't scary so hush up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want. "

BOSOMS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scary face pics on mine.x

Disagree with that! "

+1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like the cock pics

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS"

Don't talk to me I'm male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS

Don't talk to me I'm male "

Ok I wont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they going to hide their face if they meet you. It's a bit Dumb really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS

Don't talk to me I'm male "

Too touchy today you are

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When you ask for a face pic and they send a cock pic you can assume they are dickheads - or at least dickfaces

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS

Don't talk to me I'm male

Too touchy today you are "

Tuck ya tits back in then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, you just have to accept it.

Depending on my mood depends how I deal with them, usually it's a polite thanks. But no thanks, if I've had a bad day I might be a little more sarcastic. I use it as a filter though, if they can't follow a polite "please don't send a cock pic" message, then would I really want to meet them?

I'm not sure how the accidentally attach them though, that does puzzle me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS

Don't talk to me I'm male

Too touchy today you are

Tuck ya tits back in then "

Oh fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one yesterday that is coming up my way in November and wanted to take me out for a meal, each response had a cock picture attached and all available free for all to see on his profile. I asked him if he had a face picture, no sorry, guess he thought at the sight of his cock, I would still want to meet him

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Stop moaning that's how Fab works. I get exactly the same with fanny pics - although I do run a clinic for the self conscious ones.

The site gives you plenty of tools to deal with the spam you don't want.

BOSOMS

Don't talk to me I'm male

Too touchy today you are

Tuck ya tits back in then

Oh fuck off "

How very lady like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they send me a cock picture instead of a face pic I ask...

'I take it your dick is better looking then your face'

They either never mail me again or find it funny then send a face pic xx

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


" I asked him if he had a face picture, no sorry, guess he thought at the sight of his cock, I would still want to meet him "

Never under estimate the power of the cock pic! The sight of a 6" cock on a chap 200 miles away is well known to make us all lose self control and agree to meet them instantly. It must be true, it said so on google somewhere.

I'd rather have a face pic from a chap, especially if they want to go pubbing and clubbing with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: I get it. It's frustrating. But consider the answer to the following questions:

What is your usual success rate outside of Fab in getting total strangers to do exactly what you want?

Why would that success rate be any higher on Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scary face pics on mine.x"

I can't see any, even with my varifocal beer goggles off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they send me a cock picture instead of a face pic I ask...

'I take it your dick is better looking then your face'

They either never mail me again or find it funny then send a face pic xx"

I may have to use that line in future. I don't mind a cock picture as I like to see what I may potentially be playing with but a decent face picture is a must, I wont chat unless I know I like the look of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they send me a cock picture instead of a face pic I ask...

'I take it your dick is better looking then your face'

They either never mail me again or find it funny then send a face pic xx

I may have to use that line in future. I don't mind a cock picture as I like to see what I may potentially be playing with but a decent face picture is a must, I wont chat unless I know I like the look of them. "

I like a man with a sense of humor so if they find it funny that helps with the selection process too

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"How are they going to hide their face if they meet you. It's a bit Dumb really "

I d hate to have to meet someone in public if my only recognisable feature was my cock,, especially if its cold out,,

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By *orny69pussyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

Dunno.. when I've had a drink I can sometimes be that silly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How are they going to hide their face if they meet you. It's a bit Dumb really

I d hate to have to meet someone in public if my only recognisable feature was my cock,, especially if its cold out,, "

I'll choose somewhere warm and cozy then!

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