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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, I really need some advice. Approx 5 months ago I meet a cpl from here and pictures were taken at the meet. The pictures were naughty. It was a bi mmf. So you can imagine. I've repeatedly asked this cpl for a copy of the pics. But to no avail. I proposed to block out there faces. Still no pics. To say i am somewhat annoyed is an understatement. What should I do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

move on?

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"move on?"

& learn from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really not comfortable with pictures during meets. It could end up very bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Moving on is the easy answer. I know I was very silly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really not comfortable with pictures during meets. It could end up very bad. "

och

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't allow them to be taken in the first place, unless taken on my phone!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Not much you can do about it. One of the risks of letting meets take your pics with their equipment is that you have no say in what happens to them next. They only have your word that you will blank out their faces/only use them on this site etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moving on is the easy answer. I know I was very silly. "

5months of repeated asks..bit obsessive in my opinion, but yeahhh, get a meet thats comfortable displaying pics with u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't allow them to be taken in the first place, unless taken on my phone! "

meet canceled!

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Maybe she did not look as good as she had hoped and don't want to share them. but you do need to think twice before agreeing to pics being taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd wait for the demand for money to come through.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ppl my main issue is my trust has been completely violated. We spoke for months prior to meet and how it would go. We pre agreed I'd get a copy! That's my issue.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Moving on is the easy answer. I know I was very silly.

5months of repeated asks..bit obsessive in my opinion, but yeahhh, get a meet thats comfortable displaying pics with u"

And take your lappy and spend some time after the fun downloading, editing and deleting the pics together - that way there can be no confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, I really need some advice. Approx 5 months ago I meet a cpl from here and pictures were taken at the meet. The pictures were naughty. It was a bi mmf. So you can imagine. I've repeatedly asked this cpl for a copy of the pics. But to no avail. I proposed to block out there faces. Still no pics. To say i am somewhat annoyed is an understatement. What should I do? "

Not a lot you can do really!!

Just get over it and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And take your lappy and spend some time after the fun downloading, editing and deleting the pics together - that way there can be no confusion."

We've taken pics during meets & done exactly this. We've gone through all pics together & deleted any that any of us didn't like, then emailed a copy to the other party while they're still here so we all have a copy.

It's completely out of order that they have violated your trust by not giving you a copy, but hopefully you have learned for the next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about it. You're obviously not going to get them.

Take your own camera next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, I really need some advice. Approx 5 months ago I meet a cpl from here and pictures were taken at the meet. The pictures were naughty. It was a bi mmf. So you can imagine. I've repeatedly asked this cpl for a copy of the pics. But to no avail. I proposed to block out there faces. Still no pics. To say i am somewhat annoyed is an understatement. What should I do? "

There is little you can do if you agreed for the pictures to be taken. Have they been discreet with the pictures? Have they just kept them for personal use? If they have on both the above then I can understand them not wanting to pass them on. I would guess legally you have no specific right to the pictures as they have no legal right to publish without written permission although there are grey areas.

What you could ask for is some of the pictures with the couples faces already blocked out but still its up to them if they are happy to send or not.

Take it as a lesson learned and next time have a clear agreement as to what happens to the pictures prior to taking them.

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"I wouldn't allow them to be taken in the first place, unless taken on my phone! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad this was posted. i have some to send to a meet.

depends how much you trust the people you meet.

we trust ourselves impeccibly and if we say we will do something, we will, it jsut may take a little time cuz i tend to prioritise things over other things.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I love having pics taken at meets. If I've not got pics, I feel as though the meet hasn't happened.

With the make up on, I don't worry about being recognised, which is a bonus, although blocking out faces, tattoos, pics of family members in the background, distinctive period features in people's living rooms can be a ball ache.

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