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saying no,in a nice way

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By *aucy3 OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IM sorry but your application was unfortunately unaccepted this may be due to the following....

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

No no no of course I dont mind going down on you.. It would be my pleasure..

schlurrp, schlurrp, schlurrp!! mmmmmmmm

ok ok so that last bit wasn't necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No no no of course I dont mind going down on you.. It would be my pleasure..

schlurrp, schlurrp, schlurrp!! mmmmmmmm

ok ok so that last bit wasn't necessary "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nein "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your offer but not what I'm looking for happy to chat, usually works sometimes get the odd arsey well I wouldn't wanna fuck ya ya fat cunt anyway but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.... thats all you need say!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Hi and thanks for getting in touch. I'm sorry I won't be looking to arrange a meet as we appear to be looking for different things and bile rises into my mouth at the thought of being anywhere near you. Happy hunting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi and thanks for getting in touch. I'm sorry I won't be looking to arrange a meet as we appear to be looking for different things and bile rises into my mouth at the thought of being anywhere near you. Happy hunting x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally just press the delete button instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"????"

Say:

"F***off prick!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi and thanks for getting in touch. I'm sorry I won't be looking to arrange a meet as we appear to be looking for different things and bile rises into my mouth at the thought of being anywhere near you. Happy hunting x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"????

Say:

"F***off prick!" "

Or f*ck off sweetie

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Is the Pope releasing his own brand of condoms in packs of seven and calling them Sexy Sins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh..thank you so much. But...NAW!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your out of my league look for someone more on your level. I would feel inadequate meeting you.

Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A nice way to say no is to add thank you . If there is a reason such as distance or conflict of preference say so but never make it personal, if someone goes against something you say in your profile eg no one liners then just block and delete.

Respect and honesty go a long way and if you don't get it in return that's their problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"????

Say:

"F***off prick!"

Or f*ck off sweetie "

whipppppp!!!! Cracckkkk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for us thanks" seems to work

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for message but no thanks. Happy swinging.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"A nice way to say no is to add thank you . If there is a reason such as distance or conflict of preference say so but never make it personal, if someone goes against something you say in your profile eg no one liners then just block and delete.

Respect and honesty go a long way and if you don't get it in return that's their problem."

I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but the attraction isn't there for one of us.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No.... thats all you need say! "

Works for me!

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By *aucy3 OP   Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Hi and thanks for getting in touch. I'm sorry I won't be looking to arrange a meet as we appear to be looking for different things and bile rises into my mouth at the thought of being anywhere near you. Happy hunting x"

Lol

Thank you polo,this is our current reply.for some reason it seems to cause resentment,and abusive replies,some people are just to touchy.

Thanks people.

Thanks,but not for us,

Seems most reasonable.

We're due another message

Nov Dec 2014,If they're mingers,we'll use it then.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting further or meeting. Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/10/13 16:18:33]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why id there a need to be nice? I'd agree that there is no need to be abusive but if someone on here is so sensitive that they can get offended by rejection then that is really neither my problem nor concern. And I'd suggest this is not the best environment for them either as rejection is a common occurence.

We will always reply to a well written meesage even if we aren;t interested but people that send crap messages get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the message but I'm not interested in chatting further or meeting. Best of luck."

this

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it hard to say no outright, as I hate to upset anyone who's taken the trouble to message me. However, most people who I don't wish to meet are either miles away, too old, or want to meet at 03.00 on their way home from work or something else like that, so I try to let them realise it won't happen. A polite firm nyet may save me a lot of messing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very easy to advise men to learn to read profiles

Do they read the response though?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We just tend to write something like...

Thanks for your message but we are not interested in taking things further. Best Wishes.

Works for us and we very rarely get any abusive or wny messages back. Most will reply with a thank you for taking the time to get back to me/us.

We will reply to any message where they have made an effort. All one liners just get deleted.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

*why*

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

My standard reply is "thanks for the message and joke. Sorry you're not my type. Happy swinging" never had an abusive message back from that, often get a thanks for replying message which is fine...as those who obviously haven't read my profile (I.e. they didn't include a joke) get deleted and most often blocked, I think that initial numpty filter cuts out those likely to get arsey at a rejection

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