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Equal Common Courtesy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have recently noticed that on alot of womans profiles they demand a face picture, I am quite happy to comply but isnt it common courtesy to rerurn the favour if the conversation is carried on? As much as us guys love sex its still nice to see who we're talking to and if theres an attraction there.

Sorry for rant. I do understand alot of it could be down to discretion and security but maybe in some cases ignorance. Whats your thoughts? ?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes it is common curtesy, but if one isnt sent with either the first message or when you ask then just move on to a profile that is willing to send face pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the respone. Didnt know if I was being petty or not lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

personally i cant be doin with people that say they will send it by email or text. I dont want to give my details out. I understand descretion but your going to see them when you meet unless they are going to have a bag over their heads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree 100%. And also I think one of the main reasons of a face pic is to see if you fancy the person and would like to take things further. Maybe because all the arseholes on the site woman think we'll jump at it no matter what.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"personally i cant be doin with people that say they will send it by email or text. I dont want to give my details out. I understand descretion but your going to see them when you meet unless they are going to have a bag over their heads"

Agreed!!

Someone told me last week to google another site he was on, and go to the country and page down type in his name just to see a pic!!!!! Are you kidding me and he got pissed off at me when I told him he couldn't see a pic of me since he didn't have any of himself on fab, all he kept saying was google it.... My profile says dont ask for a pic without sending one, so lets not play this game, and I still have to say this to some people....very annoying!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

well my profile is hidden as im not meeting any new people. But if i get chatting to someone in general i send a picture. Mind you im always forgetting my profile is hidden lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That sure is alot of effort just for a picture lol. The amount of ideots on here really do give us a bad name x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually had a similar thing a few days ago. Someone messaged me and demanded a load of pictures but refused to even send me one!

Decided to bin that idea. Not that I suspect she was a fake or picture collector, but there needs to be some form of balance and I'm not sure we'd exactly get along if she was soon demanding without actually giving something back!

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

What do u look like ? Lol

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By *otwifeHunter808Man
over a year ago

Bury

What do u look like ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amen Libertine!! Glad im not alone on this haha

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes it is common curtesy, but if one isnt sent with either the first message or when you ask then just move on to a profile that is willing to send face pictures"

...it really is this simple!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i thought us guys were the visually stimulated ones .. maybe women just like faces .. face pix seem a good idea before meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I avoid this problem by having all my pics public (I understand that many don't want to do this). That way anyone viewing my profile knows instantly if they want to message me or not.

Could I lose my job over it? According to my company's code of conduct, no, as long as I don't mention them in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i thought us guys were the visually stimulated ones .. maybe women just like faces .. face pix seem a good idea before meeting "

~I met someone once without first seeing a face pic....never again!

I think if your talking about meeting then it's just common sense you know what each other look like....what does get on my goat is when someone mails for the first and includes an unrequested face pic then demands you send one back as 'its only fair'...no one asked them to send a pic so why would I return one?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Yes it is common curtesy, but if one isnt sent with either the first message or when you ask then just move on to a profile that is willing to send face pictures"

This ^^^^

We like to exchange face pics in the first couple of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm able to publicly display my face pic cos there are no ramifications I would have to be embarrassed about fortunately - but I appreciate why for others they have to exercise caution.

I consider the bonus of having mine on public view is that IF someone messages me they already know what I look like n I'm spared that embarrassing 'oh your not my type ' scenario which even at my age I still find mortifying

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I have recently noticed that on alot of womans profiles they demand a face picture, I am quite happy to comply but isnt it common courtesy to rerurn the favour if the conversation is carried on? As much as us guys love sex its still nice to see who we're talking to and if theres an attraction there.

Sorry for rant. I do understand alot of it could be down to discretion and security but maybe in some cases ignorance. Whats your thoughts? ? "

My thoughts.....welcome to the mysterious world of fabs. You will have many questions of a similar vane and will be frustrated by some of the responses and attitudes you see but its all part and parcel of this or even the nilla world

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