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How have you changed over the years?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Not so much in terms of looks but more in terms of attitude towards life.

Have you become more or less tolerant?

Are you more or less inclined to try new things?

How have your friends changed over the years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely more tolerant and I have become very selfless.

I wouldn't try anything new I didn't want to, regardless.

My friends I would say have not changed, but also adapted with each new challenge or event in their lives.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

worldly wise comes with age, so have more now lol or should have...I can be over cynical at times to..

I have over the last year learnt to be more tolerant and say 'doe it really matter' and relax more about life as what will be will be....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've changed....I have become less of a door mat....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become more confident in myself and laid back about life in general, when life throws you a curve ball I dust myself down and carry on

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Very much more tolerant.. much more understanding. probably a nicer person in the last 10 years.

more adventurous trying new things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have definitely become more tolerant of others and gained a lot of patience. And learned that the little things are not worth worrying about.

On the other hand if I think something is wrong or somebody is being treated badly I am much more likely to voice my opinions in person nowadays.

An illness that forced a change of job role 5 years ago has made me a lot more confident in myself.

I have also got more tired and lost the ability to stay out till 6am and not notice 24 hours later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More tolerant and much calmer...I used to go off at the slightest thing but now it takes a lot more to wind me up and it's usually just a few expletives and on with the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become more grumpy and less tolerant of idiots. It's one of my "development opportunities" apparently.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im less trusting nowdays I think ive changed for the better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am calmer, more tolerant and far more adventurous. I am also more open to new ideas and ideologys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have now become a far more tolerant, happier, easy going, fun loving individual. Not sure thats down to age, more down to being single. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more chilled and don't let the insignificant things in life stress me

Mind you having cancer 18 months ago has given me a totally different perspective on things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so much more positive, and it had helped in do many ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so much more positive, and it had helped in do many ways.

"

Has helped*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to say what i feel and think. Used to bottle things up.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

There was a time I would have got wound up over certain situations.

Now I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that used to bother me no longer do.

People that I thought were important are no longer around.

I am just a happier person nowadays.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

completely unrecognizable from the person i was when i was 18. People who know me today certainly wouldnt believe that was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much in terms of looks but more in terms of attitude towards life.

Have you become more or less tolerant?

Are you more or less inclined to try new things?

How have your friends changed over the years? "

My personality has changed an awful lot. In every sense of the word.

Depends what the new thing was?

My friends have changed as in I don't socialise with them and they have changed, which has resulted in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since hitting 40 earlier this year I think I've chilled a lot more, but that said some shitty health issues put things into perspective also.,.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

If you knew me when I was 18-20 you would of hated me..I was a bitch...I mellowed to the woman I am today..

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

as has been said my friends changed more than me I take it all a day at a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im less angsty now....

a much milder person altogether

though i still have a "bite" ,when its needed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm much more adventurous than I used to be both sexually and otherwise. Happier in some ways...more accepting of life too.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

I have become less tolerant of morons. I have become less patient. And I have become grumpier. But on the upside I have learnt how to hide these delightful qualities of mine a lot better

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have opened up a lot more. but also become very cynical

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I feel its a natural progression.. As we get older we experience more, stuff happens that makes us all stop and take stock of our lives, puts all into perspective.. I too have become more intollerant of many things, yet on the other hand am happy in my skin and enjoy all to the full these days! Lol after all we are dead a long time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become more tolerate of others, but I don't suffer fool's gladly. I am more at ease with myself and my personality. I no longer seek the accreditation of everyone, as you cannot please everybody. I acknowledge my weaknesses and try to turn them to my advantage and build any strengths.

The more I know, the more I realise I dont know... Unlike my younger self, who new everything...! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say I am a lot more cautious after the year I have had would not wish it on anyone x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm healthier after the menopause and that has affected me in ways that I didn't expect. However I am pretty much the same. Just fatter and older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm less tolerant of idiots, less of a mug but a bit cynical at times.

Not sure that is a good thing or not x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look forward not back. You cant change the past only put those lessons learned into whats around the corner.

It's the discovery, good or bad thats the exciting bit.

If i was too look back, i was a selfish cunt on a self destructive bent, intent on taking as many with me as i could. I hate my past self. Thank god a wonderful woman saved me from that.

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