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"I've had my 'orals' tested, does that count? " Pop pop pop Runs away quick before cheeky tells me off for hijacking | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " not yet, but I am living in hope | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " yes when i went to a meet with a single female and she bought her 3 kids along the bad is that she kept trying it on and wanted me to go back to hers | |||
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"tell ya never do a serious threads with you lot about... " Wasn't me it was him | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " i slept with a guy knowing he had a long term partner.. booo me! | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. " | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. " | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? not yet, but I am living in hope tell ya never do a serious threads with you lot about... " I am being serious | |||
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"I use this site mainly for the forums as its very friendly and quick replies. I met a girl yesterday, best experience I've ever had, not been able to stop thinking bout her. shes away for a few days but i get the feeling it was just sex for her. How do you do it? how do you turn that switch off in your head that makes you not care, its baffles me. I wanna be able to do that so i can stop hurting, why do i always have to get attached to someone who even kisses me." its called self preversation... | |||
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings " ^^^^^This! | |||
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings " In fact, i think i have higher morals than some of the "vanillas" i know...when it comes to sex and conducting ones self out and about. | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. " Because of the last ten words the above would have been much better coming from a bloke | |||
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be. " Ive learned that morales and swinging dont always go.......I know accept it, have fun and not to look to deep! | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. " At my first ever social on entering the "swinging world" . I met a nice cpl and we were chatting in a pub setting...over the course of the social ,she became more and more agitated and i asked her what was up / Her partner was circulating.... She then tells me that she doesnt want to swing and had threatened to walk if she didnt give it a go... she loved him....so she went along with it ....hating every minute. WTF . i could never do that | |||
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be. Ive learned that morales and swinging dont always go.......I know accept it, have fun and not to look to deep!" *now | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. At my first ever social on entering the "swinging world" . I met a nice cpl and we were chatting in a pub setting...over the course of the social ,she became more and more agitated and i asked her what was up / Her partner was circulating.... She then tells me that she doesnt want to swing and had threatened to walk if she didnt give it a go... she loved him....so she went along with it ....hating every minute. WTF . i could never do that " *he had threatened to walk* | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " Yes. I'm not sure 'and failed' would be the right words to add to that, but I have certainly stepped back to re-evaluate and adjust them....... I think for the better. | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " Morals are your own personal belief system, not those of someone else, either personal or organisational | |||
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be. " Spot on. | |||
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"Sorry my last post was a response to dptestshoot " Its ok I'll let you off... | |||
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"Sorry my last post was a response to dptestshoot Its ok I'll let you off... " Why thank you kind lady | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " No. Z | |||
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"But I have learnt that the swinging world is not somewhere that morals, integrity & honesty are as real as they are made out to be. " ^^^^ This | |||
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"Yes I now have none " Hate it when people do that! | |||
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"Yes I now have none " Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! " If it was a man I hope he's not that quick in bed lol | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! If it was a man I hope he's not that quick in bed lol" Is there a plague or is the same person posting on the threads as a last hurrah? | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! " Who was it?.,. | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! Who was it?.,. " Bob ( said in black adder voice ) | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! Who was it?.,. Bob ( said in black adder voice ) " Not Baldrick?... | |||
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"Yes I now have none Hate it when people do that! " they usually message me a hello before buggering off. What's the point? | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! Who was it?.,. Bob ( said in black adder voice ) Not Baldrick?... " No black adder to the boy who was a girl fuck this is getting confusing | |||
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"Yes I now have none Hate it when people do that! they usually message me a hello before buggering off. What's the point? " Hello there - and no I'm not deleting my profile now | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! " With no morals the world is your oyster, so why stick around? She probably having the time of her life mugging a pensioner as foreplay before sexually abusing Shetland pony with a Dyson DC01. Tomorrow will be kick a cav in the cunt day. | |||
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"I wonder if the loss of morals and the thread made s/he feel that it's time to quit? With the flourish of a final tease." Well it wasn't me | |||
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"Have your morals been tested since entering the journey of the swinging world?? " No | |||
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"Yes I now have none Blimey...and then he/she/they were gone!!! Who was it?.,. " Sorry it was me. I'm back again now though | |||
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"Yes I now have none " oh well | |||
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings " Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society . We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in . | |||
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society . We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in . " although, in essence, i agree, i have to stop you in a s much as, V was brought up in a staunch religious family, where sex was for marrige and blah blah and so, any hint of being involved in a swinging scene SHOULD HAVE gone against every moral she had, had they all been born out of environment, but it was she that suggested it, to a greater extent, so whilst i agree you get your start in life by the people around you, you have to develop your own moral code as you grow and engage with everyone you come into contact with | |||
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"For me swinging and morality are not linked as I see nothing wrong with enjoying sex with more than one partner. I have a moral issue with meeting people who were pressured into having sex, for example by their partner. Also people who doing things they are not entirely happy to do but do so because they feel their partner wants them to. - if I sensed that was going on I would withdraw. " this, by and large.. most of our 'morals' re this aspect and other areas are usually generated by religion, the establishment and as said social programming then I take those with a pinch of salt.. | |||
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"Im a catholic girl I went to a convent " was taught by nuns.. evils fuckers some of them.. | |||
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"Hmmm ... I like to think I still have my morals , integrity and pride Just because you like sex doesn't mean you should lose your moral standings Morals are no more than social programs study history of human civilization and you soon see a pattern of social programing dictating the morals of society . We are born with out morals and learn from the society we are born into what is social acceptable and what is not and at the end of the day that's all morals are social programing mixed with the human need to fit in . although, in essence, i agree, i have to stop you in a s much as, V was brought up in a staunch religious family, where sex was for marrige and blah blah and so, any hint of being involved in a swinging scene SHOULD HAVE gone against every moral she had, had they all been born out of environment, but it was she that suggested it, to a greater extent, so whilst i agree you get your start in life by the people around you, you have to develop your own moral code as you grow and engage with everyone you come into contact with" Agree those who are inteligent and brave enough can over come moral programing but we are talking about a very small number on the whole the human need to fit it is to strong for most people to over come so although they secretly may wish for change they will never voice that opinion unless others do because of the need of human nature to fit in with the group . | |||
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"Im a catholic girl I went to a convent was taught by nuns.. evils fuckers some of them.." Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! | |||
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"Im a catholic girl I went to a convent was taught by nuns.. evils fuckers some of them.. Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! " deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though.. and some positively relished using the cane.. | |||
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"Im a catholic girl I went to a convent was taught by nuns.. evils fuckers some of them.. Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though.. and some positively relished using the cane.. " I managed to avoid that! They did try and convert me before I left but they stood no chance I later found out one of the worst ones got caught kissing a man - oh the shame lol | |||
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"Im a catholic girl I went to a convent was taught by nuns.. evils fuckers some of them.. Oh yes they bloody are! Funniest thing I have ever seen though, a nun skiing in full gear!! deadly with the blackboard cleaner at 15 yards though.. and some positively relished using the cane.. I managed to avoid that! They did try and convert me before I left but they stood no chance I later found out one of the worst ones got caught kissing a man - oh the shame lol " good girl.. | |||
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"some ppl have morals that others dont, , thats fair enough, but its the ppl who try and push there morals on others that does my head in, just because you believe in something doesnt mean others have to " likewise those with NO morals trying to justify it by saying its nothing but fun. | |||
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"some ppl have morals that others dont, , thats fair enough, but its the ppl who try and push there morals on others that does my head in, just because you believe in something doesnt mean others have to likewise those with NO morals trying to justify it by saying its nothing but fun." very true indeed | |||
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"My morals are re-evaluated regularly. The core is always about integrity in all that I do and not assuming my integrity is one that others hold or even value. Yes, they have been tested but the final decision and eventual outcome come from the context of the information to hand, the gut feeling I have and whether that would drift away from honouring my integrity. " | |||
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