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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

I have never used dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just keep an open mind in everything I do. I'm here for fun but if I met someone I liked then we'll see.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm here to make friends and get laid.

I did the whole love thing once..... Never again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who says dating sites promote monogamy?

there are just as many on those using them for meeting different people for what they can get, as there is anywhere else.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

for me... it isn't! I have had 2 different mindsets when I have been doing each activity in the past......

its only when you muddle the two from the off is when the complications arise....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Never used a dating site

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

Haha, the monogamy of dating sites? You must be kidding!! There are far more fakes and people only looking for 'wank-fodder' on the dating sites, and you have to talk a lot more to them out.

On dating sites I am mostly approached by the under 35's wanting sex, on here I get guys of all ages wanting to take me out too! Go figure!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

I have found dating sites worse for judgments and deceit than here. Men I have met on here have told me they have more luck on dating sites and find it easier to get sex there but use this as well, especially if looking for something kinkier than one to one.

I gave up looking for a relationship a long time ago now but when I was my ask and my expectations were different.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I've never used a dating site as a dating site, however I was on a dating (kinda) site for the forums.

I'm dating nillas at the mo, and IF it should get that far then I will of course have to tell them about my other interests (ie women and group fun) but until such time I keep dating as dating and swinging as swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites?

Haha, the monogamy of dating sites? You must be kidding!! There are far more fakes and people only looking for 'wank-fodder' on the dating sites, and you have to talk a lot more to them out.

On dating sites I am mostly approached by the under 35's wanting sex, on here I get guys of all ages wanting to take me out too! Go figure!"

That is true but there is a pretense that dating sites are principally monogamist and for some it is, that is one of the attractions about this site that there is a certain amount of honesty in the promiscuity on here.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never used a dating site, although my mother threatened to sign me up when i was single once

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Pof should be renamed plenty of shags...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have to say if i was looking to date the last thing i would do would be join a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never used a dating site. The people I know who use or have used dating sites only use them for sex.

I just think Fab is more honest.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

primarily all dating sites are I want to shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pof should be renamed plenty of shags... "

Plenty of fucks keeps the acronym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

Since I use this like a dating site and a dating site not as a shag and go site (get the offers though), I don't see the contradiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who says dating sites promote monogamy?

there are just as many on those using them for meeting different people for what they can get, as there is anywhere else."

Agreed! Just no bullshit your looking for a relationship when your really looking for what's inside their pants/knickers

Just as shit at this then I am dating! Joy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never signed up to a Dating site but a friend of mine has and gets more sex than on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"who says dating sites promote monogamy?

there are just as many on those using them for meeting different people for what they can get, as there is anywhere else."

I'd say the women on dating sites 'think' the blokes are being monogamous....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this 'dating' of which you speak?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I can only speak for myself. I am here to 'hook up' as it were - not look for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used a dating site, I don't have a problem getting vanilla dates in the real world...and Fab for me is just NSA great sex, nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

Have to say from my experience thats not true, I had more sexual encounters on a dating site than I have here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have noticed a lot of threads concerning internet dating and there seems to be crossover between this site and regular dating sites.

Hope many of you are actively using dating sites and how do you square the contradiction between the promiscuity of sites like this and the monogamy of regular dating sites? "

Slightly naive assumption dating sites are monogamous: they're not.

I'm single and promiscuous in that I have sex with certain friends as and when. However, in a relationship I'm monogamous.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"who says dating sites promote monogamy?

there are just as many on those using them for meeting different people for what they can get, as there is anywhere else."

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pof should be renamed plenty of shags... "

haha, Word!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was briefly using online dating site and Fab at the same time, I included a reference to an alternative lifestyle in my profile, and would direct any gent that was interested to my profile on Fab as I did not have anything to hide.

Therefore I was always honest and upfront about being on Fab etc...

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