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Approaching people in person (pulling someone)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Serious question where and when can you approach someone, when isn't it appropriate and what do you do when it isn't appropriate to ask for someone's number/chat them up or do you believe just seize the day and go for it no matter where you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done this, my testicles are to small.

But ...

I would suggest that if you were confident, you would be able to strike up a conversation anywhere (doctors & hospitals are probably best avoided)

Are you confident enough to speak to a stranger in the street?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't mean that halo thing, thumb slipped

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never done this, my testicles are to small.

But ...

I would suggest that if you were confident, you would be able to strike up a conversation anywhere (doctors & hospitals are probably best avoided)

Are you confident enough to speak to a stranger in the street? "

Basically meant how would one feel if someone tried to pull them whilst they are working and would you go and try it to someone who was working?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done this, my testicles are to small.

But ...

I would suggest that if you were confident, you would be able to strike up a conversation anywhere (doctors & hospitals are probably best avoided)

Are you confident enough to speak to a stranger in the street?

Basically meant how would one feel if someone tried to pull them whilst they are working and would you go and try it to someone who was working? "

I am useless at that sort of things

I know a guy that has his name and number printed up on business cards and regularly hands them out to women, usually when they are working in McDonalds and Tesco etc

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I have a wooden club that does all of my chatting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never done this, my testicles are to small.

But ...

I would suggest that if you were confident, you would be able to strike up a conversation anywhere (doctors & hospitals are probably best avoided)

Are you confident enough to speak to a stranger in the street?

Basically meant how would one feel if someone tried to pull them whilst they are working and would you go and try it to someone who was working? "

I live in hope that some day a lady will try to pull me at work, hopefully pull me into a nearby empty room to fuck there and then.

Just do it, the worst that could happen is bring banned from Costa's or where ever they work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one ever chats me up .... Is it down to testicle size then

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"No one ever chats me up .... Is it down to testicle size then "

Hey babe, do you come here often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever chats me up .... Is it down to testicle size then "

Yeah, there's a graph online somewhere equating testicle size to courage, so it's not my fault, it's genetics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too shy to think of going up to someone and sad to say its never happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its inappropriate when they are out with their partners or tending to children, but some say they chat people up at the school gates.

i dunno, never really been one to 'chat up' as it were.

would rather stay alone than be turned down by someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever chats me up .... Is it down to testicle size then

Hey babe, do you come here often? "

No no no

I like originality

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

It is down to confidence, however, what have you got to lose? The old saying, the chase is often better than the catch is very true. We think it is a lost skill, soooo many people hide behind the internet for contacts and dating/mating and it is a lazy way of getting out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one ever chats me up .... Is it down to testicle size then

Yeah, there's a graph online somewhere equating testicle size to courage, so it's not my fault, it's genetics "

Haha ill google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say toilets are bad place and during a mugging also child birth

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I don't get approached very often at all.....

On the rare occasions that I have it has been from work colleagues and the odd occasion at a pub.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I have a wooden club that does all of my chatting up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat with with females all the time in differet situations,it doesn't mean we are destined to jump into bed with each other.

It should be fairly obvious after a few minutes of light chat if it's potentially going to lead to anything or not,if you can't recognize the signs you need to get out more often.

As for what is appropriate just seize the moment and nothing ventured,nothing gained really. Best not to make it premeditated as it puts extra pressure on yourself and can then quite easily,make a complete arse of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that successfully wooing a girl in the real world is so much a matter of time and place, more about meeting the right person. When you do meet such a girl, you'll generally be able to tell from her tone of voice and body language that she's interested, after that, appropriate time and location is just a bonus.

I think confidence is the most important aspect.

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