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single, attached or married life?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been single for the majority of my adult life so am very used to being single and can't really see beyond it but do quite like it when i hear about so many bad relationships. But do like to hear other peoples views as to what they think is best, single, attached or married life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually think we have a great relationship.

we dont live together, for one reason or another, but we see each other every other weekend, and holidays.

its great to be able to do your own thing, but then have someone there to be with when the time comes along.

we love it, although cant wait until the time comes we are able to be together fulltime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married for 24 years and the majority of it was wonderful, especially while the Children were at home. Now I love being single its fabUlous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"actually think we have a great relationship.

we dont live together, for one reason or another, but we see each other every other weekend, and holidays.

its great to be able to do your own thing, but then have someone there to be with when the time comes along.

we love it, although cant wait until the time comes we are able to be together fulltime."

Sounds like you have the best of all worlds lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been single for the majority of my adult life so am very used to being single and can't really see beyond it but do quite like it when i hear about so many bad relationships. But do like to hear other peoples views as to what they think is best, single, attached or married life?"

I rather liked been attached and would love to be again but it would take someone very special for me to go there again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was married for 24 years and the majority of it was wonderful, especially while the Children were at home. Now I love being single its fabUlous "

After 24 years, did it not feel strange to be single again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was single most of my life and for other reasons, I can't live without that personal space. I never fall for women, don't really have feelings like that anymore, all except for one woman that is out of reach. I'm a walking Catch 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dated a few and I've been single too..right now I'm not the type you date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like my space to but would be cool for a bit of company sometimes

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

For the first time in my life I'm seriously considering settling down.

I've been married but that was a farce.

I've been single nearly 8 years, (technically) and as I said I'm seriously dating nilla's now.

Maybe I'm having an early mid life crisis or something but I'm looking for the waking up with someone, the companionship, trust, security et al of a grown up relationship now but ssssshhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very happy in the relationship. I am a quite solitary person so I do like that crystal is regularly away with work or visiting family so I still get regular time on my own.

I'm quite happy single or in a relationship. Neither is better, they are just different and I'm capable of adapting to either. They both have their challenges and they both have their positives. I think not fearing potentially being single in the future makes a relationship stronger and happier.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I got married last year after living with hin 25 years I love being married but I enjoy seeing others so its great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 30 relationship that almost killed me. Won't commit again but I crave affection and the closeness of a man's body. I get scared when a man wants more so I choose men I know won't want more. Being single means I sleep better at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a 30 relationship that almost killed me. Won't commit again but I crave affection and the closeness of a man's body. I get scared when a man wants more so I choose men I know won't want more. Being single means I sleep better at night "

30 year..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very happy in the relationship. I am a quite solitary person so I do like that crystal is regularly away with work or visiting family so I still get regular time on my own.

I'm quite happy single or in a relationship. Neither is better, they are just different and I'm capable of adapting to either. They both have their challenges and they both have their positives. I think not fearing potentially being single in the future makes a relationship stronger and happier."

Interesting way to look at it, have not ever thought that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've been single most of my adult life too, i'm happy to be single as its what i'm used to

I do think sometimes it would be nice to have someone to cuddle upto in bed, someone to watch a film with and talk about shit day to day stuff with, i've never had that so i can't say I miss it but I do sometimes wonder what its like to share things with someone you trust

sex would be better with someone you trusted as I love so many things that I just wouldn't do with someone off here so sex wise I feel I miss out

People ask me all the time if I've met any yet, as if I must be looking

there's good and bad points to both I think

I like my freedom, I like being able to come and go as I please, would I give that up for a cuddle in bed? I don't think I would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we seem like pretty similar people naughtynymphos, maybe we are just born singletons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said i'm not ment to be in a relationship, I don't do them well so I've just stopped trying now and I feel i'm getting to old to be arsed with it anymore anyway

when my daughter leave home i'm getting a rocking chair and a porch, i'm being the crazy cat woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we'll at least you'll still FAB to keep you company

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've had all three. More than once. Single works best for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have FAB lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married for 24 years and the majority of it was wonderful, especially while the Children were at home. Now I love being single its fabUlous

After 24 years, did it not feel strange to be single again?"

I've been truley single for nearly 2 years for the first time since I was 15. Bit wierd sometimes and admit I miss the cuddles etc. But I've enjoyed finding myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a reason divorce is so expensive.

Its worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single for 3 years, last time I had a relationship he messed with my head and even sat told me to take an overdose

Lets just say that I have been put off the idea of having a relationship or getting too close to anyone, I have dated and tried to start relationships but I just can't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being single but sometimes I miss having someone there to share day to day things etc ,maybe when the kids leave home I might think about finding someone but I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been single for 3 years, last time I had a relationship he messed with my head and even sat told me to take an overdose

Lets just say that I have been put off the idea of having a relationship or getting too close to anyone, I have dated and tried to start relationships but I just can't do it. "

That's simply not right, sounds like he needed the pills.

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