FabSwingers.com forum: Ignorance!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it people do not answer 'polite' emails? They are generally the ones who declare themselves 'genuine'. This gives Fab a bad reputation. Please peeps, try to answer polite emails.... We are adults and can accept a NO, but we shouldnt accept ignorance of any sort. Does anyone else exoerience ignorance on here?

Perhaps we should name and shame! What do you think?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Read the FAQs and read the many threads on why people don't answer messages.

Have a good evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I just get people view me nd then go but let's face it only talk if u r interested hahahaha otherwise wots the point hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the FAQs and read the many threads on why people don't answer messages.

Have a good evening.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If you do a quick forum search on this very subject, you will find plenty of threads, that will give you all the answers you are looking for. Good luck

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

people moaning all the time gives fab a bad reputation!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people moaning all the time gives fab a bad reputation!!

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

We get a lot of messages from people who clearly haven't read our profile and don't fit our desires. We completely ignore almost all of those, regardless of how nice the message is. If someone doesn't take the time to read a short profile, why waste our time?

Also, when you accept messages from single males, you do get swamped sometimes. And you may be a really cool guy, who can take no thanks for an answer, but you might be surprised by how many people can't and continue to try and sell themselves.

Couple different reasons, but never to be cruel or callous.

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

You can do a very simple experiment. Get 2-3

amateur girl pictures from the net. Set up an account as a single girl whit this pictures and just watch what's happening with the inbox.

Then try and answer all the emails.

Done that with my own pictures, just out of curiosity and had over thousand emails in the inbox on the second day.

Hope this answers your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's an example of some messages (not a real conversation) NB we say on our profile we only meet men around Moray who accommodate:

Guy: hello there, nice profile, would you like to chat, maybe meet for fun?

Us: thanks but we only meet men around Moray who accommodate (he can't and is 80 miles away)

Guy: I can travel to you.

Us: thanks but as we said, we only meet men around Moray who can accommodate.

Guy: how about aI book a hotel?

Us: thanks but it says on our profile that we don't do hotel meets.

And so it goes on......

We like to reply to all mails but as you can see many guys just message without reading profiles, either that or they just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im a genuine ignorant sod then lol

i delete all the time without replying.. im such a bad person

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not answering messages on Fab is not considered bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im a genuine ignorant sod then lol

i delete all the time without replying.. im such a bad person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get offended I just curl up in the corner and cry for 10 minutes, get up and wipe my eyes and then get on with my life.

Just take it on the chin and move on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not answering messages on Fab is not considered bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well im a genuine ignorant sod then lol

i delete all the time without replying.. im such a bad person

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nawteee hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because they don't want to talk to you.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Why is it people do not answer 'polite' emails? They are generally the ones who declare themselves 'genuine'. This gives Fab a bad reputation. Please peeps, try to answer polite emails.... We are adults and can accept a NO, but we shouldnt accept ignorance of any sort. Does anyone else exoerience ignorance on here?

Perhaps we should name and shame! What do you think?"

Ignorance - The irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's because they don't want to talk to you.

ahhh why not

I never actually expect a reply to a message so when i do get one it is a bonus ...its the way of Fab so best get use to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather just delete than say No I don't like the look of you...you look like an ex...you have a funny shaped head...your wearing trackies....you have 500 pics but they are all of your cock....too short...too talll...

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Not answering a message is not ignorance. It means they are not interested in talking to you. Too many people do not bother to read my profile, or the fab FAQs it seems as well.

My advice is to suck it up, get over it and concentrate on the people who do reply. If all you do is focus on the negative on here you really aren't going to have a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd rather just delete than say No I don't like the look of you...you look like an ex...you have a funny shaped head...your wearing trackies....you have 500 pics but they are all of your cock....too short...too talll..."

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Perhaps we should name and shame! What do you think?

Ignorance - The irony.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I don't get offended I just curl up in the corner and cry for 10 minutes, get up and wipe my eyes and then get on with my life.

Just take it on the chin and move on. "

Wow... only 10 minutes... You're getting tougher... Didn't it used to be an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps we should name and shame! What do you think?"
name n shame what exactly

cause u dont get a reply

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"I don't get offended I just curl up in the corner and cry for 10 minutes, get up and wipe my eyes and then get on with my life.

Just take it on the chin and move on. "

When did you sneak back in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't so much annoy me but it frustrates me, I will always read a profile, scan through the pics before I even message. I'll weigh up my chances, and if I do meet all of the given criteria, I will then message. Its rare I message otherwise. I put in quite alot of effort, especially seen as I'm a 19 year old lad, who is very unlikely to get a meet. Then there is alot of people who will delete, i can accept it, but i would obviously prefer a no thanks. There are a few who do reply with no thanks, which i am grateful, and thankful for their reply. Then you get the minority, the ones who aren't genuine whatsoever. Then that tiny 1% whom do want to meet, of which i have never met. I want a fuck buddy to be blunt, so i can have a couples profile. I had one as normal, but felt uncomfortable asking her did she want to try this. That's why i wanna find one on here. No luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you choose to waste your time sending unsolicited messages to others, they choose NOT to waste theres by replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply? Get over it. If you applied for a job and didn't get a response, would you call them up and call them ignorant? No!

As pointed out, single women get stupid amounts of mail. I been here 5 months and still average over 100 new messages a week. I have a life, I can't reply to every one just to say (which at least 90/95 would) no thanks.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I would look at the profile.. after receiving a message..

If all i see is cock..on both the profile and the avatar I would just delete. I find it just shows lack of imagination. I dont feel it is worth a reply . Sorry if that offends.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

The guy is new to the forums. I'm sure he's probably got the general idea now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simply? Get over it. If you applied for a job and didn't get a response, would you call them up and call them ignorant "

Probably

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

From FAQ:

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

Naming and shaming is against site rules. This isn't going to change.

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