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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

just curious.... if you had a regular swinging partner who you adored but they met someone else and wanted to dump you to concentrate on a relationship with them how would you feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its hardly dumping you if its not a relationship, you cant expect someone to pass up the chance to form a loving relationship if a chance is given, I would be happy for them

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I would be happy they have a chance of a relationship and say give me one before you go and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would cope very well. We have a regular guy who we meet and have become good friends with, but he has his life and we have ours, we both respect the fact and if he has to go his own way that's fine by us and likewise should we decide enough is enough. I think all 3 of us are mature enough to cope with life afterwards.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS...is it dumping?

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

I guess you would be a bit pissed off, but like another member has said if you could find true love it would not be hard to walk away from a site like this, you would do the same if you felt strongly about someone you met,

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I wish them well (I have) feel happy for them and have a moment of sadness that I won't get to enjoy them anymore.

If I adore someone I want them to be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be happy they have a chance of a relationship and say give me one before you go and good luck "

Wey hey - get in there! - Hello Ruggers how are you, long time no speak

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I would be happy for them

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I would be happy they have a chance of a relationship and say give me one before you go and good luck

Wey hey - get in there! - Hello Ruggers how are you, long time no speak "

hehe...I was just thinking the same as I saw your post !! We are great ta, hope you are too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its hardly dumping you if its not a relationship, you cant expect someone to pass up the chance to form a loving relationship if a chance is given, I would be happy for them "

as said, you would have to be happy for them.

i would suggest if you felt anything other than pleased they have found someone to love, then your feelings go deeper than just NSA sex.

or you are just a selfish individual

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"its hardly dumping you if its not a relationship, you cant expect someone to pass up the chance to form a loving relationship if a chance is given, I would be happy for them "

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"PS...is it dumping?"

good point I suppose ifits NSA it isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be happy they have a chance of a relationship and say give me one before you go and good luck

Wey hey - get in there! - Hello Ruggers how are you, long time no speak

hehe...I was just thinking the same as I saw your post !! We are great ta, hope you are too? "

Yeah top of the bill thanks life is good. Ooops I'm hijacking the thread - better give over or Ill get banned by one of those moderators hahahahaha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Playing with single, its going to happen. Lots of guys I know have gone on to form relationships, but I still stay friends

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would be happy for them and find someone else to play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will tell you when and if it ever happens (finding the swinging would be a good start)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me with two guys that I was close to and saw often.

Ones met someone and left the site, the other gets married next year, although we still talk now and again.

It was great fun while it lasted, but we were never anything other than good friends. I wish them both well, I'm sure they'd be happy for me too

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I would be happy they have a chance of a relationship and say give me one before you go and good luck

Wey hey - get in there! - Hello Ruggers how are you, long time no speak

hehe...I was just thinking the same as I saw your post !! We are great ta, hope you are too?

Yeah top of the bill thanks life is good. Ooops I'm hijacking the thread - better give over or Ill get banned by one of those moderators hahahahaha"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me once, we met on here, both new and decided were happy with each other so deleted profiles. Had the 'discussion' that should either meet someone then what we had would end. He met a girl about 8 months later and told me and yes I was very pleased for him he is a smashing guy but a little sadder than I expected to be? I think it's difficult to remain 'nsa' when your seeing each other regularly and emotions will become involved. I didn't realise how much till after the fact but wouldnt change it, we had a brill time and still have the utmost respect for each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I think it's difficult to remain 'nsa' when your seeing each other regularly and emotions will become involved. "

I agree with this, all because we are on a swinging site we are not robots, we have the same feelings and emotions as everyone else and sometimes they will take over, its knowing how to deal with them that's the key, if I ever meet anyone and I feel that im meeting them to regular that im starting to get feelings towards them I stop meeting them, that don't happen often by the way but there has been a couple of occasions where I have felt its time to stop meeting and move on before things get out of hand

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