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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what's the best job you ever and had and are you still doing it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the best job you ever and had and are you still doing it now.

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Female member quality tester for Fab great job, working hard to assess all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a mum ....the pays Crap but the rewards are endless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol "

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

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By *antonkid1955Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I tried to get my 13yro son on that mechanics course years ago..but unfortunatly he didnt have a criminal record so he was excluded..however,by his own hard work and perseverance he is now a fully qualified Mercedez mechanic..still without a criminal record..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify"

They dont have to misbehave, the ones I teach tend to have very poor literacy skills and opt out of one of the GCEs to take our course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried to get my 13yro son on that mechanics course years ago..but unfortunatly he didnt have a criminal record so he was excluded..however,by his own hard work and perseverance he is now a fully qualified Mercedez mechanic..still without a criminal record.."

At 13 he would be too young to start our courses, the youngest we take is 15 and they can be too immature to complete.

I might have taught your son as I did work at the MB training center in Milton Keynes a few years ago

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By *amie0151Man
over a year ago

Wallasey


"So what's the best job you ever and had and are you still doing it now.

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Blow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify"

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best job ever was when I was on the dole. It was long hours but I loved it. sitting there all day with my cup of tea, tin of posh biscuits watching back to back reruns of Jeremy Kyle on my brand new 50" 3d tv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?"

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work in a nightclub (Rapture in Loughborough). A guy from bacardi/jd/grey groose and other big brands taught us to mix drinks which was cool. At party's I'd always be mixing up crazy drinks like a mad alchemist. The clientele were a pretty chill bunch, loads were students and it was never short of eye candy. Loads of good times/girls pulled in that place. We'd all chill for drinks after closing and chat with the door staff and owners and argue about whether English or Italian domestic football was better. The pay wasn't great, but I loved that job.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?"

I was thinking the same and just because someone has a criminal record does not make them a bad person.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm currently doing the best job I've ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them. "

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

"

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love mine and still doing it...i work with autism and challenging behaviour

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over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?"

It's obvious you are missing my point so shall we simply each hold our own opinions and leave it at that.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

My current one, 80% wirking at home, 20% could anywhere in the world

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

They dont have to misbehave, the ones I teach tend to have very poor literacy skills and opt out of one of the GCEs to take our course.

"

Excluded (or near exclusion) for bad literacy?

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massaging the rich and famous on the Mediterranean coastline....

Not doing it now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my fave job is the one i'm doing now, i do community nursing so i'm out and about all day, not tied to one place, meeting loads of great and interesting people and helping others, i love it

i worked in a sex club for two years until recently that way by far the best job in way of pay

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

My 1st job was a bingo caller. Crap hours, crap money, best job I ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of a woman in knowsley, lovely mouth....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol "

i used to work for social services with kids on remand and under privileged kids, we used to take them on adventure weeks and generally just run clubs to keep them off the streets and out of trouble, i loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?"

As I deal with them every day I know what there backgrounds are and hear about things that happen to them. Most are from broken homes or in care. One 15 yo told me his GFs mother gave him cannabis to have sex with her (the mother)

The fault with most is poor or none existent parenting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excluded (or near exclusion) for bad literacy?

Really?"

Not excluded for that but thats what they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried to get my 13yro son on that mechanics course years ago..but unfortunatly he didnt have a criminal record so he was excluded..however,by his own hard work and perseverance he is now a fully qualified Mercedez mechanic..still without a criminal record.."

Well done to him

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never had a bad job thankfully..., all paid well and some great bonuses in many forms...

Worked in mountains.

Worked on many a diffetent project.

Great thing is im alive with everyday to look forward too...

Wishing everyone the best and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect bad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?"

you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect bad

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sorry had to delete and re post due to typo lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to win this as im a musician, i get to party all round Europe and swan in to all the best festivals , cant beat it! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and ive still left one in, i give up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First job when I left school, working at a sports centre, great to flirt with the women and free use of sauna, sunbeds,weights etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last job in farming was on a farm on the Preseli Mountains in South Wales.

On lovely spring mornings bringing the cows in off the mountains with the early morning sun dancing it's was across the valley and Skylarks heralding its approach and just me and the cows up and about it was bliss and I would think how lucky I was being paid for this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's the best job you ever and had and are you still doing it now.

"

Even though I have has several changes in scenery. The jobs have practically been the same and I would change it like a shot. Its been 13 years at the moment.

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over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?"

All children dont start out in life on the same equal level playing field ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My current job is the best I've ever had. Can't say what it is, indeed even alluding to the type of work I do would make it obvious because it is very unusual.

But the work is fascinating and no 2 days are the same. I look forward to work every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?

you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect back"

not true - it usually stems from adults treating them badly in the first place and often it is too late to rectify their perception of the world and adults in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my current job and will be doing it for many more years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?

you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect back

not true - it usually stems from adults treating them badly in the first place and often it is too late to rectify their perception of the world and adults in it "

so what's not true about saying it stems from home life when your saying it stems from adults treating them badly?

isn't it one of the same?

home life does not necessarily mean their own parents or in their own house, it just means the way they are raised in their personal time and life

i feel you are just contradicting for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I teach excluded or near to exclusion youngsters, car mechanics when its good it fab, when its bad its slit your wrist times lol

I admire your contribution to try and reform some of these yobs.

Many well behaved youngsters would love the opportunity to learn car mechanics. Do they have to misbehave to qualify

Why do you assume these kids are yobs?

Because most of them are. When I was at school about 14 years ago I tried to get on a release from school to go and do a similar thing learning car mechanics. Guess what because I was a relatively we'll behaved kid, that wasn't in trouble every minute of the day I wasn't allowed to do it.

Worst bit about it was 2 years later when I left school I couldn't get a placement so missed out on doing the job that I had wanted to do even though I worked hard and got good grades

They seem to be put on it because they won't turn up to school or the school can't handle them.

I might be wrong but I would think that there are reasons behind the type of behaviour you mention and again, at the risk of being wrong, these initiatives are set up to balance against the background and help kids who need the help to get a better start in life ergo pushing them towards a future where they have skills, self esteem and a work ethic. The alternative is to ignore them and allow them to grow up thinking they have no value, nothing to offer and to fulfil the prophecies of those who only see what is in front of their nose. I understand it can be difficult to grasp and it is a longer term investment but early intervention is vital if you want to have a positive effect on what will be the adults of tomorrow. Yeah some of these kids can be mouthy and brimming with attitude but you have to look at why and not just the result....think about it....would you really swap places with them?

All children should be given equal opportunity a and just because some one can't behave themselves shouldn't mean they get more preferential treatment. What incentive is that for kids to behave in school?

you usually find that children with bad behaviour, and im not talking children with medical reasons before anyone jumps on me, stems from home life, its usually a form of attention seeking and all they really need is attention, every child deserves to be treated with respect and if you find the roof of their behaviour and give them what they crave for you usually get respect back

not true - it usually stems from adults treating them badly in the first place and often it is too late to rectify their perception of the world and adults in it

so what's not true about saying it stems from home life when your saying it stems from adults treating them badly?

isn't it one of the same?

home life does not necessarily mean their own parents or in their own house, it just means the way they are raised in their personal time and life

i feel you are just contradicting for the sake of it "

I'm not it is my field of work ... and I am very passionate about it ... and I have pm'd u

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to do voluntary work at the local prison. They all treated me with so much respect and I reaped the rewards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The job I do now. I love it. Tutoring gives me great rewards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up until my last heart attack, I built kids playgrounds.

The sense of pride and achievement,of turning a muddy rubble strewn dump,into a new playground was brilliant.

Watching the kids run in when it was all finished always gave me a sense of pride.

One or two did get trashed within hours sometimes,but thats life.

Managed to do an awful lot of traveling as well,but saw little of the places I visited.

Some of the roughest p[laces treated us like heros,though a park in London did have me in hospital, with a bottle smashed over my head by a 4 year old little darling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Up until my last heart attack, I built kids playgrounds.

The sense of pride and achievement,of turning a muddy rubble strewn dump,into a new playground was brilliant.

Watching the kids run in when it was all finished always gave me a sense of pride.

One or two did get trashed within hours sometimes,but thats life.

Managed to do an awful lot of traveling as well,but saw little of the places I visited.

Some of the roughest p[laces treated us like heros,though a park in London did have me in hospital, with a bottle smashed over my head by a 4 year old little darling."

Four year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Up until my last heart attack, I built kids playgrounds.

The sense of pride and achievement,of turning a muddy rubble strewn dump,into a new playground was brilliant.

Watching the kids run in when it was all finished always gave me a sense of pride.

One or two did get trashed within hours sometimes,but thats life.

Managed to do an awful lot of traveling as well,but saw little of the places I visited.

Some of the roughest p[laces treated us like heros,though a park in London did have me in hospital, with a bottle smashed over my head by a 4 year old little darling.

Four year old "

"She was only playing" as her sweet little mother screamed at me,while interrupting her text messaging.

Wouldnt mind,but it was supposed to be a posh bit of London as well.

Lots of millionaires and big houses on one side.

Poverty and deprivation on the other.

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By *heekychappy1121Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

My current job as personal trainer. love helping people reach their goals. Very rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was JFK's bodyguard...didn't work out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im lucky I have a few ...

Charge nurse in a secure unit

Working with a youth group

Community education, teaching adults new skills that they missed through formal education

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im lucky I have a few ...

Charge nurse in a secure unit

Working with a youth group

Community education, teaching adults new skills that they missed through formal education"

I guess that means you give a fuck about people.

Kudos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love mine and still doing it...i work with autism and challenging behaviour"

I love my job now... I work with young adults with challenging behaviour and autism too.. wish I could read their mind sometimes just for couple of minutes. Used to be a network engineer before I got redundant.

Everyday I go to work with a smile. The best job so far..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im lucky I have a few ...

Charge nurse in a secure unit

Working with a youth group

Community education, teaching adults new skills that they missed through formal education

I guess that means you give a fuck about people.

Kudos. "

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We love our jobs in the porn industry & the the places & people we have met & worked with over the years, the money is not as good as it was once because of the recession but it keeps a roof over our head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massaging the rich and famous on the Mediterranean coastline....

Not doing it now... "

Similar to this , but only one month of the year ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Massaging the rich and famous on the Mediterranean coastline....

Not doing it now...

Similar to this , but only one month of the year ...."

East of Java? ...........

Bali?......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blow job in the middle of a nightclub and she had the ice cube from her drink in her mouth too with I was still there ......

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By *icechap50Man
over a year ago

Dudley

I've had some some great blowJobs and can't decide

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

I have two jobs one more of a hobby which is as a florist

My other is working with reptiles they are my passion

I used to be a nurse before that

D x

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Not a job at all! I did 6 weeks of jury duty on one case. Boring as hell but the pay was brilliant! Not only did they pay my gross wage (no tax or N.I. taken out but I got travel money paid on the size of my car (my 1.6 Vauxhall Victor sprouted a 2.3 engine!), parking and meal allowance plus there was tax rebates when I got back to work!!!!! Plus there was the "early" starts (10.00am?) and the late finishes, 3.30pm if I remember correctly!

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

And no trouser snake jokes you lot I've heard them all lol

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I managed a sex shop while the owners lived abroad. I did everything except paid the bills/wages and I loved it

Was gutted when they sold it and it got turned into a Post Office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just waiting for Derick & Clive's -'What's the worst job you've ever had?' - thread; the words moderator & closed comes to mind!!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"So what's the best job you ever and had and are you still doing it now.

Even though I have has several changes in scenery. The jobs have practically been the same and I would change it like a shot. Its been 13 years at the moment. "

You started working when you were 13?

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