FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hi all

I have had a few meets of this site, some repeated & some not. Never had a refusal of a 2nd meet, just never got round to some.

But very few verify?

I guy just contacted me for a 3rd meet & I asked if he would mind verifying me & I would do the same for him. He replied he would only after I met him again as that would guarantee him a meet. He asked if that was blackmail & I said yes. So he signed off.

WTF??

Are verifications a currency on here?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Hi all

I have had a few meets of this site, some repeated & some not. Never had a refusal of a 2nd meet, just never got round to some.

But very few verify?

WTF??

Are verifications a currency on here?"
To some I guess they can be.

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

But is more than 1 necessary?

It shows you are genuine So that should be it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I verify some and I don't verify other it depends on the nature of the meet

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"But is more than 1 necessary?

It shows you are genuine So that should be it"
So what happens when your one veri leaves the site, you will retain your green tick but none to show.

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"I verify some and I don't verify other it depends on the nature of the meet "

That I understand.

But blackmail???

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I verify some and I don't verify other it depends on the nature of the meet

That I understand.

But blackmail???"

Don't sweat it just don't meet him simple as....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But is more than 1 necessary?

It shows you are genuine So that should be it"

I don't show or ask for verifications and only give them to a very few people normally if they haven't got any at all.

This works for me and you should do what you want with your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think more than one verification is needed, I can't really speak because I have none. But I am the bane of this site being a 19 year old male, excuse the sob story. But I often see profiles that just don't look real whatsoever but have one verification. Which I don't see as particularly reliant.

personally i think you should verify atleast the majority of the time, and if asked to do it. Its not currency, its a way of being gracious and thankful that the person made the effort to see you, although I'm pretty sure they receive enough thanks on the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verfications dont really bother me. Some guys hv verified me, some havent and vice versa. Some ppl do collect them like they r some kind of trophy tho. I actually stay away from the ones that hv lots of them. And if they've been wiv some particular women on here.

I value my health.

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"But is more than 1 necessary?

It shows you are genuine So that should be itSo what happens when your one veri leaves the site, you will retain your green tick but none to show."

Didn't realise that - thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how many is too many and how many is not enough for some people - case of how long us a piece of string

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verification is nice to receive, and I provide it freely without any expectation to receive one in return, as what other people do or don't is no concern of mine.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"But is more than 1 necessary?

It shows you are genuine So that should be itSo what happens when your one veri leaves the site, you will retain your green tick but none to show.

Didn't realise that - thank you"
My pleasure xx

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By *hameless-2Couple
over a year ago

_hameless-2 ~ HULL

"Hi all

I have had a few meets of this site, some repeated & some not. Never had a refusal of a 2nd meet, just never got round to some.

But very few verify?

WTF??

Are verifications a currency on here?"

Wish they were currency, we'd be well flush. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all

I have had a few meets of this site, some repeated & some not. Never had a refusal of a 2nd meet, just never got round to some.

But very few verify?

WTF??

Are verifications a currency on here?

Wish they were currency, we'd be well flush. Lol"

Let's say £100 each lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I just forget. I don't mind if I receive them, I've had a gentle nudge to say hey, did you forget. If it's been over a week, I think I've left it too long and don't bother. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was having this conversation with a female friend today and she said guys tend to be too lazy to verify. You have the added problem that guys meeting other guys want to have an extra level of discretion. I have had couple of meets who have not verified me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because you have met guys as some guys on here do not like to appear bi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With men verifying men some don't wanna be seen to be meeting men as it puts so many woman and couples of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter about a verification.if you get a good meet isn't that enough on both parties.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I think some people get too hung up on verifications: this is the only site I'm on that has one, yet people manage to meet and fuck successfully without it.

My meets are like minded people, not wanting or displaying verifications. I used to verify newbies I've met from other sites: don't even do that now.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I usually ask my meets if they would like a veri, some say yes, some say no, for those who have generously described paragraph length veris, I might do a very short 'she's nice, she's real' type and whatever I write it's up to them to display it. I asked other people myself earlier on for veris just to get a couple but now it doesn't matter as I tend to see the same people multiple times and it would be silly to do veris then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With men verifying men some don't wanna be seen to be meeting men as it puts so many woman and couples of"

Indeed , and some couples won't publish verifications from bi men for the same reason .

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I actually do think some use veris almost as currency. It comes up often enough 'how do i remove my veri?' ie they left it when things were good but now they want it back. Almost like saying if i don't get my own way in the future I'll take it off you

i disagree with people being able to remove them. Only verify them as real & turned up. Whether they decide they dont want a rship or continued meets is irrelevant.

I verify those i meet, i don't ask for them.

I show a few to show Im real, simply because men don't believe i can be/am real

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I can see the point about Bi/Gay men but that wasn't his worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine cost me more than money

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner?

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Mine cost me more than money

???????

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner? "

He is a tight git....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner?

He is a tight git....

Strange, nobody complains when I'm tight.

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner?

He is a tight git....

Strange, nobody complains when I'm tight.

Not all the time then?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner?

He is a tight git....

Strange, nobody complains when I'm tight.

Not all the time then?

Depends which round we're on

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By *ames black OP Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"Mine cost me more than money

Huh? Cost of condoms? Flowers? Dinner?

He is a tight git....

Strange, nobody complains when I'm tight.

Not all the time then?

Depends which round we're on

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

All I cared about was getting my 1st one.

Now all I want is to meet a lass, as my veris are a bit lob sided at mo lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think it is probably a good thing for males to get verifications as it shows the good from the bad, ok not all the guys are bad that don`t have them but you know what I mean....hopefully

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

hi was going to meet a guy for coffe hi asked him to verty me he said he could only do that if had sex with him or gave him blow job thats black mail in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we thought a veri was to say we are genuine peeps , not as a way to say how good we were or not, or what we do on a meet,

the fact that we turned up and we were as we said we were ect proves we are real and not times wasters or fakes.

we have been on cam and had meets not all have sent veri,s, we have sent some and not received in return, so read into a very what you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is probably a good thing for males to get verifications as it shows the good from the bad, ok not all the guys are bad that don`t have them but you know what I mean....hopefully

It would be nice if it worked that way but its not just good guys who get verifications. In reality once you have 5/6 they are pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've never cared for verifications, I show a few as being a single woman on here if you don't show any you just get accused of being a single guy

I never give or ask for verifications off my own back, I've never felt the need to advertise to the world everyone I have met and will happily meet people again who havnt verified me after the first time, if someone mails me asking for a verification I will if we got on well but I never understand why people mail asking for verifications, I would hope people met me because they liked me not because they just want a verifications and I would never dream of asking someone to verify me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Mine cost me more than money

Veri intriguing. See what I did there?!

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