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Removing friends who don't talk

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had to remove a couple of people off my friends list.

I just don't understand. I send a hello message, they send a friend invite, I accept and they don't even bother talking back. I have sent them messages, they just read them and not reply.

What is the point of adding people to your list if you're not gonna talk to them?

Its completely pointless to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People add you to their friends list so they can _iew your pvt photos, simples

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"People add you to their friends list so they can _iew your pvt photos, simples"

Yep.

The word friend doesn't mean they are suddenly gonna become your bosom buddies op. It should be called 'nosy buggers' invite lol x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just delete and dont give another nano second of thought to it...

the 'friend' word makes me chuckle at times

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Lots of people seem to think that being friends on here means you are bff's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think there should be a new feature asking the reason for adding someone as a friend. If its just to see the photos, the request would be automatically denied.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I think there should be a new feature asking the reason for adding someone as a friend. If its just to see the photos, the request would be automatically denied."

Or just try not adding people as a friend until you've actually been chatting a while. Then you'll soon them out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there should be a new feature asking the reason for adding someone as a friend. If its just to see the photos, the request would be automatically denied.

Or just try not adding people as a friend until you've actually been chatting a while. Then you'll soon them out "

Fair point

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I only add people when they are friends. If they drop off the radar I will delete them. If they notice then there is a discussion.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I only add people when they are friends. If they drop off the radar I will delete them. If they notice then there is a discussion."

I do this too.

Very occasionally I'll add someone who I might meet but they get removed if it doesn't go anywhere.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I only add people when they are friends. If they drop off the radar I will delete them. If they notice then there is a discussion."

I do the same now if they don't like it tough!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just removed a couple more people off my friends list as they haven't spoken or replied to my messages in a long why. What bugs me is they say they would love to meet me but after a couples of months, they don't bother.

I bloody hate timewasters.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i add for them to see friends only pics then delete if im not going to meet ie too far

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"Just removed a couple more people off my friends list as they haven't spoken or replied to my messages in a long why. What bugs me is they say they would love to meet me but after a couples of months, they don't bother.

I bloody hate timewasters."

They aren't timewasters, they just lost interest. The two aren't the same thing.

They don't owe you a meet just because, at one point, they may have expressed interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just removed a couple more people off my friends list as they haven't spoken or replied to my messages in a long why. What bugs me is they say they would love to meet me but after a couples of months, they don't bother.

I bloody hate timewasters."

Just make all your pics public then you won't get the adds just to _iew them! Also if there not speaking to you I suppose you should be a bit pickier who your friends with?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been removed for not keeping in contact. Some people are happy to have me as their friend for whatever reasons they have. I have people in my friendship list because I can see their private pics and, having chatted to them or met them, I like them. Some I chat to a lot, some on occasion and some hardly ever. One couple I have I have told them I won't meet but love their group sex photos and they are happy to have me see them all. So many different people, so many reasons to do things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only add people when they are friends. If they drop off the radar I will delete them. If they notice then there is a discussion.

I do this too.

Very occasionally I'll add someone who I might meet but they get removed if it doesn't go anywhere."

same here.

do send messages every now and then, and if they arent replied then they also get deleted.

same if they havent been on for a couple of weeks.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

A bit more thought over who people add as a friend would sort this 'problem' out in quick time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there should be a new feature asking the reason for adding someone as a friend. If its just to see the photos, the request would be automatically denied."

Oh QUICK! Send ME a friends invite cos having _iewed your public pix I'm now curious to see the private gallery

ps - yes I KNOW you're not looking for single guys but what's that got to do with anything lol. HURRY HURRY

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just removed a couple more people off my friends list as they haven't spoken or replied to my messages in a long why. What bugs me is they say they would love to meet me but after a couples of months, they don't bother.

I bloody hate timewasters.

They aren't timewasters, they just lost interest. The two aren't the same thing.

They don't owe you a meet just because, at one point, they may have expressed interest."

If they've lost interest, they're off my list and if they don't like it, that's just tough isn't it.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


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If they've lost interest, they're off my list and if they don't like it, that's just tough isn't it."

So they aren't timewasters, no matter how upset you might be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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If they've lost interest, they're off my list and if they don't like it, that's just tough isn't it.

So they aren't timewasters, no matter how upset you might be."

I'm not upset at all. I just thought that since they haven't spoken or replied in months, I might as well delete them. Doesn't matter if they're timewasters or not.

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