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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?"

Filters, filters, filters, they are there free of charge for your use.

Use them problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you are looking for men. If its an issue use your filters to block it will save you the hassle and takes next to no time.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Block single guys, chat to your friends.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Because they're the one that can make you come out of meet retirement. It's an ego thing I'm sure

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

There is a mindset with some that you have to be actively shagging. Don't worry about it, just do your own thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you fancy meeting ..... To discuss

Seriously, use your filters, issue gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says you are looking for men. If its an issue use your filters to block it will save you the hassle and takes next to no time."

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

Unfortunately miss muffet its probably the same guys that can be pushy and rude to many of the ladies on here.

I'm not sure how the filters work but that sounds like a good bet.

Otherwise dont let them spoil your enjoyment of the site and your existing friendships on here.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

your profile says it all.

so just delete.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?"
I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately miss muffet its probably the same guys that can be pushy and rude to many of the ladies on here.

I'm not sure how the filters work but that sounds like a good bet.

Otherwise dont let them spoil your enjoyment of the site and your existing friendships on here."

I don't mind people messaging me , I will chat to most if they are reasonable and to be honest quite a few men have said they feel the same about dating , it's the ones who think because I am still on here it automatically means I want to have sex with them and yes they do get pushy .. my block list is getting longer lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also not meeting now or any time soon has been over a year and not long come back reason being missed my friends and the banter so have left my profile blank and still get messages just ignore or filter x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"your profile says it all.

so just delete."

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give gents who sent me unsolicited messages the chance to bother me as the block button is very useful.

Besides, I am not searchable and hardly get any messages, which suits me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't give gents who sent me unsolicited messages the chance to bother me as the block button is very useful.

Besides, I am not searchable and hardly get any messages, which suits me just fine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem."

Probably because you are scary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"Unfortunately miss muffet its probably the same guys that can be pushy and rude to many of the ladies on here.

I'm not sure how the filters work but that sounds like a good bet.

Otherwise dont let them spoil your enjoyment of the site and your existing friendships on here.

I don't mind people messaging me , I will chat to most if they are reasonable and to be honest quite a few men have said they feel the same about dating , it's the ones who think because I am still on here it automatically means I want to have sex with them and yes they do get pushy .. my block list is getting longer lol"

These are probably the same guys who message ladies looking for female encounters because they "know" thats not whst they really want lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary "
They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway!

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?"

Not a clue. I like to chat with people and become friends but was told by 1 girl that "this site is for fucking not friendship" so its not just guys.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway! "

She's a teddy bear!

Pudsey to be precise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is a community and not just about sex i love the social side too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway!

She's a teddy bear!

Pudsey to be precise... "

On the politest possible terms 'feck off' you lot are all scary

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway!

She's a teddy bear!

Pudsey to be precise...

On the politest possible terms 'feck off' you lot are all scary "
Shurrup n give us a cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the fact I no longer wish to meet off here as I want to date but want to stay on to chat to people I have become friendly with and also read stories and join in the forums ?I am in the same boat....but haven't really had a major problem.

Probably because you are scary They don't know that.....I am not that scary anyway!

She's a teddy bear!

Pudsey to be precise...

On the politest possible terms 'feck off' you lot are all scary Shurrup n give us a cuddle. "

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By *rivate auditionsMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


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Filters, filters, filters, they are there free of charge for your use.

Use them problem solved "

filters are there for a purposer,also free to use,so use them!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block single guys, chat to your friends.

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why not round them all up, put them on trains and then gas them?

Final solution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block single guys, chat to your friends.

why not round them all up, put them on trains and then gas them?

Final solution "

A detect a slight racist undertone with remark , not funny or acceptable to use such a tragic event of human history as a humorous reference !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not meeting either - well not for the next 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A detect a slight racist undertone with remark , not funny or acceptable to use such a tragic event of human history as a humorous reference !"

On the off chance that that wasn't just a joke or you two aren't friends and that isn't just a bit of banter, you being way too sensitive tbh.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Block single guys, chat to your friends.

why not round them all up, put them on trains and then gas them?

Final solution

A detect a slight racist undertone with remark , not funny or acceptable to use such a tragic event of human history as a humorous reference !"

Sarcasm is always acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will have to get my sensor recalibrated!

It's late, and you can never tell round here (so many crazies).

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Block single guys, chat to your friends.

why not round them all up, put them on trains and then gas them?

Final solution "

really ?

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