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"It's Friday night, I'm free and bloody football is on!!!!! Lol" It'll be finished soon. | |||
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"It's Friday night, I'm free and bloody football is on!!!!! Lol" you missed a good goal | |||
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests? If you are not happy with receiving messages winks etc then use your filters to cut them down or hide your profile. I really don't see why someone who has put a profile up would not want messages. The ones you don't like the look of just delete I do 30 messages sorted and gone in 10 mins. " I have my filters on and that's why I'm happy of late to not have to bother with other people. | |||
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"Yep..me too. I looked at my winks the other week and had 101!! Shows how often I pay attention to them lol" That was me with messages within 3 days of joining and discovering filters. | |||
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"Well I love receiving winks, messages etc. ..... Otherwise I'd hide my profile and filter so that people can't contact me." This, and cracking arse btw! x | |||
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"Well I love receiving winks, messages etc. ..... Otherwise I'd hide my profile and filter so that people can't contact me." That sort of pro active attitude has absolutely no place on here, so be off with you non conformer | |||
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"I'm alone then " I've not had any messages in the past 30 mins you are not alone | |||
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"I'm alone then " I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. | |||
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"I'm alone then I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. " Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away! | |||
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"I'm alone then " No.... My heart sinks if I log on and see that little blue bit in the corner.... Sometimes scare myself when I have hidden my profile | |||
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"Well I love receiving winks, messages etc. ..... Otherwise I'd hide my profile and filter so that people can't contact me. That sort of pro active attitude has absolutely no place on here, so be off with you non conformer " Pmsl | |||
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"I'm alone then I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away! " Confused. Com | |||
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"I'm alone then I don't really understand why you'd bother logging on if you didn't want anyone to contact you.... I'm struggling with this. Surely just don't log on?! Problem solved. Fab is my new Facebook. I can't stay away! Confused. Com" Why confused? I log on here more than I do Facebook. I wasn't whining just saying I was relieved. | |||
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" Confused. Com" Believe it or not.... It is actually nice now and then to log on and not have to deal with messages.. | |||
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" Confused. Com Believe it or not.... It is actually nice now and then to log on and not have to deal with messages.. " But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. | |||
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"Well I love receiving winks, messages etc. ..... Otherwise I'd hide my profile and filter so that people can't contact me. That sort of pro active attitude has absolutely no place on here, so be off with you non conformer Pmsl " Surely that is pro INactive lol | |||
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"Love your tattoo, hate your attitude, I get excited if one person looks at my profile in a single 24hr period and to hear someone complain that people actually WANT to contact them almost breaks my heart. If you don't like it set your filters to prevent people messaging you, otherwise stop moaning. Thinly veiled "look at me thread". Get a grip. " Really! I actually haven't got an attitude. I don't need a 'look at me thread' hence the thread. | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. " Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests... | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..." Only apparently banter in the forums is now a thinly veiled look at me thread | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..." I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests... I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? " I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums. | |||
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" I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? " OP never said she didnt want people messaging her, she only said it was a relief to come on and not have any... Bit of a calm before the storm kinda thing | |||
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" I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? " I have now | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. - Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests... I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums." Who would have thought the forums could be educational?! | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. - Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests... I get this.... So why not hide your profile and filter? I didn't realise you could hide it and still participate in the forums. Who would have thought the forums could be educational?! " I really am looking forward to your future ventures into the plethora of 'The Sisterhood is Annoyed' threads, brilliant contribution tonight which throws huge doubt on some of the oft trotted out myths | |||
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"Also.... The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks... Can imagine the mail she has been getting.... " 100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting . . . . . . If you believe that old tosh that is | |||
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"Also.... The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks... Can imagine the mail she has been getting.... 100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting If you believe that old tosh that is " Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it! | |||
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"Also.... The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks... Can imagine the mail she has been getting.... 100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting If you believe that old tosh that is Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it! " Erm - read the gent's profile please | |||
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" Erm - read the gent's profile please" Il rephrase (without reading it) He is not a single female | |||
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again " I have ice in mine and its brown. | |||
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again I have ice in mine and its brown. " Mine is kinda weak piss coloured | |||
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"Also.... The OP has been here a whole 2 weeks... Can imagine the mail she has been getting.... 100's a day x 14 = in excess of 1400 and counting If you believe that old tosh that is Obviously with you being a single male you couldnt possibly imagine it! Erm - read the gent's profile please" Thank you for taking the time to research | |||
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again " I haven't said 1 unpleasant word tonight. In fact, not even the whole day. Been sipping elderflower cordial. | |||
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" Erm - read the gent's profile please Il rephrase (without reading it) He is not a single female " Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now | |||
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again I have ice in mine and its brown. Mine is kinda weak piss coloured " | |||
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"Everyone's so pleasant tonight. Is that funny water going around again I have ice in mine and its brown. Mine is kinda weak piss coloured " I don't want to even consider what you two are drinking | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now " Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point | |||
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"Thank you for taking the time to research " Already knew. I read the regular posters' profiles, so I know who's what. | |||
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" I don't want to even consider what you two are drinking " Some kind of comfy citric stuff from the south | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point " The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa | |||
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"Thank you for taking the time to research Already knew. I read the regular posters' profiles, so I know who's what." Only way to work on here | |||
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" I don't want to even consider what you two are drinking Some kind of comfy citric stuff from the south " Sweet Tea. | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point " Are you a single female | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point Are you a single female " Nope But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging | |||
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"I have the same problem too. " I bet you do you gorgeous creature | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point Are you a single female Nope But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging " So am 'I' | |||
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" But if I don't want to "deal with messages" I don't log on....... Oh well. I'm never going to understand this. I'm out. Some like to log in and check out meets/events/clubs etc.... Bit of banter in the forums/chat.. Its not all about PMs/winks/friends requests..." some log in to see which single man she might pick from many to fuck this week/day/month | |||
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" Nope But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging So am 'I' " They see "new" and "female" and their poor keyboard takes a battering | |||
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" some log in to see which single man she might pick from many to fuck this week/day/month " And its great when you are the one doing the "window shopping" before checking to see if you are willing to spend | |||
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"Just create a single male profile... You will get nothing! Actually I tell I lie you will get men offering to suck you " Setting one up NOW!!! | |||
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" Nope But im sure you are aware of the many on here that cant/dont read profile before messaging So am 'I' They see "new" and "female" and their poor keyboard takes a battering " Tonite, like many nites on here seems to put realistic context on 'keyboard battering' | |||
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests? " it won't be so relieving,when it becomes the norm. | |||
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests? " You get all three!!! You lucky sod lol x | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa " 19 messages today so far | |||
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" Tonite, like many nites on here seems to put realistic context on 'keyboard battering' " I caress my keyboard with nimble fingers | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa " I get a lot when I show my boobs in my photos, have certain interests ticked and/or mentioned on my profile and appear in searches. If my avatar shows my boobs I get more. Usually 50+ per day though some days are quieter. A lot of them just say some variation of 'nice tits' though. Those are quick and easy to deal with! I get more when I am logged in here a lot or when I leave myself logged in on my phone because guys trawl the who is online now looking for instant gratification (a spontaneous instant meet, phone sex, camming, dirty chat, cybersex or whatever). I believe some women and couples - especially those who appear in the hot photos section - get 100+ messages a day. | |||
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests? it won't be so relieving,when it becomes the norm." | |||
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" Fair point but 'he' has been around the block so to speak for quite a few years now Thats is so far removed from a new single female, you dont make a point The point 'I' make is after many many years on here seeing some of the regular 'contradictions' 'I' take a lot of the '100's a day' BS with a large tub of Saxa I get a lot when I show my boobs in my photos, have certain interests ticked and/or mentioned on my profile and appear in searches. If my avatar shows my boobs I get more. Usually 50+ per day though some days are quieter. A lot of them just say some variation of 'nice tits' though. Those are quick and easy to deal with! I get more when I am logged in here a lot or when I leave myself logged in on my phone because guys trawl the who is online now looking for instant gratification (a spontaneous instant meet, phone sex, camming, dirty chat, cybersex or whatever). I believe some women and couples - especially those who appear in the hot photos section - get 100+ messages a day." I find that if I sign out on my phone I get less but as soon as I sign back in they come in quite fast. New users get pages, as I found out. Different pics attract different men of course. If I show a bare boob pic I'll expect lots of nice tits comments lol | |||
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"Who logs on and is relieved to see no new messages, no new winks and no new friend requests? " Yes | |||
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"that's why my profile is hidden and like the village of Brigadoon I only appear for a short time then disappear again" lol I loved that film 53 messages, every one answered | |||
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