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By *wanteverything OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai

So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

I'm sure lots of other people do get meets but it seems that around my area all that is wanted is the above.

Even when I do find a few that want someone fitting my description it still doesn't seem to work.

I'm not pushy, I'm polite and I'm not ugly. I'm obviously doing something wrong though.

So this forum post, as well as a rant, is to ask if anyone knows of a good site for a 27 yr old, white, 6ft, blue eyed, blonde haired, highly sexed male with a bright imagination could go and have some fun??

Cheers guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here

you forgot to add me in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well get a spraytan, go to the gym or source some women's clothes in our size then.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

You have at least one verification so i'm guessing you are doing something right. Why not extrapolate from there?

If i may offer advice, get a few more pics up that aren't your cock. Doesn't have to be face pics either (you can have those in private gallery), but one body pic and two cock ones usually won't do much for the shop window that is your profile. (there are some exceptions obviously)

I'm sure others will offer more detailed advice for you. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For starters your pics are nearly 5 years old...that alone puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live near Harrogate and get more than enough meets, perhaps its this sentence in your profile that kills it

''im dominant and looking for that submissive girl that i can use and abuse''.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

I'm sure lots of other people do get meets but it seems that around my area all that is wanted is the above.

Even when I do find a few that want someone fitting my description it still doesn't seem to work.

I'm not pushy, I'm polite and I'm not ugly. I'm obviously doing something wrong though.

So this forum post, as well as a rant, is to ask if anyone knows of a good site for a 27 yr old, white, 6ft, blue eyed, blonde haired, highly sexed male with a bright imagination could go and have some fun??

Cheers guys

"

Hmm, the phrase 'use and abuse' might not appeal to many!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

Cheers guys

"

I ain't any of them and did just fine when I was looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

Cheers guys

I ain't any of them and did just fine when I was looking to meet.

"

Neither am I lol

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

I'm sure lots of other people do get meets but it seems that around my area all that is wanted is the above.

Even when I do find a few that want someone fitting my description it still doesn't seem to work.

I'm not pushy, I'm polite and I'm not ugly. I'm obviously doing something wrong though.

So this forum post, as well as a rant, is to ask if anyone knows of a good site for a 27 yr old, white, 6ft, blue eyed, blonde haired, highly sexed male with a bright imagination could go and have some fun??

Cheers guys

"

I am neither a couple, woman, tv, black, have a six pack or crappy tattoos (my tattoos are awesome! ) and I am in your general area and I do alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

Cheers guys

I ain't any of them and did just fine when I was looking to meet.

"

.

You have never come across as a moaner and whinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

"

Erm - really?

I'm none of the above - and most of the guys I know on here that enjoy life and have regular meets aren't either!

*ok - some may have the odd dubious tattoo! lol

OP - you've been around a while (see previous post pointing out the age of your pics!) so surely you must have read forum posts seeking advice on similar subjects?

Have you ever tried acting on it?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe they are put off by the discrepancies on your profile?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

Cheers guys

I ain't any of them and did just fine when I was looking to meet.

.

You have never come across as a moaner and whinger. "

I have had my moments

but thanks

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By *wanteverything OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai

Hey guys this is all great, thank you so much for all of your help

I was kind of expecting a lot of stick from this but you've all been really helpful.

I will take on your advice and anymore that I get and put it all into action then try again.

Thanks again everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try outwith your area.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Hey guys this is all great, thank you so much for all of your help

I was kind of expecting a lot of stick from this but you've all been really helpful.

I will take on your advice and anymore that I get and put it all into action then try again.

Thanks again everyone"

good luck

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By *wanteverything OP   Man
over a year ago

Dubai


"You have at least one verification so i'm guessing you are doing something right. Why not extrapolate from there?

If i may offer advice, get a few more pics up that aren't your cock. Doesn't have to be face pics either (you can have those in private gallery), but one body pic and two cock ones usually won't do much for the shop window that is your profile. (there are some exceptions obviously)

I'm sure others will offer more detailed advice for you. Good luck."

Cheers.

I'll get on it this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it seems unless you're a couple, a woman, a tv, a black male or a male with a six pack/crappy tribal tattoos you don't get a meet on here.

I'm sure lots of other people do get meets but it seems that around my area all that is wanted is the above.

Even when I do find a few that want someone fitting my description it still doesn't seem to work.

I'm not pushy, I'm polite and I'm not ugly. I'm obviously doing something wrong though.

So this forum post, as well as a rant, is to ask if anyone knows of a good site for a 27 yr old, white, 6ft, blue eyed, blonde haired, highly sexed male with a bright imagination could go and have some fun??

Cheers guys

"

Crappy tribal tattoos do it for me big time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here a few months and have never had a meet. Difference is I dont care. I feel more sexually liberated everyday by the conversations I have and the advice I can get.

Yes it can suck sometimes but I see this as something to enhance the sex life I have and if/when a nice lady decides to take a liking to what I have to offer well then she'll just have to deal with the pent up ness then lol

Really its no different to dating in general. I get knocked back many more times than I get lucky, just because people are more open about their sexuality on here why should this be different?

Change your approach.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You have at least one verification so i'm guessing you are doing something right. Why not extrapolate from there?

If i may offer advice, get a few more pics up that aren't your cock. Doesn't have to be face pics either (you can have those in private gallery), but one body pic and two cock ones usually won't do much for the shop window that is your profile. (there are some exceptions obviously)

I'm sure others will offer more detailed advice for you. Good luck."

Why?!! If people can't be arsed to put the effort into portraying themselves favourably, but choose to put the onus on others for not picking them, to offer them advice?!!

As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!! "

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious! "

She tickles me!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

She tickles me! "

Am I the only one with a mental image of Miss_tress squirming on the floor begging for mercy as Gina Yashere tickles her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

She tickles me!

Am I the only one with a mental image of Miss_tress squirming on the floor begging for mercy as Gina Yashere tickles her? "

In a paddling pool full of jelly??

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

She tickles me!

Am I the only one with a mental image of Miss_tress squirming on the floor begging for mercy as Gina Yashere tickles her?

In a paddling pool full of jelly?? "

Pervert!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

She tickles me!

Am I the only one with a mental image of Miss_tress squirming on the floor begging for mercy as Gina Yashere tickles her? "

I'd pay good money to see this happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my girl Gina Yashere would say:I...don't...fink...so!!!

Totally off topic, but i love Gina, she's hilarious!

She tickles me!

Am I the only one with a mental image of Miss_tress squirming on the floor begging for mercy as Gina Yashere tickles her?

In a paddling pool full of jelly??

Pervert! "

Moi ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live near Harrogate and get more than enough meets, perhaps its this sentence in your profile that kills it

''im dominant and looking for that submissive girl that i can use and abuse''. "

only needed to read that and came straight back out

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