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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many on here concerned about sexual preferences. Rules and regulations about wont meet if bi, cdress or wotever. Its only sex, not life or death. Any opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure its just sex but how exciting is sex with someone who you are not attracted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many on here concerned about sexual preferences. Rules and regulations about wont meet if bi, cdress or wotever. Its only sex, not life or death. Any opinions?"

You do have to at least let people know what your sexual preferences are,i have a tv and bi guy in my friends list even though im straight but most guys just assume that i "must be looking for cock" and message me all the time lol can i not be friends with a tv/bi guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it's just like you saying you have coffee with no sugar and I give you tea with 3 sugars. Your not going to complain as a drinks a drink no matter your preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many on here concerned about sexual preferences. Rules and regulations about wont meet if bi, cdress or wotever. Its only sex, not life or death. Any opinions?"

Because its a biological need and about the most pleasurable thing you can do to yourself and others.

We are all here for the same reason. Casual sex but that doesnt mean we will just have sex with anyone. Everyone has their own set of guidelines to look for in a prospective partner because there is a lot at risk with promiscuity now, STI's aside, there is personal safety to consider.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"So it's just like you saying you have coffee with no sugar and I give you tea with 3 sugars. Your not going to complain as a drinks a drink no matter your preference "

to the OP, its not just sex for me, I like to click with someone, have a flirt, be attracted to them. You'll argue that its not a dating site. Well I never date anyone, don't do meals and cinema etc, I meet people in clubs, but I wont just fuck anyone. Tried it once and it was the worst meet ever. I learned by my mistake and never again.

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By *erendipity99Woman
over a year ago

Runcorn


"sure its just sex but how exciting is sex with someone who you are not attracted to? "

This.

We all have preferences op. Swinging does not mean you will do anything and fuck anyone.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So it's just like you saying you have coffee with no sugar and I give you tea with 3 sugars. Your not going to complain as a drinks a drink no matter your preference "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure its just sex but how exciting is sex with someone who you are not attracted to?

This.

We all have preferences op. Swinging does not mean you will do anything and fuck anyone."

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with someone you dont find attractive or when something turns you off wouldnt be appealing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's just like you saying you have coffee with no sugar and I give you tea with 3 sugars. Your not going to complain as a drinks a drink no matter your preference "

This ^^

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no concerns about preferences. I just know what I like and what turns me on, or, for that matter, off. I have no intention of changing that to suit anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's just like you saying you have coffee with no sugar and I give you tea with 3 sugars. Your not going to complain as a drinks a drink no matter your preference "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't understand people who say they don't like a particular ethnicity or body shape - I'd rather base it on the person rather then a rule of fun and maybe miss someone who you would actually find attractive.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I personally don't understand people who say they don't like a particular ethnicity or body shape - I'd rather base it on the person rather then a rule of fun and maybe miss someone who you would actually find attractive."

I'm a very visual person so make many of my decisions based on pics - but this is the internet, we get profile text (if you're lucky) and pics to help us choose. So when people say their pics don't show them as they really are I think that they can't be bothered and so move on.

I have met and played with people in clubs who I have turned down online. So personality canmake a difference. But if you're using the internet for meets then use all the tools to your best advantage and don't hope you'll get a chance to show off your great personality if you have either no pics or terrible ones or have not bothered to fill out your profile.

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