FabSwingers.com forum: The One Who Got Away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have one of these? The person who you were convinced you were going to be with forever and always.

Mine now lives in Australia with his wife, happily married. He was the one who got away!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Nah...l think people who you are meant to be with you will be with...no such thing as the one that got away...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah...l think people who you are meant to be with you will be with...no such thing as the one that got away...

I agree with you on this one.

If it's meant to be it will be!

I also believe that certain things in our life's happen for a reason

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I have one. Still see him around now and then we will have a coffee. He'd be round like a shot if I asked him but I know its a bad idea!! But I still call him the one that got away x

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

Yes, i'm still lost without my special one but life moves on....i am still friends with him even though its hard as i thought i had found perfection, alas not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

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I need a good home!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is definitely my soul mate out there that i can't be with. I will find him again next time around. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does someone from here count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!"

Aww

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"There is definitely my soul mate out there that i can't be with. I will find him again next time around. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And sometimes you have to let them go no matter how much you love them !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is definitely my soul mate out there that i can't be with. I will find him again next time around. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!

Aww

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and I am house trained, well almost xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's meant to be then it's meant to be and there is no point in wondering what IF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it's meant to be then it's meant to be and there is no point in wondering what IF"

Doesn't stop the pain tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!

Aww

and I am house trained, well almost xx

Almost

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

Yep I thought I had found perfection too! It seems not! 7 months on I am still not over him, but hey life goes on and someone better will come into my life. I just wish he would hurry up and find me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!

Aww

and I am house trained, well almost xx

Almost

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Yes I do have a tendency to stand at the back door wining to get out!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Yep I thought I had found perfection too! It seems not! 7 months on I am still not over him, but hey life goes on and someone better will come into my life. I just wish he would hurry up and find me x"

He won't until you find yourself....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, if someone is your soulmate only death will separate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads that have got away. Kate's the only girl I've been out with that hasn't dumped me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it was an odd situation, i spent 4 years of my life convinced no one could ever love him more then i could.. then i fell out of lurve with him.. thats when he decides that perhaps i was right. 3 years on he still wants me but im totally over him.

our timings were just out of sync

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I've had loads that have got away. Kate's the only girl I've been out with that hasn't dumped me

Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!

Aww

and I am house trained, well almost xx

Almost

Yes I do have a tendency to stand at the back door wining to get out!"

Sounds like the cats I have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have one of these? The person who you were convinced you were going to be with forever and always.

Mine now lives in Australia with his wife, happily married. He was the one who got away! "
yes anna friel until she took out a restraining order and had me arrested ...but she is in denial and is crazy about me

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

my soon to be ex hubby was my soul mate - unfortunately I got bored..

now ive met someone who makes me happy and he was with his ex for 20 years and never thought he would be happy with someone else either...

but alas life goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep one about 7 years ago.

Life was good but I was bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had loads that have got away. Kate's the only girl I've been out with that hasn't dumped me

Yet

32yrs should be long enough to make her mind up

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I've had loads that have got away. Kate's the only girl I've been out with that hasn't dumped me

Yet

32yrs should be long enough to make her mind up

Lol ok, let you off

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I THOUGHT I had BUT boy was I wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than once if thats possible xxx

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm the one who got away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the one who got away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, if someone is your soulmate only death will separate you

Yep agree with that, it's the reason I'm on here

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Nah...l think people who you are meant to be with you will be with...no such thing as the one that got away...

However, the one who 'managed' to get away could be a different question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup... I got three...

If any one of them wanted back in... I'd jump at the chance....

It won't happen, so I dont look back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I lost mine a couple of weeks ago absolutely gutted

I need a good home!!!

Aww

and I am house trained, well almost xx

Almost

Yes I do have a tendency to stand at the back door wining to get out!

Sounds like the cats I have x"
I think your pussy would need some attention to help the wining?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yeah. I've mentioned the readhead before. The one with hair long enough to sit on. That's her.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

yes.... I met a lass when i was at uni and we got along like a house on fire... what I didn't know at the time was that she had just gotten a visa to emmigrate to australia...

I was heartbroken.... got a great 8 weeks with her... saw her off onto the plane...

that type of long distance was never going to work......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never see it as getting away more not having total compatibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That said they cannot get away if you keep them under the floorboards!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes twice with the same person... Obviously it was never meant to be

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

not discovered him or her yet

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may all laugh because of my age, but this has just happened to me on Sunday, day after my 20th.. 2 years together, I'm still madly in love with her but she doesn't feel the same, wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, if someone is your soulmate only death will separate you

This

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

As others have said, if it was meant to be, we would still be together. There is one (possibly two) I do think about from time to time, and would be there if ever they called.... but I still accept that in terms of relationships, they werent meant to be.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

The one that got away ....nay I find hand cuffs keep them right where I want them ...

being serious no I don't believe in the one that got away . whats for you wont go by you as they say . if two people are truly meant to be together both parties will move heaven and earth to ENSURE it happens . if a person walks out of your life its just wasn't to be .

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Nope. Then again i've never really believed in the "one that got away" line of thinking.

I also think a lot of people end up with/ stay with partners who they consider a soulmate, but are clearly wrong/ destructive forces in their lives. A soulmate should compliment and complete you.

Signed,

An ever growing relationship cynic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you have one of these? The person who you were convinced you were going to be with forever and always.

Mine now lives in Australia with his wife, happily married. He was the one who got away! "

Yes,

hence why i dont and wont do the "love" thing anymore....

to to painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may all laugh because of my age, but this has just happened to me on Sunday, day after my 20th.. 2 years together, I'm still madly in love with her but she doesn't feel the same, wouldn't wish this feeling on anyone

Age has nothing to do with it, and heartbreak should never be laughed at - it can destroy you from the inside out.

When I was 20 I had to deal with the sudden death of my fiancee and the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, if someone is your soulmate only death will separate you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has nothing to do with it, and heartbreak should never be laughed at - it can destroy you from the inside out.

When I was 20 I had to deal with the sudden death of my fiancee and the woman I wanted to spend the rest of my life with."

I thought my state was bad but I can't even imagine to think how that must feel

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