FabSwingers.com forum: What attracts you to a profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?"

All of the above!

Then the length of time they've been on site and whether there's a green tick and visible veri's !

I'm happy to chat to anyone via the forums and PMs - but if looking to meet - no tick = no interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their feet, of coarse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic, age, height... Then that's me done cause everyone near me is a midget

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Profile pic, age, height... Then that's me done cause everyone near me is a midget

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

For me its:

Pic

sex

Location

Profile

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Profile content, pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well written profile ... pictures ... humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile name followed by profile pic, then age/location etc, actual text, verifications then photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read profile first after refusing to look at pics. next look at pics. then if i like the look of them send a message then pray fpr a reply

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Content, pics, location x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile name followed by profile pic, then age/location etc, actual text, verifications then photos"

The name is so important to me, some are an instant move on

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?

All of the above!

Then the length of time they've been on site and whether there's a green tick and visible veri's !

I'm happy to chat to anyone via the forums and PMs - but if looking to meet - no tick = no interest! "

Ditto. Though looks are important too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?"

people that look genuine and natural

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Ditto. Though looks are important too."

thats me screwed then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?"

all of those and sometimes i am attracted to a profile however i am not what they seek (straight single male) so therefore it remains a non starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't browse

And I don't look at profiles on the basis I never read fiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women and couples actually browse/search male profiles or do they just scan through their mail as they get so many messages?? My profile is never looked at, well other than by other males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The words 'convincing TV'

Nice legs

A flattering clunge pic

A 'meet today'

A nice pic of a sexy TS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I browsed was ages ago.

I rarely mail.

But when I get mail I'm looking at their age straightaway.

Then the pics.

Then the text. I'll read a few veris. Thats it.

If they've been on the site for over a year and no veris ...I don't even bother.

But ultimately if I'm gonna meet them It depends on how good the convo is.

Some you just click with straight away.

Someone messaged me once and we met within a week.

It's all in the convo mostly for me.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's usually something a Fabster writes in the forum.

Sometimes a post will make me think 'can they really be as (insert your choice of insult here) as that?'

Checking their profile will usually confirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's usually something a Fabster writes in the forum.

Sometimes a post will make me think 'can they really be as (insert your choice of insult here) as that?'

Checking their profile will usually confirm."

REALLY?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"It's usually something a Fabster writes in the forum.

Sometimes a post will make me think 'can they really be as (insert your choice of insult here) as that?'

Checking their profile will usually confirm.

REALLY?

Oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a forum dweller so if I find someone interesting and entertaining in here, I will check out their profile.

Where they're from 1st, does the text grab my attention and hold it, I'll look at the interests and see if they align with mine, then it's time for a perv if there's pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris

Profile pic

Age

Need pics on profile of both if a couple

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

For me, I look at...

Location, pics, veris, how long they've been a member,

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Hamburger shots.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Pics, stats (age, height, location, accomm etc) message then profile. It's usually pics that attract me, but occasionally someone can engage me from the first message, I like that best.

And I never go browsing profiles, I just look at those who already express interest in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to look at the whole package. Pics, text, veris etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, their preferences, location, veris, pics.... No veris no go x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"We look at profile pic first, age, sexuality, then read profile. Looks and age not major but personality and manners are.

What attracts you?

All of the above!

Then the length of time they've been on site and whether there's a green tick and visible veri's !

I'm happy to chat to anyone via the forums and PMs - but if looking to meet - no tick = no interest! "

Yea yea Obi whatever

You telling us that if Willabooby signed up tomorrow, you'd say fook off until you get verified?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile name followed by profile pic, then age/location etc, actual text, verifications then photos

The name is so important to me, some are an instant move on "

I so agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

picture then whats writen on their profile, are they my type of person.

well mannered, clean, not too stupid or big headed.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"..........

You telling us that if Willabooby signed up tomorrow, you'd say fook off until you get verified?

Perhaps if someone claiming to be Willabooby signed up, it might be worth waiting till she's verified by someone you know and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never browse/search but I do check out profiles of forumites too. Usually text, pics then Veri's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just found out how important the pic verification is with regards to a couple.

Funny that a "couple" offered to meet me but the woman wanted her bf to visit me and be sent the pics. And the only verification was suspect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For men I look at pic first (if face pic available), then age and if smokes.

Within the profile I seek intelligence and humour (one/two lined profiles do nothing for me).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't browse,if messaged always peek at age,whether accom,area from,pics and read verifications

Not keen on hidden veri,no pics,can't accomodate,and people being over hour journey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't browse,if messaged always peek at age,whether accom,area from,pics and read verifications

Not keen on hidden veri,no pics,can't accomodate,and people being over hour journey x "

Ahem you don't accommodate and you have approx 60 hidden veri's......just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, sexuality and thirdly verifications, if more than one or two, not interested so move on.

Prefer no verifications, because I offer and expect discretion, not someone bragging about conquests.

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