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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury

I am normally pretty positive but when my depression takes hold I become the most negative person ever I try to stop it as soon as possible as I havent much time for negative people. Like you cheeky I used to work with people who were so negative I wanted to shake them and tell them to get a grip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pretty positive person but I have off days. Just like most people to be honest x

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life "
Who wss racist towards you?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?"

No one it was something I was dealing with...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?

No one it was something I was dealing with..."

Have you cured it? For all time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find positivity can be contagious. Of someone is a normal amount of +ve i can be +ve. But in the same breath, i can be negative if someone else is.

Carry on being +ve, society needs you!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I love my job daily miserable people whinge , I tell them not to be so miserable lol my fave is when they whinge about the weather declaring miserable day

I happily inform them the day is fantastic tis they who is miserable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get pissed off. But it passes fairly fast.

I'm not pre-disposed "negative".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some _iew the glass as half full

Some _iew the glass as half empty

I chose to start each day with an empty glass and try my level best to fill it to the brim.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I am a realist, it can take me to being negative at times, but mostly I am a positive person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glass is always half full, and very resilient.

I have had some crap hands delt to me in the past, however, I always managed to bounce back in a short time.

Life goes on and the earth does not stop spinning because something bad/unpleasant has happened to me.

I consider myself to be very fortunate compared to those who have no clean water and do not know when they will be able to eat next.

Those closest and dearest to me all have similar outlook in life, and I do not have time for those who seem to attract or live under black clouds all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck the glass half full, go for a bucket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter what goes on in my life my glass is always half full. I've had the worst thrown at me but I still have a smile on my face, always people worse off than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a realist, it can take me to being negative at times, but mostly I am a positive person."

Well put!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

always look on the bright side of life dee do deedobeedobeedoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say like femme I can be a realist.

....which means I'll see things for what it is not what I want to see.

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?

No one it was something I was dealing with..."
Was it black v white? White V black? Black V Asian etc etc?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"always look on the bright side of life dee do deedobeedobeedoo"
That song is so fucking annoying!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?

No one it was something I was dealing with...Was it black v white? White V black? Black V Asian etc etc?"

Not really going into details....it was just racism it does not matter who it was between and it really does not make a difference...racism is racism regardless who was involved

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"always look on the bright side of life dee do deedobeedobeedooThat song is so fucking annoying! "

Lol thought you might find it annoying lol...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

ive got a song that ll get on your nerves

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By *obbygggMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?

No one it was something I was dealing with...Was it black v white? White V black? Black V Asian etc etc?

Not really going into details....it was just racism it does not matter who it was between and it really does not make a difference...racism is racism regardless who was involved "
I agree but there does seem to be an assumption when talking about racism it's usually whites who are assumed the perpetrators.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been a my glass is half full kind of person. Even through some of the dark periods in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, you're pretty, just get a meet, forget about the crap of the day and have fun fun fun :D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life Who wss racist towards you?

No one it was something I was dealing with...Was it black v white? White V black? Black V Asian etc etc?"

C'mon, spare a thought for the Innuits too. They tend not to be the most vocal. It's not a bed of roses for them either. Often, the best they can do is trot off for a blubber.

But then, they most likely don't have Jeremy Kyle.

They may n

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat Cadburys Dairy Milk. If the ads are to be believed, they have a glass and a half.

You sure? Yeah, i'm positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a realist, but a happy one!

I always used to say about someone I work with, who was soooo miserable, all the time, that he was never given a glass in the first place!

and has not stopped complaining about it ever since!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You don't have to look far on here to see negative people.

I am pretty much positive. I don't look it or sound it, but I never assume the worst, or feel that life is against me. I'm just rambling along in my own world.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Lol, you only got to read the whinging whining threads on here to see whose negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, you're pretty, just get a meet, forget about the crap of the day and have fun fun fun :D xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The glass is always empty in ireland because a full pint sitting infront of you means your a miserable so and so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always used to _iew myself as pessimistic but that is and was not an accurate portrayal at all. In fact I decided I was an optimistic pessimist: hoping for good but expecting the worse. Even that wasn't quite right, not when most people see me smiling all the time . So one word accurately describes me: realist.

However I'm not immune to my hormones, but once they have cleared I'm bubbly again. Also there are the odd people who grate on my nerves but providing my hormones aren't into play, I rise above it after a lickle vent .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Half full

but a realist.

Life is great for me but I own my life and influence it positively

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hey, you're pretty, just get a meet, forget about the crap of the day and have fun fun fun :D xx "

I'd be asleep before any fun....real life comes before fab

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

My glass is totally empty right now... is that negative ?? :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awh well, I do hope tomorrow brings better things for you, sweet dreams xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My glass is totally empty right now... is that negative ?? :P"

You've drank that large glass of wine? Have another

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"My glass is totally empty right now... is that negative ?? :P

You've drank that large glass of wine? Have another"

Ok .. no work tomorrow I will.. and its brandy and

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm in the middle. Erring towards the positive side. Actually no, I am positive! I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My glass is totally empty right now... is that negative ?? :P

You've drank that large glass of wine? Have another

Ok .. no work tomorrow I will.. and its brandy and

"

I'm more a vodka girl with regards to shorts and margaritas for cocktails . Always a glass empty girl then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say who gives a shit if the glass is empty or full. Just bloody drink the water and stop thinking about things you dont need to think about..just take what you have in front of you, and go for it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I go with the glass has something in it. Whether it's half empty or half full is irrelevant as there is still the same amount of something in it.

If there is room in the glass you can fill it up some more, if the glass is full to the brim you can only empty out some of it.

I'm really negative but with a positive aura.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emptiness is form, and form is emptiness, two meanings that should never exist side by side, and yet they do, just like negatives and positives because every pole has an opposite.

Trick is not to get caught between them.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"My glass is totally empty right now... is that negative ?? :P

You've drank that large glass of wine? Have another

Ok .. no work tomorrow I will.. and its brandy and

I'm more a vodka girl with regards to shorts and margaritas for cocktails . Always a glass empty girl then "

***********

mmmm margaritas.. yep my glass is either full or empty too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life "

We're all going to die sooner or later so why fret about anything. What does that statement make me?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

This last hour I have come to think it's not about whether the glass is half full or half empty thinking but that the negative don't like what they see in the glass, whatever it is. The positive just wonder what it tastes like and work to get it to taste better.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

95% positive here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely positive for me. Being around negative people drags me down. I always look for good rather than the bad in someone and believe that being positive makes you a happier person and fun to be around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am positive life is too short for anything else. Seize the moment and enjoy you only get one chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll go by experience. If I have had bad experience in a situation. I will always be negative until some good comes from it. Otherwise I will give anything a go.

People who know me well off this site would describe me as a positive and upbeat person until a woman comes along and feelings develop and then I am a negative person.

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

very positive person here lifes for living

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???"

I find life is quite full of life. I sometimes look at the moon and think it's empty of life. I suspect Mars has some life but is nowhere near half full. Just some germs in ice. Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say like femme I can be a realist.

....which means I'll see things for what it is not what I want to see.

"

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I usually say who gives a shit if the glass is empty or full. Just bloody drink the water and stop thinking about things you dont need to think about..just take what you have in front of you, and go for it.

"

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my older sister is so negative i cant stand to be in her company.

my mum died of cancer she found out she had it 4 months before she died, then 5 years later my dad found out he had lung cancer only they said he could have a lung removed and it might give him 5 more years to live, so he said thats what he would do.

i was so happy that he might have another 5 years yet all my sister could do was moan and say how awful it was that he had to have his lung removed, and she more or less said she would rather die than be cut open.

my dad lived for another five years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you say you are a negative person...do you look at life half full or half empty???

I've had a day of dealing with negative people and to be honest I've wanted to tell them to stop being so negative....alas I love my job so would not be wise...lol. I've also had to deal with racism that left me speechless....

I am a pretty up beat person and always see the positives in life "

Staying positive keeps me sane!

No point being negative. Most problems have solution or a Plan B. You're more likely to find a solution if you're positive though.

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By *aulsussex5Man
over a year ago

nr Gatwick

Half full? Half Empty? I dont mind either because either way there is room for VODKA!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am surrounded by negative people. Everything is a big disaster ... so they say. Yaaaawwwwnnnn.

I stay positive. Apart from when I'm a miserable grumpy bitch.

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